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A AAA American at Find A Grave (#47337652)
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Bio Photo ( Have you found out what Picture I am showing yet here? HINT : It is from NASA and my Uncle is a Rocket scientist, too.)

Creation is a wonderful gift. Great management is needed too. Fiscal responsibility is a keyway. Veritas Supra Omnia (Truth Above All)

Leaving tokens, prayers, and love helps the departed also present.

My FIL just died on his 98 th birthday. Please leave a prayer and token for him.
Gino Carmen Di Spirito

Thank-You for your giving/leaving/prayers too.

As well Do Not Forget but remember all our Children and Military passed and current.

Dads Side::
De Mallie, DeMallie, de Maille, Potter, Campbell, Cook, Mallie, Maille, Hildreth ...
( A work in progress )
~^~ ~^~
My Father: Stephan Potter De Mallie
Stephen Potter De Mallie

My Grandfather:
Issac Ernest De Mallie
A 33rd Degree Mason.

He was born in Rochester, Monroe County, New York at 173 Goodman Street/15 Goodman Street.
The Street Number was changed in 1880.

Died in Lowell, Middlesex County, Massachusetts

He was a great business, kind, and respected man.

Having a chain of stores until the Great Depression where everything was lost for him and so many of our kin. My dad, his youngest son, had saved over $500.00 in one of the Banks Issac was President of and on the Board of a few others. My dad, all his life was a saver/investor. He was flabbergasted his whole life remembering when he was a young lad had to give up all that $500.00 savings he worked so hard for.

His wife:
Madeline Potter De Mallie

They had six children: All have passed away now.

My Dad, Stephen Potter
and Sis,

My fathers Uncle, Abraham William De Mallie was working for my Grandfather (his brother) Isaac Ernest De Mallie,CEO in his chain of stores De Mallie's. Abraham ran the stores in Providence, Rhode Island. Also multi-years he was elected Grand Master of the Masonic Lodge which was/is across the street from the R.I. State House which now a luxury Hotel.
Uncle Abe was a 33rd Degree Mason.

Babe RuthBabe Ruth used to visit with them, they were great friends.

*NOTE* To Join then become a Mason, YOU have to ASK to join.

Order of the Eastern Star (OES) both Men and Women can and should ask too.

For someone who passed away 312 years on my DOB see my dads memorial.

His oldest son, my brother, Stephen Mitchell De Mallie knew well and was/is friends with many from the Baseball Hall of Fame. He was great friends with Mrs. Babe Ruth too. Mrs. Claire Merritt Ruth

Moms Side::
Harvey, Harvie, Bowles, Bryant, Campbell, Hite, Hutton, Stratton, Wilmer..

Her father:

May 9, 1887 to Mar. 20, 1978
32nd Degree Mason. Shriner. Knights Templar.

Thomas Bland Harvey A well known admired Christian,32nd Degree Mason, Knights Templar, Shriner; Worlds first Dodge Brothers Dealer, invited by President Thomas Woodrow Wilson and First Lady Mrs. Ellen Axson Wilson to attend his first inauguration and parties as well sit in the front row Washington, D.C. a.d. March 4, 1913.

My Grandfather :
Thomas Bland Harvey, Sr.

My Grandmother (moms mother) Mrs. Marion Belle Bowles Harvey:
Nov. 18, 1900 to Sep. 24, 1945
Mrs. Marion Belle Bowles Harvey

Teacher, US Postmaster Roseland, Nelson Co., Virginia before that "ZIPPY" Made Zip-Codes 22967

They had 5 girls,1 boy all living happily christian lives now.

HARVEY / Harvie
Children of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Bland and Marion Belle Harvey ::

Mary Lib
Thomas Bland, Jr.
Thomas Bland, Jr.
Grand Mothers parents:

Mr. Walter Grey Bowles
Jun. 1, 1873 to May 10, 1944

Walter Grey Bowles

Mrs.Virginia Hutton Wilmer Bowles
Aug. 29, 1875 - Dec. 10, 1962

Mrs. Virginia Hutton Wilmer Bowles

Her Son-In-Law, my Great Uncle my mentor/hero too:

Hon. Elwood Floyd Yates, Sr.
Mar. 18, 1903 to Aug. 31, 2010

A 33rd Degree Mason, Oldest Mason ever; Shriners, Lions Club, Ruritan too.

* Please IMPORTANT NOTE ALL Find A Gravers*
This set a example and Grave Law in all America!

His first bill he submitted, sponsored, and was passed was the Virginia Cemetery Bill, which forbade any destruction and/or plowing them under of them!

He alone saved the Wild Turkey (Meleagris gallopavo silvestris) from being becoming extinct when he was Chairman of Virginian Wildlife. Yes this is the Bird which the Country TURKEY attained that name. Tom, hen , and poults all.
Benjamin Franklin wanted this as our national Bird.

