Famed lover of Pierre Abelard; their correspondence shed light on medieval French beliefs in romance, philosophy and social mores. Born probably of the Garlande Family in Paris, France, her family was of the upper middle class with money and several members in good positions in French society, although she was not of noble birth. When her parents died, she became the ward of her uncle, a Parisian canon named Fulbert, and at the age of 13, was sent to become a student of Pierre Abelard, one of the most noted teachers of philosophy in Paris. Of her, he wrote "A gift of letters is so rare in women that it added greatly to her charm and had won her renown throughout the realm." After several years studying under Abelard, they became lovers and eventually Heloise bore him a son, whom she named Astrolabius. Abelard, of French nobility birth who had rejected an honored position of a knight in the French Army to become a philosopher, then had Heloise sent to the convent of Argenteuil, where he secretly married her. Her uncle Fulbert ordered some of his friends to castrate Abelard, to revenge her loss of honor, and after the castration, Abelard became a monk. In 1129, when Abelard's order took possession of the Argenteuil convent where Heloise was a nun and evicted all of the nuns, Abelard arranged for her transfer to the Oratory of the Paraclete in the Champagne area of France, where two years later, Heloise became the abbess. After an absence of ten years, the two met again, and decided to write to each other. About the time that the two became correspondents, they began exchanging letters discussing love, romance, philosophy, politics, and the goings on of Parisian social life. Eventually, Abelard confessed in one of his letters that he never loved Heloise, but only lusted after her, and that he considered their relationship a sin against God. After that, their correspondence addressed professional and theological subjects rather than their romantic love. Several of their letters were published later in the book "Problemata Heloissae" (Heloise's Problems) in which she asks 42 theological questions of Abelard, and he replies to each of them. In 1141, when Abelard's teachings were condemned by the French Catholic Church, Abelard decided to travel to Rome to appeal to the Pope. After his arrival in Rome, he became ill and died the following year. Upon his death, his body was returned to Paraclete for burial. Following Abelard's death, Heloise continued to serve as abbess at the Paraclete for twenty additional years, until her own death. Her contributions to religion earned the monastery a reputation as one of the most important in France. Their story inspired the poem "The Convent Threshold" by Victorian English poet Christina Rossetti, and another poem "Eloisa to Abelard" by poet Alexander Pope, as well as the movie "Stealing Heaven" (1988). Although the Pere-Lachaise Cemetery in Paris is believed to be the most likely resting place of the two lovers, their final burial spot remains in dispute, with the Oratory of the Paraclete also claiming to be their final resting place.
Famed lover of Pierre Abelard; their correspondence shed light on medieval French beliefs in romance, philosophy and social mores. Born probably of the Garlande Family in Paris, France, her family was of the upper middle class with money and several members in good positions in French society, although she was not of noble birth. When her parents died, she became the ward of her uncle, a Parisian canon named Fulbert, and at the age of 13, was sent to become a student of Pierre Abelard, one of the most noted teachers of philosophy in Paris. Of her, he wrote "A gift of letters is so rare in women that it added greatly to her charm and had won her renown throughout the realm." After several years studying under Abelard, they became lovers and eventually Heloise bore him a son, whom she named Astrolabius. Abelard, of French nobility birth who had rejected an honored position of a knight in the French Army to become a philosopher, then had Heloise sent to the convent of Argenteuil, where he secretly married her. Her uncle Fulbert ordered some of his friends to castrate Abelard, to revenge her loss of honor, and after the castration, Abelard became a monk. In 1129, when Abelard's order took possession of the Argenteuil convent where Heloise was a nun and evicted all of the nuns, Abelard arranged for her transfer to the Oratory of the Paraclete in the Champagne area of France, where two years later, Heloise became the abbess. After an absence of ten years, the two met again, and decided to write to each other. About the time that the two became correspondents, they began exchanging letters discussing love, romance, philosophy, politics, and the goings on of Parisian social life. Eventually, Abelard confessed in one of his letters that he never loved Heloise, but only lusted after her, and that he considered their relationship a sin against God. After that, their correspondence addressed professional and theological subjects rather than their romantic love. Several of their letters were published later in the book "Problemata Heloissae" (Heloise's Problems) in which she asks 42 theological questions of Abelard, and he replies to each of them. In 1141, when Abelard's teachings were condemned by the French Catholic Church, Abelard decided to travel to Rome to appeal to the Pope. After his arrival in Rome, he became ill and died the following year. Upon his death, his body was returned to Paraclete for burial. Following Abelard's death, Heloise continued to serve as abbess at the Paraclete for twenty additional years, until her own death. Her contributions to religion earned the monastery a reputation as one of the most important in France. Their story inspired the poem "The Convent Threshold" by Victorian English poet Christina Rossetti, and another poem "Eloisa to Abelard" by poet Alexander Pope, as well as the movie "Stealing Heaven" (1988). Although the Pere-Lachaise Cemetery in Paris is believed to be the most likely resting place of the two lovers, their final burial spot remains in dispute, with the Oratory of the Paraclete also claiming to be their final resting place.
