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Betty Frain (#46858568)
 member for 8 years, 3 months, 13 days
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Eighteen or nineteen years ago a friend told me she had a new hobby, genealogy, and how much fun she was having. I immediately contacted my mother who informed me that we owned three family Bibles. I have been deep into this ever since. I started with my mother's family in Loudoun County, VA. Her parents were third cousins, a fact she did not know. Of course I added my father's family, my husband's family, and both my daughter-in-law's and son-in-law's families. Then by adding wives, mothers, sisters, brothers, ancestors, descendants, I have ended up with a database of about 37,000. All are related to me or to someone I am related to.
Most of my time has been spent in Loudoun County, Virginia. I wrote two books on Union Cemetery in Leesburg, a book on Monocacy Cemetery in Bealsville, Montgomery County, MD, Death Records of Fairfax County, VA, and co-authored books on the Death Records of Loudoun County, VA and Marriages after 1850 in Loudoun County, Va. I have also been involved in the preparation of Cemetery Books published by Thomas Balch Library. All of these books are available through Heritage Books.

I am more than happy to share any information I have. My cemetery pictures are there for anyone who needs them. They have been taken over the last 19 years. I will ask that you let me know if you are using a family picture because that means you are probably at least a cousin and I want to know you.

If you see errors, please let me know. Let's get all these people linked! But PLEASE everyone, use the Edit button on the memorial that needs changing! It takes about 2 minutes to make changes using that button. It can take 1/2 an hour or more to find the memorial you would like changed, if you don't use that button, and often I cannot be sure if I am looking at the correct person even then. In that case I may spend an hour or more looking. That takes away from someone else's time. Be fair!


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Kelt Smith
Mildred G. Davis
Thank you for adding the post for my cousin
Mildred G. Davis 84739403

Favor: Would you please link (her) to her parents ?

I thank you ..... Kelt

father: 23734170
mother: 23734298
Added by Kelt Smith on Nov 25, 2014 8:16 PM
Ann Elizabeth Custard Koerwer
Thank you for posting the marker photo
Added by JGHLF on Nov 24, 2014 10:15 PM
Dowell Muse
Hillside Cemetery
Betty: My name is Dowell Muse and I am doing some research on the Muse and Lefever families in Va. I attempted to locate Hillside Cemetary and could not locate it. Things are quite different in the Asburn/Waxpool area since I was a kid. I live in Leesburg and don't know that "new" Ashburn very well. Could you possibly provide any hints or landmarks where the cemetery is? Know the general location, must have just missed it. Thanks.
Added by Dowell Muse on Nov 22, 2014 12:42 PM
Sharon Godfrey Lilley Kelly
Hello Betty,

Since I read on your profile that you would like to meet possible cousins, I am writing to you because I saw your profile through the Lee family and related families/descendants that you have created memorials for. They are cousins on my dad's side, although not close cousins. How are you related to them?

Added by Sharon Godfrey Lilley Kel... on Nov 15, 2014 11:40 AM
McNish photo
Thank you Betty!-Stephen
Added by sanford on Nov 13, 2014 4:43 PM
John P. Chase, Sr
Thank you so much for taking photo of his memorial.
Carolyn 😊
Added by Piper on Nov 13, 2014 11:38 AM
Anna Lee Peterson
Thank you for tansfer
Thank you so much!
Added by Anna Lee Peterson on Nov 06, 2014 9:52 AM
RE: Claude Manning - Union Leesburg
Oh, no, lovely to offer but not necessary. He is a distant cousin, and whether he is memorialized or buried there is of no import. It is only that in trying to find genetic matches, it would be nice to know where he was for the last 20 years and if he had descendants. Thanks for all you do!
Added by Ellen on Nov 02, 2014 3:32 PM
RE: Claude Manning - Union Leesburg
I suspect the Claude in California is the Claude memorialized in Virginia ... the name and dates line up. No biggie, just like to tidy things up. Thanks for responding, and if you ever do find more, I would be interested. Best, Ellen
Added by Ellen on Nov 02, 2014 3:22 PM
Raymond Stabile
G Jean Lonce

Thank you very much for taking the time to take a photo of my cousin's grave. it's much appreciated!

Added by Raymond Stabile on Oct 30, 2014 5:12 AM
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