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Janet Stephens Bentler (#47483298)
 member for 4 years, 2 months, 26 days
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Have been researching my family history since the 1970's. Families include Stephens, Morgan, Anderson, Reining, Paul and Roegge (primarily in Cass & Morgan Counties, central Illinois); Bentler and Harris in Sangamon County, Illinois, and in the Chicago region the Hoppe and Jasmund families.

Have just recently (2014) begun creating memorials for persons not related to me, simply because as I walk through cemeteries searching for my own relatives, I photograph many graves. Often they turn out to be those I was searching for; sometimes they are not. If they're not already in FindAGrave, I add them. I will be happy to transfer any memorials that are not related to me.
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 • 135 Memorials Added
 • 207 Memorials Managed
 • 1 Memorial/week
 • 324 Photos
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Shanna (Flaherty) Pierce
RE: Marcella (Curtis) Kennedy FindAGrave memorial
YOU WROTE:::::Marcella (Curtis) Kennedy FindAGrave memorial
Shanna, In over 40 years of genealogy work, yours is the ONLY hateful message I've ever received. Do not ever use the derogatory term 'duped' with me again. Both of the Marcella (Curtis) Kennedy FindAGrave memorials were originally created by the Project Next Generation people at the Beardstown Library on July 5, 2011. They are the only ones who can delete them. As a family member having all of Marcella's pertinent information that was lacking, I submitted it in the proper fashion via the edit/suggest feature so they could update and condense the two memorials into one. THEY INSTEAD TRANSFERRED BOTH MEMORIALS TO ME. I did not request the transfers. After making the corrections, I learned I am unable to delete either of them due to FindAGrave policy. A memorial can ONLY be deleted by its original creator.

As for JLM's January 2011 memorial for Marcella, it too lacks even the most basic information. There isn't even a birthdate. May I suggest that once JLM's memorial is properly completed, you then contact the team at Project Next Generation so they may delete both of the 'offending' memorials they transferred to me.

I notice on your contributor page that you "do not police other contributors", and that "there is no need to be rude and demanding." YOU HAVE BEEN BOTH. You are in violation of your own personal message demanding others to be respectful.

Janet (Stephens) Bentler

FOR YOUR INFORMATION! I was not policeing anyone. I was adding memorials and when I went to add hers that is when I found there were THREE. Since you are manager of the two that were transferred to you in error, you need to take it up with the contributor and NOT tell me to do it for you.

All I have to say to you is BACK OFF!!! I have forwarded your RUDE message to Find A Grave ADMIN!!!!
Added by Shanna (Flaherty) Pierce on May 23, 2015 6:23 AM
Shanna (Flaherty) Pierce
RE: Marcella (Curtis) Kennedy FindAGrave memorial
I am sorry that you feel my message was rude. But it wasn't. The below email message is what I sent you.

You duped this memorial twice and BOTH are dupes of the original that was created in January. Original: Created by: JLM
Record added: Jan 02, 2011
Find A Grave Memorial# 63646647


Please delete this one too.

I was only bringing it to your attention. There is nothing wrong with the word 'duped'. I receive it in messages as well and I do not take offense to it.

If anyone's message is rude it is yours. Please take a deep breath, calm down before writing a message in the future.
Added by Shanna (Flaherty) Pierce on May 23, 2015 6:20 AM
Linda Z
RE: Obituary Elmer Anderson July 19,1907
Thank you so much for your help!
Added by Linda Z on Mar 27, 2015 8:16 PM
Linda Z
Obituary Elmer Anderson July 19,1907
I am Elmer Anderson's daughter and would like to put his obituary on find a grave because only step kids are listed
Added by Linda Z on Mar 23, 2015 8:05 AM
LaDon Brennan
Wells
Thank you for the excellent photo of the headstone for Howard and Helen. It was especially helpful in verify their dates. I appreciate the time you took.
Added by LaDon Brennan on Jun 15, 2014 7:54 PM
RamblinRose
Charles Bentler
Janet, so happy to transfer Charles to you.
Added by RamblinRose on Apr 10, 2014 11:53 AM
Toby Chamberlain
RE: Mary L Harris memorial #45072511
Will do it but it may take awhile...I am in the hospital and then up to 3 weeks of rehab.

Toby

Added by Toby Chamberlain on Jul 16, 2013 12:21 PM
Toby Chamberlain
Mary Harris
Janet

Per your request I have transferred Mary Harris. Happy to do it for you since you are family.

Toby Chamberlain
Added by Toby Chamberlain on Jun 08, 2013 10:52 AM
Project Next Generation@ Beardstown Houston Memori
Beardstown Transfers
I've transferred about half of them. Still working on the others. Should be done by tonight or tomorrow.
Thanks!
Molly Rice
Added by Project Next Generation@ ... on Mar 21, 2013 4:46 PM
Project Next Generation@ Beardstown Houston Memori
Beardstown Burials
Hello,
Please let me know which entries you would like transferred to you and I would be happy to turn them over.
Thanks!
Molly Rice
Director
Beardstown Houston Memorial Library
Added by Project Next Generation@ ... on Mar 19, 2013 8:57 AM
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