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Michael J. Lanni (#47019264)
 member for 6 years, 8 months, 16 days
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Bio Photo Was born in NJ and raised there and NY. I am looking mostly for the Cook family,Lanni family (out of Jersey City )Taylor but always love to get information on anyone in my tree
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inappropriate flowers
I report the flowers as Abusive, and Find A Grave should remove them.
Added by RobMinteer57 on Feb 24, 2015 10:43 PM
Carole Anne Kelleher
memorial 88052055
Sir, I doubt that you knew my Grandfather, your flowers on his memorial are a nice touch, but please remove that hideous statement about how you are related, as it makes no sense. I have looked at your tree on Ancestry, and it is full of errors. The information posted on needs to be correct so that other people don't make your same mistakes. If you would like me to point these out to you, I will.

I have also seen many more of these so called "flower messages" and I see by your bio, that you have ticked off a good deal of people. The memorials are exactly that, a memorial to the deceased and information about that individual.

The memorial is NOT ABOUT YOU! While I am thinking about it, I am going to send you a link to what I consider your problem to be. You are a Narcissist! Maybe if you read about this emotional problem, you can fix yourself and not plaster crap on other people's memorials.

Please remove your information from my Grandpa's memorial.
Added by Carole Anne Kelleher on Feb 21, 2015 6:32 PM
Madeline Nielson 53574346
This is a second request to remove the flower message on this memorial. It is not appropriate.
thank you
Added by RememberThem on Jan 19, 2015 8:28 PM
Robyn Pauley
Please remove your messages on the following memorials:

# 33448948
# 33449064
# 33677229

I have seen many more messages of yours on my relatives and I find them totally inappropriate, in very poor taste and are ridiculous.
Added by Robyn Pauley on Jan 16, 2015 5:51 PM
Madeline Parker Nielson 53574346
Please remove the flower message from my family member's memorial.
Thank you.

Added by RememberThem on Dec 01, 2014 6:33 PM
Joseph W Parker
Find A Grave Memorial # 9537772
Please remove or change to flower message on this memorial.
This type of message is inappropriate as well as dishonest.

Please correct.
Thank you
Added by RememberThem on Nov 19, 2014 12:30 PM
Laura Austin-Ely
Find A Grave Memorial# 75602610
Dear Mr. Lanni, I would greatly appreciate it if you would remove the lineage portion of your flower offering to my grandmother, Alice Waunetta Smith Austin Cerf.
While I truly understand leaving bread crumbs in the hope that others related to you, may see your offering and contact you. However, I doubt you would sent flowers to a deceased friend or relative with the same message.
Respectfully, Laura Austin-Ely
Added by Laura Austin-Ely on Nov 03, 2014 9:44 AM
Eugene Cramer 36262524
Please remove the flower message on
Eugene Cramer memorial #36262524.
This type of message is against Find A Grave rules.
Added by FamilyFirst on Oct 24, 2014 2:34 PM
Misuse of Flower
Please remove your message in memorial # 97805.
Added by SMSmith on Oct 22, 2014 5:41 PM
Please remove distant relation messages!
Would you please remove the inappropriate distant relation messages you left on the following memorials?


It doesn't seem respectful or appropriate to leave a message about your VERY distant relationship on someone's (virtual) grave. Not the right venue for it.

All you have to do is go to the memorial page, click on the flower image you left, then click on 'remove offering'.

I would appreciate your removing them so I don't have to report them all as abuse. Thanks.
Added by HTD360 on Oct 17, 2014 12:14 AM
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