Hon.Elwood Floyd Yates, Sr.
Great Aunt Nettie ~O~ and Great Uncle Truman Bowles were both great polyglots. .. Mrs. Nettie Margaret Obenshain Bowles

A True American Christian Hero :
Dr. Norman Norman Vincent Peale, a true friend 33rd Degree Mason

God, Family, Country!
Veritas Supra Omnia !

Life, Liberty, the pursuit of happiness with American responsibility, and, eCommerce with a Conscience.

Multiply and prosper I help with.

Lowell, Middlesex County, Massachusetts on UNITED STATES of North America's Major General Benjamin Butler's monument reads.( Only One Day a Year his Cemetery is open!)

"The true touchstone of civil liberty is not that all men are equal but that every man has the right to be the equal of every other man - if he can."

European -UK Premier Harold Wilson:

"He who rejects change is the architect of decay. The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery."

"They that love beyond the world cannot be separated by it. Death cannot kill what never dies" ~William Penn~
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theresa wilson
RE: New Friend
Dear Jonathan, Thank you so much for letting me add you to my friend list. It makes me Smile. Lol Theresa :))
Added by theresa wilson on Jun 24, 2016 11:29 PM
Margo Reasner
Margaret Winslow corrections
Hello, I was looking at the edits submitted for this memorials and before I decline all three of them (the system duplicated the one 3xs) I wanted to let you know that I will make the edits manually except for the Mrs. (there are people who spend their days looking for Mrs. and how you enter catholic sisters into the system and they complain repeatedly if you don't comply with their judgements on how to do these things. Using Mrs. is one of their pet peeves so I like to avoid using it) and adding Fuller to the last name. Duplicates are likely to be made if I do that as the cemetery records and headstone have her as Winslow. I will, however, add both of her husband's names in the bio section if you are willing to provide them to me. Thank you. -Margo-
Added by Margo Reasner on Jun 22, 2016 4:45 PM
Mason Symbols
Greetings. I noticed you places Mason and OES symbols on the graves of several of my relatives. I am wondering if you have access to any biographical information of them. My email address is if you are willing to share with me. Thank you.
Added by jkackman17 on Jun 17, 2016 9:24 PM
Abe Visser
Hello Jonathan,

Thank you for leaving a message on the Abe Visser memorial at the German warcemetery Ysselsteyn, Holland.
Are you connected to Abe Visser?
Added by Fred on Jun 05, 2016 12:58 AM
David Martin
Would you happen to know the 3 daughters names of David and Elizabeth please? I'm researching a Mary Martin, who many list him as her father. The Mary Martin I researching married Joshua Atchley I in N.J. Any information would be appreciated. Thank you, have a pleasant afternoon.
Added by Phyllis on May 27, 2016 2:18 PM
Ken Kelly
John Shaw
Please see the earlier Memorial #63375361, which supersedes my created duplicate Memorial #120217507. My search had come up empty, obviously. You had left a bouquet which you may want to transfer. Thank you.
Ken Kelly #47590535
Added by Ken Kelly on May 14, 2016 2:19 PM
Brianna Butler
Your absolute welcome, and I have added you to my friends list!

- Brianna Butler
Added by Brianna Butler on May 01, 2016 1:45 PM
Mary TS
Mrs. Dina De Mallie #16538552
Hello again! Dina's maiden name was "de Back" and her father was Isaac de Back (memorial #16538899).

However, the Jacob de Mallie that you have "wedded" to her is incorrect. She was indeed married to a Jacob de Mallie, but he was still living in 1930 -- with his now married daughter Agnes Covey nee de Mallie (born 19 Feb 1896) and her husband Jacob Covey & their 4 sons in Williamson, Wayne County, New York.

In 1920 Jacob de Mallie is residing in the same community, but with his widowed sister Lena and brother Peter. The 3 siblings were born in the Netherlands. Lena was the widow of Cornelius Vanderlyke; her memorial is #131456650.
Added by Mary TS on Apr 30, 2016 12:41 PM
Mary TS
Mrs. Lina De Mallie Lijntje de Maillie Vanderlkye
I believe that this Lina is NOT connected with Cornelius Vanderlyke at all. This Lina was only married to Anthony de Mallie and they had 2 daughters: Verna and Geraldine. {Their 2 daughters' Social Security Applications & Claims Indexes record their mother's maiden name as "Youngman" (Jungman?).} I have found census records for Anthony and Lina de Mallie's family in 1920, 1930 and 1940 (they are living in Walworth, Wayne County, NY); also census records for Cornelius Vanderlyke's widow Lena nee de Maillie in 1930 & 1940 (she is living in Williamson, Wayne County, NY) -- proving these 2 women were living at the same time. (Anthony de Mallie also had a younger sister named Lina, which further confuses the situation.)
Added by Mary TS on Apr 30, 2016 12:25 PM
Anna Jaech
Emblem of Methodist Church
I must ask why you place so many emblems of Methodism on Find A Grave memorials. I've seen several of these on memorials of my Bassett family in Henry VA. They were not Methodists.
I am not a critical person. It's that I suspect you unwittingly identified people with this church.
Added by Anna Jaech on Apr 14, 2016 11:33 PM
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