I have 5 children, 3 biological and 2 surrogate, and 7 biological and 7 surrogate grandchildren. I am the family historian and I have most of my family members in Pennsylvania and Ohio. My family names in Pa. are Demange, Mahaffey, and McArdle and Williams in Ohio. I'm now on disability so I no longer work. I do alot of baking and collect recipies and share them as well.
About transfers. I would prefer if you did ask for transfers as I've always believed that they ,(the memorials) belong to family/friends who will manage them and add info that I would never know about.