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Calmly Searching (#47240541)
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Bio Photo "When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am in who you are. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart." Fredrick Beekner


Thank you in advance for the many updates and links that I receive almost daily for my memorials. I strive to keep up with them.

Before accepting information in edits now, there is a great effort made to confirm the information you send. One edit sent to me, may take 4 to 6 hours of my time searching on ancestry and other genealogy sites to complete. I gather the records for said edit, gain knowledge of the family, contact other contributors to link family members that I am able to find, so that the entire family can be linked on any given memorial.

Please make sure your information is accurate, so that I can accept it. There are a lot of people being linked to those they do not belong to due to so many "same names". It is an easy mistake, I know, as it has happened to me in the past. When possible, follow your loved one from birth to death, check your dates and locations lived to make sure it is the correct memorial.

Know that I appreciate your time and effort. Please, be respectful of my time and effort. If I have made an error, sign in to Find A Grave, and send me an edit. If you have documentation of your information, include that as well.

I would also like to thank the many volunteers that give freely of their time, knowledge, and efforts on behalf of people searching for answers and hoping to breathe life back into their ancestors, walking cemeteries, taking photos, editing photos uploading and creating memorials.

Find a Grave is kept up by a United community of genealogists, historians, (beginners and experts) all of which of course, are VOLUNTEERS. We do not get paid for what we do here.

Creating memorials and fulfilling photo requests is a labor of love for me. If you appreciate something I've added, please pay it forward! If you receive "freely", give "freely"

Please click the "Edit" tab on the individual memorial, then the "Suggest A Correction" link on the specific memorial you would like me to update or transfer. ***PLEASE DO NOT SEND CORRECTIONS AS PUBLIC MESSAGES***
Transfer requests should be requested on the "edit" tab. Include your relationship, and your contributor name and number.

Keep in mind, those of us who list the memorials are only human, sometimes we make mistakes, let us know,and Never forget: We Are Volunteers. VOLUNTEERS. Our time and work are given freely.

The quote of Fredrick Beekner is borrowed from my cousin Mike Perkins memorial.

I am of the belief that "no one is truly gone, until they are forgotten." Phyllis Behrendt 2008

So with all this said, I will continue to visit cemeteries and take photos of graves, and hope someday to find more of my family,and maybe some of yours. Until then I will remain.... Calmly Searching..........

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Messages left for Calmly Searchin... (591)[Leave Message]
K. Medved
RE: Jeanne Gallaher
You are very welcome. Kay
Added by K. Medved on Jun 22, 2016 9:45 PM
Lynn (Luniw) Demytruk
Jesse Oliphant
Thank-you for the photo.
Added by Lynn (Luniw) Demytruk on Jun 15, 2016 6:45 PM
Claude Lamar
Thank you for the picture of his headstone.
Added by andiema on Jun 09, 2016 10:35 PM
Richard Bedwell
RE: Ellis Family
Thanks so much. The new pictures you took are much better than the old ones, so I would say keep the new ones and take down the old ones.

I also noticed that there is a mistake in the spelling of Elizabeth Jane. Her maiden name is spelled Aitchison, not Aitcheson. But I suppose there is nothing that can be done to correct that. I've seen Aitchison misspelled several different ways before.

Thanks so much for doing this, the new pictures are really great,

Dick Bedwell
Added by Richard Bedwell on Jun 08, 2016 8:49 AM
Walter Dunn
Edna Satterlee's Photo
I really appreciate the photo.

Walter Dunn
Added by Walter Dunn on Jun 06, 2016 7:46 PM
Lou Ann Hawkins Frogge
# 105922043 Thank you for the nice picture.
Added by Lou Ann Hawkins Frogge on Jun 06, 2016 2:06 PM
Rod Williams
William Carl Klein
Thank you again for fulfilling yet another photo request for memorial #106965494. Your efforts are truly appreciated.
Added by Rod Williams on Jun 06, 2016 7:25 AM
Rod Williams
Baby Drolsum
Thank you for taking your personal time to fulfill my request for a photo of Baby Drolsum's headstone Memorial #58276531
Added by Rod Williams on Jun 05, 2016 3:47 PM
Stuart Weddle
Jim Erickson
I notified the memorial owner of the error.

Added by Stuart Weddle on Jun 02, 2016 7:58 AM
Thank you for taking the photos of the Halls. It is greatly appreciated.
Added by buttonbutton on May 28, 2016 10:53 AM
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