Les restes d'Héloïse et d'Abélard sont réunis dans ce tombeau. Les restes d'Héloïse et d'Abélard ont été transporté dans ce lieu l'an MDCCCXIX. Pierre Abailard, fondateur de cette abbaye vivoit dans le douzième siècle, il se distingua par la profondeur de son sçavoir et par la rareté de son mérite. Cependant il publia un traité de la trinité qui fut condamné par un concile tenu à Soissons en 1120. Il se rétracta aussitôt par une soumission parfaite et pour témoigner qu'il n'avoit que des sentimens orthodoxes il fit faire de cette seule pierre ces trois figures qui représentent les trois personnes divines dans une nature, après avoir consacré cette église au saint esprit qu'il nomma paraclet par rapport aux consolations qu'il avoit goutées pendant la retraite qu'il fit en ce lieu. Il avoit épouse Héloyse qui en fut la première abbesse. L'amour qui avoit uni leurs esprits durant leur vie et qui se conserva pendant leur absence par des lettres les plus tendres et les plus spirituelles a réuni leurs corps dans ce tombeau. Il mourut le 21 Avril l'an 1143, agé de 63 ans, après avoir donné l'un et l'autre des marques d'une vie chrétienne et spirituelle. Par très haute et très puissante dame Catherine de la Rochefoucauld abbesse. Le 3 Juin 1701
Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/1636/h%C3%A9lo%C3%AFse-d'argenteuil: accessed
), memorial page for Héloïse d'Argenteuil (18 Oct 1101–15 May 1164), Find a Grave Memorial ID 1636, citing Cimetière du Père Lachaise, Paris,
City of Paris,
Île-de-France,
France;
Maintained by Find a Grave.
Add Photos for Héloïse d'Argenteuil
Fulfill Photo Request for Héloïse d'Argenteuil
Photo Request Fulfilled
Thank you for fulfilling this photo request. An email has been sent to the person who requested the photo informing them that you have fulfilled their request
There is an open photo request for this memorial
Are you adding a grave photo that will fulfill this request?
Oops, some error occurred while uploading your photo(s).
Oops, something didn't work. Close this window, and upload the photo(s) again.
Make sure that the file is a photo. Photos larger than 8Mb will be reduced.
All photos uploaded successfully, click on the <b>Done button</b> to see the photos in the gallery.
General photo guidelines:
Photos larger than 8.0 MB will be optimized and reduced.
Each contributor can upload a maximum of 5 photos for a memorial.
A memorial can have a maximum of 20 photos from all contributors.
The sponsor of a memorial may add an additional 10 photos (for a total of 30 on the memorial).
Include gps location with grave photos where possible.
No animated GIFs, photos with additional graphics (borders, embellishments.)
You are only allowed to leave one flower per day for any given memorial.
Memorial Photos
This is a carousel with slides. Use Next and Previous buttons to navigate, or jump to a slide with the slide dots. Use Escape keyboard button or the Close button to close the carousel.
Quickly see who the memorial is for and when they lived and died and where they are buried.
Show Map
If the memorial includes GPS coordinates, simply click 'Show Map' to view the gravesite location within the cemetery. If no GPS coordinates are available, you can contribute by adding them if you know the precise location.
Photos
For memorials with more than one photo, additional photos will appear here or on the photos tab.
Photos Tab
All photos appear on this tab and here you can update the sort order of photos on memorials you manage. To view a photo in more detail or edit captions for photos you added, click the photo to open the photo viewer.
Flowers
Flowers added to the memorial appear on the bottom of the memorial or here on the Flowers tab. To add a flower, click the Leave a Flower button.
Family Members
Family members linked to this person will appear here.
