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Kathy (McPhaul) Cather (#46821758)
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Bio Photo May 2011
Thank you again to all who continue to visit my angel momma and other memorials. Your thoughtfulness is always appreciated.

If you have time, this Memorial Day, please visit my step son's Fallen Battalion Brothers of the 3/25th Marines who lost their lives in Iraq in 2005. (Virtual Cemetery 10) My step son is being re-deployed this summer. Please keep him in your prayers.

May each of you be abundantly blessed!! XOXO


~~ Dear Ancestor ~~
Your tombstone stands among the rest, neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out on polished, marbled stone.
It reaches out to all who care; it is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist; You died, and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you: in flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled one hundred years ago
Spreads out among the ones you left who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
And come to visit you.

--Author Unknown


1 Dec 2009: Posted a Memorial for my friend and well known Paralympian, RANDY SNOW. Please pay him a visit if you have the time and keep his family in your prayers. Thank you!!

June 17...Posted my mom's pics. They look AWSOME!!!..Unfortunately had to delete some of her paintings...:-(

June 8, 2009

Thank you so very much for taking so much time to share your insights with me. FindAGrave is a TRUE Godsend!!!! and it is people like you, who reach out to complete strangers, that make it that way!!

Currently researching ALL McPHAULs, CATHERs and FITZWILLIAMs (regardless of Ancestry, Line, Race, Religion, Etc. ) and their descendants. Would LOVE to hear from you!
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Messages left for Kathy (McPhaul)... (692)[Leave Message]
Bonnie Lin Nimerfroh
RE: Your son
Added by Bonnie Lin Nimerfroh on Nov 15, 2014 2:13 AM
RE: John Mallonee
Cool I look forward to hearing from you
Added by Michelle on Nov 14, 2014 2:24 PM
RE: John Mallonee
Thank you!. Please if you find another place for me to look I would love to finally find this man!! He is very popular.
Added by Michelle on Nov 14, 2014 11:36 AM

I have attempted to locate this grave a few times in the past whenever it comes up. I have placed the above link for you to read. It may help in locating the actual grave of this person.
Please let me know what you think. If you come up with a different cemetery for him I will try and scout it out if you are not local.
Added by Michelle on Nov 14, 2014 6:07 AM
Mark Dixon
Jerry McPhaul memorial
It sounds very likely this is the Jeremiah McPhaul you are looking for, given the location and the proximity of the dates. If you would like a picture to make sure I'd say go ahead and request it through the memorial page. It is entirely possible that I will be the one to fulfill the request, I have done over 100 at Lakeview Cemetery, but I am not sure right now when I will next have a chance to get by there again. It is not far out of my way on my work commute, but with limited daylight this time of year it requires additional reworking of my schedule. So if someone else can get by sooner, I would not want to be the hold up on you getting confirmation.

Thanks for the kind words, I spent a lot of time this summer cleaning up that cemetery's records. It is nice to see people benefiting from that effort.

Added by Mark Dixon on Nov 03, 2014 7:59 AM
Roger Adams
RE: LCpl Lance Tanner Graham
It's very little to do in comparison to his sacrifice, I was his fathers motorcycle partner with SAPD for a while, I remember him as a kid...not knowing I was talking to and standing by a future American Hero.....a great family....
Added by Roger Adams on Nov 03, 2014 7:57 AM
Linda Davis
RE: Julian Earle Conoly
I didn't even know I was filling a photo request!

I just took some random photos from the car window as we drove through the cemetery....visiting the area. Later back home, I looked to see if any memorial needed a photo...only three did as most had been photographed some time ago. I posted Julian's and BINGO an auto reply appeared thanking for filling the request. Well, that was a surprise for me!

You may use the photo as you please.

Have blessed day.
Added by Linda Davis on Oct 25, 2014 8:41 PM
Valenciaღ Angel of Mine 💕
~♡~ A note to say thank you for remembering my daughter's birthday. It means so much to me that Valencia was thought of on her special day, and continue to show your remembrance and support ~♡~

{{{Hugs}}} Yo

Added by Valenciaღ Angel of ... on Oct 21, 2014 4:43 PM
Chris Cintron
RE: Mary Alford

You are welcome and certainly use it any way you wish. Some of the headstone pics are the only ones I have of my ancestors.

There was a huge family plot with a lot of stones. If you ever need the others let me know.


Added by Chris Cintron on Oct 15, 2014 5:24 PM
Kevin Mittge
RE: Capt Harland Robert Morris
Yes, I'm a distant cousin. I'm tracing all the descendants of my Oregon Trail families and finally found some of the Morris's, back in D.C.! Kevin
Added by Kevin Mittge on Oct 13, 2014 11:02 AM
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