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Clair H (#47460789)
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Bio Photo I am married to my wonderful wife Ann. Our precious children are grown. I have 2 dogs and 3 cats. I am the Son of Clair L. Howard Sr. and Hazel (Hall) Howard.

I appreciate each flower and token that all of you leave for my dear family and my furbabies.

My Mom 1914-1983

My Dad 1905-1972

My Sister Nancy 1938-1982

My brother Walt 1931-1993

Our Cat Amber Dec. 7, 1995-April 17, 2011

Our Quaker parrot Chico Jun. 5, 2003-June 21, 2011

Our cat Cinny Oct. 7, 1999-Sept. 14, 2011

Our Miniature Schnauzer Snookie Feb. 4, 1994-Dec. 26th 2004

Our chihuahua Chili Bean Nov. 5, 1994-Nov. 11, 2004

My sister Barb 1935-2010

I am very sad and heart broken because my precious wife Ann is dying. She is the love of my life and she needs prayers to be healed. I can't face the fact that she may be taken from me if God calls her home.

Sept. 28, 2014 It is our anniversary today. My precious wife is still with us and fights so hard everyday. She is growing weaker by the day. She doesn't tell anyone how sick she really is. Thank you for all the prayers. Ann went in to the hospital Monday 8th She was in so much pain that she could not stand it very much. They sad her potassium was critical at 6.6. It was supposed to not to be more that 5. It is now 4.1 but her heart and kidneys aren't working right. October 22 Ann quantified for Hospice Friday and at 12:20 pm we signed the papers to put her in there care. She is taking Morphine for the pain and to help her breath and ativin to keep her calm. The Hospital bed came today.

Ann went in to the hospital 10/23 by ambulance and they took blood test and show that her kidney was at 90% failure. They said she would only last couple of days. they di also blood gas and show ph and carbon dioxide in her ystem because her bad lung. So they put a cpass on her to keep her lung open to get rid of the carbon dioxide. Then they move her to ICU gave her fluidhope to get her kidneys working again.

The kidney never didn't start back up again. We asked the nurse about the cpass on her said it keep her lung blown up so she could beath. Her daughter and I talk it over and said the cpass was the same thing but without the tube down her and that she didn't want that. So we told the nurse to take it off and within 20 minute it was over and she went to heaven. She died around 11.30 pm. on October 23.

Thank you Reilly for sponsoring my sister Barbara's memorial.

Thank you Delita for sponsoring my mother's memorial.

Thank you Anya (soapykitties) for sponsoring my dad's memorial.

Thank you Rosetta Neeson for sponsoring my Sister Nancy's Memorial.

Thank you Rosetta Neeson for sponsoring my Brother Sgt Walter "Walt" Stucker, Jr's Memorial.

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rosie mcnaughton
Dear Clair,
I'm so sad for you, your family and all of us, but you did the best thing in letting Ann go. She was an inspiration to all of us as we watched her will to live manifest itself in such a dignified way. I don't think we will feel she is gone from this site. She was such a strong presence. She told us all good bye in her last message, and she knew it was coming. So did we, but...we hoped...Prayers for you and your lovely family who will miss Ann so much. You are all part of our Find A Grave family. God bless you all.

Rosie McNaughton
Added by rosie mcnaughton on Oct 25, 2014 10:23 AM
I Just Heard the News!
Our prayers are with you and your family! I just learned from Rosie this morning about Ann! She was such an amazing lady and a wonderful, amazing friend!
Her pain and suffering are over, she's in Heaven now with her loved ones who have gone before her. Please know that all of you have our love, support and prayers!
God Bless You All!
Added by Cari on Oct 25, 2014 10:04 AM
Grave Finder
Sending prayers your way for the loss of your wife, partner, friend. She is free from pain now. God Bless you.
Added by Grave Finder on Oct 25, 2014 9:50 AM
Barbara Hunnicutt Edwards
Added by Barbara Hunnicutt Edwards on Oct 25, 2014 9:44 AM
Alice Morton
Dear Clair
There isn't anything I can say that hasn't already been said by so many posts before mine. Just know that I am so sorry for Ann's passing and know the struggle you will have without her. One day at a time your journey will continue. Bless you.
Added by Alice Morton on Oct 25, 2014 8:37 AM
John R
Sorry for your loss
Thought's and prayers for you and your family
Added by John R on Oct 25, 2014 7:56 AM
Precious Ann
Dearest Clair,
I share comfort in knowing Ann is no longer suffering. I'm sending many thoughts of sympathy and support to you as you begin your journey without her. Remembering you and Ann in my mind and in my hearts. ❤
Much love and many huggles, Suse

"Believe in Angels. They express themselves in many ways, a dream, a whisper, coincidence an overpowering feeling." ~ Author Unknown
Added by sniksnak on Oct 25, 2014 7:51 AM
Forever Pop
Dearest Clair
I'm so sorry for your loss- in spite of Ann's health struggles it was obvious how loved, grateful and cared for she was by you and her family. The greatest gift in life you can give someone is that and I hope that brings you some comfort. Condolences to you all, Carla
Added by Forever Pop on Oct 25, 2014 7:46 AM
melissa ♥
Im so very sorry to hear about Anns passing away. She was such a sweet caring person. We will miss her on here. You were a wonderful husband to her and she loved you all so much. I could tell from her updates how much you all meant to her. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.

((Hugs)) to all, Melissa
Added by melissa ♥ on Oct 25, 2014 7:22 AM
Precious Ann
Dear Clair, I just read that your precious Ann has passed away. She fought for so long and always bounced back, it seemed like she would be with us forever.

Ann was such an inspiration to all of us. A very classy lady who showed all of us the importance of family and keeping the faith.

I know you are heartbroken and will be lost without her. I will see you Monday. Love & Hugs, Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on Oct 25, 2014 7:17 AM
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