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Calmly Searching (#47240541)
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Bio Photo "When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am in who you are. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart." Fredrick Beekner


First of all, I would like to thank the many volunteers that give freely of their time, knowledge, and efforts on behalf of people searching for answers and hoping to breathe life back into their ancestors, walking cemeteries, taking photos, editing photos uploading and creating memorials.

Find a Grave is kept up by a United community of genealogists, historians, (beginners and experts) all of which of course, are VOLUNTEERS. We do not get paid for what we do here.

Creating memorials and fulfilling photo requests is a labor of love for me. If you appreciate something I've added, please pay it forward! If you receive "freely", give "freely"

I firmly believe that our ancestors deserve more than just dates and a cold hard stone on their memorials. It is because of that I try to add as much information as is available to me.

Please click the "Edit" tab on the individual memorial, then the "Suggest A Correction" link on the specific memorial you would like me to update or transfer. PLEASE DO NOT SEND CORRECTIONS AS PUBLIC MESSAGES

If I SUGGEST A CORRECTION to you, please copy and paste the info into the bio and add dates and places in the appropriate fields so they can help others locate the memorial. Maiden names and links to parents are also helpful. If you want to see my sources please just ask. You can also check the memorial, as over the last three years I have been trying to give credit to those that submit valid info in the bio of the memorial.

I spend a lot of time traveling, photographing, editing and posting my photos because I love doing it. It also gives me a lot of satisfaction if I can help others find their family. I do not mind if you use the photos for PERSONAL use.

I do not transfer to requesters who are rude/demanding, have no profile or who are collectors -- however,I'll always update and link memorials within a day or two or as time allows.
Transfer requests should be requested on the "edit" tab. Include your relationship, and your contributor name and number.

Keep in mind, those of us who list these memorials are only human, sometimes we make mistakes, let us know,and Never forget: We Are Volunteers. VOLUNTEERS. Our time and work are given freely.

The quote of Fredrick Beekner is borrowed from my cousin Mike Perkins memorial.

I am of the belief that no one is truly gone, until they are forgotten.

So with all this said, I will continue to visit cemeteries and take photos of graves, and hope someday to find more of my family,and maybe some of yours. Until then I will remain.... Calmly Searching..........

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Judy Curnell
Thank you!
Thank you for visiting my son Virgil. Judy
Added by Judy Curnell on Sep 27, 2014 1:17 PM
Ann Parkinson
RE: Jose Castaneda
THANK YOU! Your kindness is appreciated :))
Added by Ann Parkinson on Sep 10, 2014 7:42 AM
Ann Parkinson
RE: Jose Castaneda
Thank you for your kindness!
Added by Ann Parkinson on Sep 06, 2014 8:01 AM
Sharon Kern
Helen Lyen
Thank you...Sharon
Added by Sharon Kern on Aug 25, 2014 8:43 PM
Row Walker
Jewell Emerson Lott Smithson
I have de-constructed my entry for Jewell and added my photos to your memorial. I added the smaller, but more inclusive photo of Jewell as well. In that photo caption, I included the bio/obit from my entry; as it differed slightly. You might remove your photo of her so as to allow both cemetery photos to appear.

Thanks for working with me.

Added by Row Walker on Aug 25, 2014 9:36 AM
Sandra Jones Croxdale
Deliah Jones
Hi-Jacob W. Jones was my great-grandfather-He was first married to Rebecca M. Beeler and then to
Delilah Catherine "Lyle" Norton Jones-I never knew of this marriage-My grandfather was George W. Jones-It is so confusing trying to straighten this all out-If you have any info on this please let me know-
Thank you-
Sandra Jones Croxdale
Added by Sandra Jones Croxdale on Aug 25, 2014 1:08 AM
Brent Smith
RE: Winnie B. Comstock
I am not sure if I responded or not to your question. Winnie's maiden name was Virgin. She was the daughter of Alexander (#67757877) and Margaret McGrew Virgin. Her first husband was Herbert LeZotte (#59680735) who died in 1917. She married Jack Comstock (# 44509583) around 1920. She died during a train robbery in 1921.

Added by Brent Smith on Aug 17, 2014 2:47 PM
Mary Atkinson
Thank you for the edit linking Mary with her parents. I have accepted it and the memorial should be updated shortly. Thanks, especially, for sending the source information for the edit. I truly appreciate your taking the time to provide this information. Have a good weekend.
Added by AZLITE on Jul 25, 2014 2:41 PM
C. Fahey
Ref: 57372408
Hello Calmly Searching. I was hoping you might transfer William Byers 57372408 to me. I'm in the process of working on a collection of "cowboys" that were killed during the cattle rustling days in my area: Tombstone, Arizona. If possible I'd like to keep them together for editing purposes as more information becomes available. Thank you kindly.
C. Fahey
Tombstone, Arizona.
Thank you.
Added by C. Fahey on Jul 19, 2014 4:40 PM
James Allnut
He sure liked his wives young, didn't he! I figured that he must have wanted his second wife to appear to be older...but the first was younger yet! One of my grand-aunts divorced her first husband and married a guy about half her age. Both lied about their ages to the census takers for the rest of their lives--but their stones are accurate.

I'll be glad to transfer any of your family to you that you want.
Added by RobMinteer57 on Jul 07, 2014 2:03 PM
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