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E,J,C,S,G (#47643219)
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Bio Photo 26 October 2014- I just looked at my son's memorial- Jacob Kendall Button # 106892212... It's taken me a bit of time to read it, to re-live it all... Yet, there it was, and it was filled to the brim with loving and kind messages... and I thank you all so much, esp. my Esther Kinder, and Valenciaღ Angel of Mine ƸӜƷ ... I'm blubbering.. been thru so much, and am so grateful to you ALL who stopped by Jake's memorial... thank you, thank you.. God Bless you..

21 October 2014-- Thank you, all for being here, responding to me, and sharing with me your pains and joys. I've missed so many of you! It's been one heller of a rough past 19 months or so, with health issues. I don't know if I'll be on here so much, but it's been a joy to stop by. Thank you again, you loving big hearted people! :)

3 May 2013- The thing I hate the WORST is finding a memorial- with NO flowers, and NO sentiments. Come on, people. If you can FIND all these deceased people, you could at LEAST try to show some respect, instead of leaving them behind- with NO sentiments at all- Aren't YOU worth that? I think so. So why not "THEM"??? I don't "like" one of my ex-husbands, nor my mother, but at least I TRY to show SOME respect- It just takes a minute! Get all huffy about "those are MY pictures, don't use them without MY permission", that's fine, and I personally do NOT do so. However, SHOW your humanity, eh?

7 April 2013- :( A lot of times, I'm no good at "being good". I've a lot of anger towards a few of "mine" who died. I try to do things fairly, and I will keep trying to do so, even if it looks... Like I AM failing at being "fair". To me, "fair" is the truth; rebuttal, compromise, etc. Unfortunately, "they" died before rebuttal/compromise, etc. Alrighty then.... So, sometimes, I get STUCK. :( UGH.

31 March 2013-
I do have a tendency to get a bit nervous to find the same name following me around, from one family member to the next... Please allow some space, regardless of your good intentions. Thank you.

25 March 2013
I am trying to look at the gifts from God as such.
*gulps hard* I appear to be somewhat adopted by a few FindAGrave Angels of Mercy, regarding my family and all our issues. I could cite you by name.. but I won't, because something tells me you like to do things on the "wing". God bless you all. You've made me rejoice, within the dark, deep walls of my pain. Other than that, I'm just blubbering...!

Warning- I talk to "my" dead people like they're still here- because they are in my heart- If that bothers you- don't read my comments! I'm sure you can find other places to be, so scoot along!

March 20 2013-
I don't email too much anymore, so feel free to leave me a message here. I've been meeting some lovely people here, and I'm very grateful for this site. I will check my email about once a month; thank you for your patience.

So many of "my people" have died, (especially within the last 10 years) and I have been unable to attend their funeral services, or visit them at cemeteries, etc. I'm fairly new at contributions here, so am still learning how to navigate this site.

Lots of "work" to do here, and it's all worth it to me, to have "my people" within an easy grasp, instead of merely in my heart and head. I reckon I find FindAGrave a bridge to many loved and those not forgotten.

Thank you, FindAGrave.

FEEL FREE to wander about my "LEFT BEHIND" Virtual Cemetery, and leave your offerings at these "unclaimed" grave sites. I thank you. No one should be left behind; not even in death.
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Valenciaღ Angel of Mine 💕

For the lovely compliment, too kind my friend. I usually take breaks every now and then from the site and recently noticed Esther and I were mentioned, how thoughful of you. I too love the poem you have posted. Wish i could take credit for it ~ author unknown. It says it all ♡♥♡

Take care, Valencia's mom
Added by Valenciaღ Angel of ... on Oct 29, 2014 2:02 PM
RE: Lovella Sue Denton Vallus
I have sent an email to the Admin. asking them to remove the link. Hope it works. Regards.
Added by Twist on Oct 28, 2014 12:30 AM
melissa ♥
RE: Sweet Melissa...
Hi, Your very welcome for the visits to your sweet son. Im very sorry for your loss too.
Thank you for the condolences and prayers for our family for losing my mom in law. We are still having a hard time dealing with it.

Hugs, Melissa
Added by melissa ♥ on Oct 27, 2014 7:58 AM
RE: Legsie...

Thank you for your lovely sentiments on my grandsons memorials, especially my little Brendon. It cheers my heart to see so many people visisting him. And it was an honour to leave a token of my visit for you little Jacob. l like to visit the children...l'm slowly working my way through your 'Babies & Kids' virtual cemetery.

Added by Legsie11 on Oct 27, 2014 2:10 AM
Esther Kinder
Thank you
Thank you for the flowers left for my grandchildren. It means so much. I see you have added more to your virtual Birthday and Angel Days. I picked up some of them, but I am sure there are some I missed. Next time.....
Added by Esther Kinder on Oct 26, 2014 1:35 PM
Esther Kinder
RE: Have I mentioned, Esther...?
Thank you for the compliment. I try to do my friends Angel Day and Birthday virtual cemeteries. Usually takes me 2 or 3 hours a day, but as long as my eyesight stays with me. I shall try to do it. It is an honor to me. You have a wonderful Day.
Added by Esther Kinder on Oct 26, 2014 11:01 AM
Lovella Sue Denton Vallus
Hello. I received your note about Lovella's husband. I accurately identified her husband in the text of the memorial. I understand, however, that another contributor has linked her to the wrong husband. Unfortunately, I cannot "unlink" her. The only one who can do that is the contributor who linked her. If you send him/her a correction, s/he has 30 days to make the correction. If you get no response, you can contact the administrators by email and ask them to make the change. Sorry I am not able to be of further assistance. Regards.
Added by Twist on Oct 24, 2014 4:56 PM
Robert Kuhmann
H. Geneva Burton
Your said, "H. Geneva Burton - Hello Robert. I believe I knew your great aunt- or, not too sure of your relationship to her, however I believe you're related to her son, Donald Burton, born to her and Herschel Burton. I'll stop here, til I here from you. However, should you be related to Mrs. H. Geneva Burton, you are indeed are lucky man. :) She was wonderful!, in so many ways, and I miss her so much! Added by E,J,C,S,G on Oct 23, 2014 1:21 AM.

Have known Don Burton since his marriage to my 1st-cousin, Rose Marie Kuhman-Burton. I am related to her, their kids, and their grand-children, but not to him. I have (never-the-less a LARGE portion of the Burton genealogy online at my website).

Robert Kuhmann (#46567652)
F.A.G. member for 11 years, 8 months, 5 days.
Added by Robert Kuhmann on Oct 23, 2014 8:50 AM
Patty Valentino
Thank You...

Good Morning E,J,C,S,G,

Thank You so much for visiting Sgt. Manno on his upcoming birthday. It was very kind of you to take the time to visit and leave your lovely message, and I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

Be well, and have a great day.


Patty :)
Added by Patty Valentino on Oct 22, 2014 4:06 AM
debbie fox
who is stil alive
the message is confusingI'm on my tablet I can't transfer things as fast as laptopso I'm not sure if you're saying the military guy is still aliveI can't pick the copy the names on the tablet to get it correct I'm sorry I have laptopI don't just add means I always have a headstone so I don't know how I added a picture of a headstone on I just didn't get it loadedthat I don't know how I got the way she sings somebody gave it to me Missy reading me so I'll have to check into it but I don't know who you're saying that dead
Added by debbie fox on Oct 21, 2014 8:33 AM
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