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CABrown (#47000639)
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Bio Photo PFC James Rexford (Rex) Scowden KIA WW I buried in France, also has stone in Rose Hill Cemetery, McKean County, Pa

Corp. Steven John Skinner KIA WW I, buried in France
People that think I should read the FAG guidelines, might want to try it themselves.

How do I enter all married names for a woman's memorial when she was married more than once?

The 'last name' is the name that is on the headstone. INCLUDE OTHER MARRIED NAMES AS PART OF THE BIOGRAPHY SECTION. The 'maiden name' is only for her maiden name.
I'd like to suggest that if you're doing a photo request, and there is no stone for that person, then take a photo of where it should be. I do that because I feel that way they can see there is no marker and maybe have a better feeling having a photo of the location, with other markers on each side for location.

Also if I find a woman that was buried as Mrs.____ don't hassle me over that. It's bad enough that they didn't even use her first name, now some people want to do the same thing with her memorial. If you know her first name, tell me, don't just think I should list her the same as her husband.

When I first found Find A Grave, I was excited and happy to be able to add to it. But sadly it's not that way anymore. I can fully understand the feelings off some of the contributors that have become unactive. When I added memorials, I fully thought family would turn up, want them and fix anything they considered an error. But that's not so either. With the automatic edits, in 21 days, they apparently are made whether you ignored or declined them. There doesn't seem to be much control over your memorials anymore. Just because someone disagrees with the way I've added them, not even family, they can be changed. We are all different individuals, so I can't see why other people, if they're NOT family, should be allowed to change yours. I thought difference of opinion was a way of life, not your right, so I'm wrong. Memorials shouldn't be changed just because someone else thinks they should. I thought the important thing was they were on there for family to find.

Also, I'm tired of people whining because someone might not transfer a memorial. "It's all about the numbers." I'm not sure I understand what you're talking about. The number I added doesn't change, just the number I manage. So if I was in it for the numbers, I'd still be okay. Quit whining.

As far as transfers, I don't necessarily stick to the FAG guidelines as far as relation. If you're a relative, I don't mind transferring (that's why they're on there) BUT it does depend on how you ask/tell me!
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Melinda Trayer Nobles
I know crazy right? It would be like a father figure. And they had kids. Too much of an age gap for me.
Here is the 1910 census also

Name: Henry C Pillsbury
Age in 1910: 62
Birth Year: abt 1848
Birthplace: New York
Home in 1910: Pittsfield, Warren, Pennsylvania
Race: White
Gender: Male
Relation to Head of House: Head
Marital Status: Married
Spouse's Name: Lottie Pillsbury
Father's Birthplace: New York
Mother's Birthplace: Maine
Neighbors: View others on page
Household Members:
Name Age
Henry C Pillsbury 62
Lottie Pillsbury 23
Rose M Pillsbury 6
Harry C Pillsbury 4
Phoebe Ralby 48
Added by Melinda Trayer Nobles on May 29, 2015 2:00 PM
Mary Dougherty
I have transferred her to you so if you find that she is in the wrong cemetery, you can change it.
Added by MSue on May 28, 2015 1:32 PM
Florence Walker
If you do not live near there, I will put in for a photo request and see what happens.
Added by MSue on May 26, 2015 8:51 PM
RE: Florence Walker
Hi Carol,
If you are ever near the Clymer Cemetery (the one in town across from the school), would you please take a picture of my parents gravestone? They engraved my Mom's death date on the stone today.
Raymond [1912-2007] Florence [1920-2014]
If you go in the drive with the Clymer Cemetery sign overhead, the lot is on the right near the back. There will be a lot of Brown gravestones near them. They are closer to the back than the large Lyman Brown monument. I would appreciate it as I will not be in NY in the near future. I have a picture of the stone on my Dad's memorial #42190348
Thank you,
Added by MSue on May 26, 2015 8:47 PM
K Williams Pennay
RE: Hyman McManus
Hi there-I sent an addendum-poor gentleman suffered something awful from PTSD. He was at the State Hospital in Warren where he was declared insane. He lived until after 1898. I put his papers on my family site at
Added by K Williams Pennay on May 26, 2015 2:15 PM
Ted K
RE: Oluf Sorenson
page is correct now - his wife is Opal, parents are Christian and Jensine...thank you
Added by Ted K on May 23, 2015 9:15 AM
DB Johnson
Kio & Rees
Roy and Bertha are in the Odd Fellows section, lot 229; Albert and Oaka are also in the Odd Fellows section, lot 228. The lady at the cemetery was very nice and helpful.
Added by DB Johnson on May 19, 2015 10:29 AM
Headstone Photo
Thank you for your time and effort photographing Edward & Regina Morrison's headstone.

Added by chip on May 18, 2015 4:51 PM
Thanks for fulfilling my photo request. I really appreciate it.
Added by Shelley on May 17, 2015 1:56 PM
Andy Byerly
Agnue E. and Stella M. Henry
Thank you so very much for taking the time to photograph Agnue and Stella Henry's memorilas. Your efforts are greatly appreciated!

All the Best,
Added by Andy Byerly on May 15, 2015 10:28 PM
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