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Lutetia (#46580078)
 member for 13 years, 4 months, 21 days
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Bio Photo I was born in 1981 near Leipzig, Germany and still live there with my mother.

In 2014 I've FINALLY finished my second cemetery (75 graves and it took only 5 years to add them all)
So go and leave some flowers. Bergfriedhof Mölkau

It would be very nice of you if you would leave some flowers for my other interments as well.

Thank you.

*Now on to the important things*

Public messages: If you ask me something or send me a S.A.C. and there is the possibility that I write something back (like when you ask: What do you think?) It would be totally amazing if you have your public messages enabled... or a working email address.


Photos: All grave photos taken and posted by me may not be used by you without my permission. Ask, and I probably grant it, but please do not steal them and re-post them somewhere.


Linking family members:
I will not link to memorials where the place of burial is unknown.
Find out where they are buried and then contact me. This is 'Find A Grave' after all.

I will only transfer within four generations.

Maiden names:
See here

Naming Conventions: Famous Memorials (which in my case concerns mostly nobles that could be famous if I moved my ass and wrote a proper bio)
See here

A short German-English lesson:
Ehemann - husband
Ehefrau - wife
Gattin - wife
Gattin von - wife of
Liebling - darling
Mutter - mother
Sohn / Söhnchen - son / baby son
Schwester - Sister
seine - his
Tochter/Töchterlein - daughter/baby daughter
unser/unsre - our
Vater/Papa - Father
Mutter/Mama - Mother

Two words in Czech

Rozena/Rozen - born
Rodina - family

Disclaimer: (because, apparently I need one)
If I send you a S.A.C. which sounds insulting, assume that it was not my intention. I still have problems with the English language and sometimes just don't come across the way I want.
When you call me a liar to the whole community, be prepared to be ridiculed in front of said community.... and of course, when an Admin deletes a memorial you will no longer see it. xxx


For everyone who actually read through this, thank you for your attention.
For those who didn't, I completely understand you, but it is tiresome to explain every week why I've send this or that correction.
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Messages left for Lutetia (119)[Leave Message]
Kendall Mellem
Memorial 127847046
Hello, Susann! Thank you for your recent edit for Otto Gessner, suggesting his name should be spelled Geßner. I understand the rules for use of the "ß" and also that Dr. Geßner did spell his name this way. However, I'm unsure about whether to use the "ß" on Find a Grave. I don't find many memorials where it has been used and fear that most people looking up names would use "ss" instead of "ß." (I think most non-speakers of German don't even know how to make an "ß" on their computers.) Are my fears unreasonable? Do you know whether or not Find a Grave has taken a position on the use of this special letter? I am quite willing to accept your edit but wanted you to know of my concerns. What do you think?
Thanks again!
Added by Kendall Mellem on Oct 19, 2016 6:44 PM
Thank you Lutetia
I would like to thank you sincerely, Lutetia, for spending so much time entering memorials. I found some of my "ancient" matriarchs and patriarchs entered by you for which I am very grateful. You bring so much closure to people around the world. I also think your grasp of English is excellent. In my lineages (to name a few) there is German, English, Italian, French, Swedish, Danish, Norwegian and so it goes on. I know one German song, a few words of Swedish, a few more of Italian and still expanding my native English language :). When I met my Italian cousins, I found that I had learnt a different Italian dialect to that of my family. Interesting!
Thank you so much again and every blessing to you for your labour of love.
Added by Coralie on Sep 29, 2016 6:02 PM
RE: I want to bring this to your attention
That is horrible news! I certainly feel for you. This will set the records strait on what went on. Thank you!!
Added by Dolores on Sep 28, 2016 8:55 PM
Janet Personette
Reading your contributions
I have been reading some of your find a grave pages because they're interesting. You have done such a tremendous amount of work and those of us in this world who loved reading about history and the people who created it I am so grateful. And yes I read your whole bio on your page and I enjoyed it. Thank you so much for sharing these pages with those of us who really like it.
Added by Janet Personette on Sep 21, 2016 8:34 PM
I want to bring this to your attention
You have been accused of antisemitism. Is it true that you dislike the Jews?
Added by Dolores on Sep 17, 2016 3:52 PM
Linda T.
Question about...

this grave has a placard which gives different birth and death locations than are on the record. Do you happen to remember why the record locations are as they are? Or do you have a way to know which locations are accurate?
Thank you.
Added by Linda T. on Sep 08, 2016 8:23 AM
Christine Rouleaux
Pisarowitz 165025212
Wie schön mein Ur grossvater hier zu sehen. Danke das Sie Ihm auf FindaGrave gesetzt haben.
Ich habe begriffen das die möglichkeit besteht das Ich als familië für diese Gedenktafel sorgen kann.
Würden Sie das für mich tun. Das bedeuted mir sehr viel.
Ich danke Ihnen im Voraus.

Alles Liebe,
Elly Pisarowitz (Holland)
Added by Christine Rouleaux on Aug 28, 2016 1:08 PM
Mary E P
Julius Pisarowitz 165025212
hello, Would you transfer management of my grt grt grandfather to me. I have lots of information on him I would like to add. You've been very helpful in finding his and especially the link to the Prager Tagblatt.

Mary E P #47079221
Added by Mary E P on Aug 20, 2016 9:29 AM
Mary E P
Julius Pisarowitz

Would you send me a copy of Julius's obituary you've posted on his memorial? I'd like to have a copy to send to my Pisarowitz cousins. This is the elder Julius memorial number 165025212. My email is,

Thank you,

Mary 47079221
Added by Mary E P on Aug 13, 2016 7:31 AM
Rosalind Parneix
Alphonse II de Provence Count
I just noticed an incorrect burial place. The correct burial is: Eglise Saint-Jean-de Malte in Aix-en-Provence. I took the two photos used in October, 2014 and just now noticed the place error and incorrect church name. Please change. Thank you very much.
Added by Rosalind Parneix on Aug 07, 2016 10:17 AM
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