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First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.|
I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of close losses in the past few years.
Our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Since then my silversmith teacher, some of my favorite school teachers, and guiding figures from my church have also passed. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.
I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.
If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Randall Buckley? This is our friend Paula's brother.
If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.
If you have a moment, would you please send prayers to fellow contributor Ann H?
And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.
Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.
Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.
On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.
FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen
So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.
It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.
Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.
Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
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|Matt Richards||Ludwig Eichenhofer|
Thanks so much for adding Ludwig's listing to Find A Grave! Ludwig was my great x4 grandfather.
Francis Xavier Eichenhofer, who was married to your great-great-grandmother's sister Josephine Merkert, was the nephew of my great-great-great-grandfather, Anton Magnus Eichenhofer.
You are correct that Ludwig was the patriarch of the Eichenhofer family, which hailed from the village of Beuren an der Aach, Germany, although he was not the first of the family to arrive -- that was Anton Magnus, who arrived in 1870. His siblings Nicodemus and Alexander (Francis Xavier's dad) arrived on April 26, 1872, and Ludwig came over a short time later with Nicodemus wife & children on Aug. 17, 1872.
Thanks very much I received your message today and will take care of that tomorrow:) Tina
Thank you so much! I appreciate the extra information. Best wishes to you!
Added by alought on Jul 30, 2015 5:18 PM
|Linda Weir||Archibald C Weir b 1904|
I just came across his death certificate and then seen you have him on here. I posted flowers and msg. I did happen to find a birth index on him.
Name: Archibald Christian Weir
Event Type: Birth
Event Date: 25 Nov 1904
Event Place: Philadelphia, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Father's Name: Harry Weir
Mother's Name: Mary Kurtz
Reference ID: cn 21993 , GS Film number: 2110933 , Digital Folder Number: 004202721 , Image Number: 00352
Citing this Record
"Pennsylvania, Philadelphia City Births, 1860-1906," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VBBL-TMS : accessed 8 July 2015), Harry Weir in entry for Archibald Christian Weir, 25 Nov 1904; citing cn 21993, Department of Records; FHL microfilm 2,110,933.
|David Red||Murder hollow|
I found you through researching the murders in 1851 in Roxborough. My family members currently live on one of the adjacent properties and I am looking for info on both the murders and the history of the surrounding houses.
I really appreciate the work you've done and would love a little more info of available. Do you know specifically which house belonged to the Bartels?
Thank you for your time,
|C Greer||RE: thank you...|
The Duncan info came from the Cedar Hill database. I spend a lot of time there. Walking at least 3-4 times a week, taking photos, enjoying the parks.
Added by C Greer on Jul 07, 2015 11:08 PM
|Linda Weir||Sallie K McElhaney|
I uploaded DC on Sally K McElhaney. If you would like any of the document's I've found I will gladly send them to you.
Name: Sallie K Mc Elhaney
Birth Date: 18 Jun 1830
Birth Place: Pennsylvania
Death Date: 5 Jan 1920
Death Place: Philadelphia, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA
Father Name: James Weir
Father Birth Place: Scotland
Mother Name: Sarah Rex
Mother Birth Place: Pennsylvania
Certificate Number: 2482
|Linda Weir||Ella H Weir Rementer|
I apologize for all the emails but I'm just very happy to connect our Weir's to their families. I uploaded Ella's DC which has James Weir and Sarah A Rex as her parents.
I also uploaded Laura Weir Lightkep's DC to her memorial which also has James and Sarah as her parents. Cate has added Laura's parents to her memorial.
I also created a memorial for John H Weir, James and Sarah's son.
I also found Mary E Weir Mooney's DC. She is in Westminster Cemetary.
|Linda Weir||Sallie McElhaney|
I uploaded a marriage doc for Sallie, husband Lewis. What is interesting is her last name is Weir. What I'm finding when searching for Sarah Weir which shows Sarah McElhaney in the 1880 census living with her father James Weir, was this Sallie Weir In church documents with Archibald, Mary E. Weir which are Sarah's siblings. Could Sarah and Sallie both born 1850 be the same person? I did find a document which is addressing Lewis McElhaney's burial has Sarah McElhaney on it year 1894. I don't know if you came across these documents but if you would like I can email them to you.
|Linda Weir||Correction for John H Weir spouse|
I'm sorry but John H Weir's spouse is the following Clara Weir. In the 1900 census John is widowed and he is living with his mother Sarah age 71 and his daughter Ethel Weir age 12. Philadelphia ward 21.
Find A Grave Memorial# 79949835
Birth Date 1870
Birth Place Philadelphia, Philadelphia County, Pennsylvania, USA
Death Date 6 Apr 1896
Death Place Roxborough, Philadelphia County, Pennsylvania, USA
Cemetery Roxborough Presbyterian Burial Grounds
Burial or Cremation Place Roxborough, Philadelphia County, Pennsylvania, USA
Sharing what I find in case you have not come across it.
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