Related searches
Use the links under See more… to quickly search for other people with the same last name in the same cemetery, city, county, etc.
Sponsor This Memorial
Remove advertising from a memorial by sponsoring it for just $5. Previously sponsored memorials or famous memorials will not have this option.
Share
Share this memorial using social media sites or email.
Save to
Save to an Ancestry Tree, a virtual cemetery, your clipboard for pasting or Print.
Edit or Suggest Edit
Edit a memorial you manage or suggest changes to the memorial manager.
Have Feedback
Thanks for using Find a Grave, if you have any feedback we would love to hear from you.
You may not upload any more photos to this memorial
"Unsupported file type"
Uploading...
Waiting...
Success
Failed
This photo was not uploaded because this memorial already has photos
This photo was not uploaded because you have already uploaded photos to this memorial
This photo was not uploaded because this memorial already has photos
This photo was not uploaded because you have already uploaded photos to this memorial
Invalid File Type
Uploading 1 Photo
Uploading 2 Photos
1 Photo Uploaded
2 Photos Uploaded
Added by
GREAT NEWS! There is 1 volunteer for this cemetery.
Sorry! There are no volunteers for this cemetery. Continuing with this request will add an alert to the cemetery page and any new volunteers will have the opportunity to fulfill your request.
Enter numeric value
Enter memorial Id
Year should not be greater than current year
Invalid memorial
Duplicate entry for memorial
You have chosen this person to be their own family member.
Reported!
This relationship is not possible based on lifespan dates.
0% Complete
Saved
Sign in or Register
Sign in to Find a Grave
Sign-in to link to existing account
There is a problem with your email/password.
There is a problem with your email/password.
There is a problem with your email/password.
We encountered an unknown problem. Please wait a few minutes and try again. If the problem persists contact Find a Grave.
We’ve updated the security on the site. Please reset your password.
Your account has been locked for 30 minutes due to too many failed sign in attempts. Please contact Find a Grave at [email protected] if you need help resetting your password.
This account has been disabled. If you have questions, please contact [email protected]
This account has been disabled. If you have questions, please contact [email protected]
Email not found
Please complete the captcha to let us know you are a real person.
Sign in to your existing Find a Grave account. You’ll only have to do this once—after your accounts are connected, you can sign in using your Ancestry sign in or your Find a Grave sign in.
We found an existing Find a Grave account associated with your email address. Sign in below with your Find a Grave credentials to link your Ancestry account. After your accounts are connected you can sign in using either account.
Please enter your email to sign in.
Please enter your password to sign in.
Please enter your email and password to sign in.
There is a problem with your email/password.
A system error has occurred. Please try again later.
A password reset email has been sent to EmailID. If you don't see an email, please check your spam folder.
We encountered an unknown problem. Please wait a few minutes and try again. If the problem persists contact Find a Grave.
Password Reset
Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code.
Registration Options
Welcome to Find a Grave
Create your free account by choosing an option below.
or
Ancestry account link
To create your account, Ancestry will share your name and email address with Find a Grave. To continue choose an option below.
or
If you already have a Find a Grave account, please sign in to link to Ancestry®.
New Member Registration
Email is mandatory
Email and Password are mandatory
This account already exists, but the email address still needs to be confirmed. Resend Activation Email
Your password is not strong enough
Invalid Email
You must agree to Terms and Conditions
Account already exists
Please check the I'm not a robot checkbox
Internal Server error occurred
If you want to be a Photo Volunteer you must enter a ZIP Code or select your location on the map
You must select an email preference
We have sent you an activation email
Your new password must contain one or more uppercase and lowercase letters, and one or more numbers or special characters.
We just emailed an activation code to
Please check your email and click on the link to activate your account.
cemeteries found in will be saved to your photo volunteer list.
cemeteries found within miles of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list.
cemeteries found within kilometers of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list.
Within 5 miles of your location.
Within 5 kilometers of your location.
0 cemeteries found in .
0 cemeteries found.
Add a cemetery to fulfill photo requests
You can customize the cemeteries you volunteer for by selecting or deselecting below.
Search above to list available cemeteries.
Getting location…
Loading...
Loading...
No cemeteries found
Find a Grave Video Tutorials
Default Language
Translation on Find a Grave is an ongoing project. If you notice a problem with the translation, please send a message to [email protected] and include a link to the page and details about the problem. Thanks for your help!
Preferred Language
We have set your language to based on information from your browser.