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Mike & Nancy Ridgdill (#47585642)
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Bio Photo My philosophy about F/G is really simple. Treat me like you want yourself to be treated. Very simple. If I see a memorial that I'd like to have transferred to me, I'll simply ask for it. Likewise, if you see a memorial I've submitted that you'd like to have transferred to you, just ask for it. I could care less if the person is related to you, or not. If you want it, and there's no reason for me to keep it, you can have it. It's just that simple. I do this because I love it. A lot of people just don't have the time to do this. In reality, I have no connection to at least 90% of the memorials I submit. I submit them because no one else has.

I know, there are those out there that claim they adhere to all rules, and will make no exceptions for anyone for any reason, whatsoever. You know the ones I'm talking about. We've all had to deal with them at one time or another. Guess what, they don't adhere to all the rules, either! I guarantee if you look at their totals, most of them manage a lot more memorials than they've ever added. I find it hard to believe all those extras adhere to the rules for relationship.

That, my friends, is why I'm not about numbers, and I really don't care about the persons relationship to you. Look, every memorial I create then transfer to someone else, will forever have my name as the original creator. So, don't be so possessive of the memorials you create. This is not a competition folks, as much as some try to make it be. I realize Find A Grave is a grave registration site. But, this could be one of the best sites ever for genealogical research if only everyone would work together, show a little understanding, a little courtesy, and throw in just a little bit of good old common sense.

Like all of us, there are some memorials I won't transfer. But, the only time I won't transfer a memorial is when the person is in one of my direct ancestry lines, my aunts/uncles, a few cousins, and a handful of friends I hold dear to my heart. As for the information I post, feel free to use any info I submit. You do not need my permission. That's why I put it on here in the first place.

Now, since I've been so nice to you, I expect the same considerations given to me. If I request a memorial to be transferred to me, it is usually a direct ancestor, or a very close aunt, uncle, or cousin. On rare occasions, I may even request a memorial of a very dear friend. The only deviation from this is that from time to time I may request the memorial transfer of a Confederate soldier, if it's apparent the soldier is probably not related to the submitter. But, no matter who's memorial I request, I always stipulate, "unless this person is your relative." However, if you don't want to make the transfer, at least give me a good reason why you won't. Don't just keep putting me off, and don't start ignoring my requests completely. Common courtesy is all I'm asking for, and expect. But, don't come on here and complain about things that just don't matter. If you absolutely can't help but complain, then complain about things that really matter, like child abuse, elder abuse, children having to go to bed hungry, or our returning military personnel having to live on the streets. Please, complain about those things, LOUDLY!

Now, that said, I do have one pet peeve on F/G, but it's only a common sense thing. Please, if you're going to take the time to create a new cemetery, make sure you have the correct name, provide the complete address, accurate written directions, and the correct map. It doesn't take much time, and can ensure future submissions are added to the right cemeteries.

Otherwise, I have been researching my family genealogy for over thirty years. I have published three books so far, Confederate Graves of Emanuel County, Georgia, in 2009, a color edition of the book in 2010, and The Ridgdill Genealogy, in 2011. All are available online.

Thank you for your cooperation.

Mike
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Olivia Williamson Braddy
Ruth Stone Smith
http://findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=106134484
Added by Olivia Williamson Braddy on Mar 16, 2015 6:15 AM
Olivia Williamson Braddy
Ruth Stone Smith
Mike, I'm sorry, but I'm asking you to please delete this memorial. I had put some pictures of her taken recently on it, but after her daughter supplied me with a picture of her when she was younger, I replaced them with it. But when I posted it to Facebook, it retained the old pictures. I don't know why this happens, but I've had this problem before. Anyway, I had to create a new memorial with the new picture in order to post to Facebook. Please remove this one:
Added by Olivia Williamson Braddy on Mar 16, 2015 6:14 AM
Mark & Jeannie (Mock) Irwin
Just Stopping by...
How refreshing to read such an Unselfish Bio/Profile page. So far, I've had a couple of folks that you have described. They gave me a bad taste and I almost let it stop me from working in Find A Grave. I am so grateful for people like yourself, you are appreciated for work you do!
Thanks again, Jeannie Mock Irwin - 48402560
Added by Mark & Jeannie (Mock) Irw... on Mar 11, 2015 9:31 PM
gigi garner
RE: Photos
Thank you very much for your support ;-)
Gigi
Added by gigi garner on Feb 16, 2015 11:43 PM
TLV
141798276
Love it! Love it! Love it!
Added by TLV on Feb 13, 2015 8:37 AM
Connie (Cross) Krueger
RE: Just stopping by......
Sorry, my email is not working right now, grrr lol.

In reply....
Here is some sites to start with:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family_tree_of_the_Bible

http://www.ldolphin.org/2adams.html

http://cseweb.ucsd.edu/~wgg/Genealogy/relatedthreads.pdf

https://sites.google.com/site/paulkayfostermackenziecorp/paulm594-1

I began looking for info on King Clovis "The Riparian" I, of Cologne, my 43rd Great Grandfather and went back further through wikipedia to connections to King Clodomir I of Sicambri. A lot of the genealogy has already been in old history books going back to Noah "Father of All Humanity".

These generations can not be proven but it was fun and if it isn't fun then why bother.

It's been a long genealogy day and I'm tired.
Have a good night,
Connie ;-)
Added by Connie (Cross) Krueger on Jan 31, 2015 8:02 PM
Connie (Cross) Krueger
RE: Just stopping by......
Mike & Nancy,

There is another memorial for Him.

Maintained by: Find A Grave
Record added: Jul 30, 1999
Find A Grave Memorial# 6017

From what information I have gathered through many history books He would be my 13th cousin 59 times removed. Yes, I even treat the Bible as a history book. When I first began working on His line it was working out that He was my uncle many times removed but as you know after getting deeper into genealogy, a shifting of relationships begin but when I had first seen the relationship was uncle, calling Him "Uncle Jesus" stuck.

Have a great day and yes, May God bless you and yours,

Connie (Cross) Krueger
Find A Grave member #47328642


Added by Connie (Cross) Krueger on Jan 31, 2015 9:14 AM
Connie (Cross) Krueger
Just stopping by......
Just read your profile page and had to say
Thank you !
I was sitting here doing my genealogy and it came to me with all the very old ancestors that has been put on Find a Grave I wondered if they had one for Him. So I typed in His name not expecting anything but there it was... so I visited your memorial # 141798276. Thank you again. It was nice to see it was in good taste. You have kept it open minded which I like. Keep up the nice work your doing on Find a Grave.

Have a great day,
Connie (Cross) Krueger
Find A Grave member #47328642
Added by Connie (Cross) Krueger on Jan 30, 2015 5:28 PM
Jerry
By Chance
Hi Mike, caught your page when I was reading Al Smith's memorial site. Glad to see all your contributions here and now I know F.A.G. has at least one person who does things right! I love this as well -but I just can't get to it like I want to. Take care and hope we can exchange some info down the road. Happy Thanksgiving & Love ya bud, -Jerry
Added by Jerry on Nov 23, 2014 9:38 AM
Shenk & Dorothy Ellhers
Love Your Bio!
Hello! It is wonderful to see another Find A Grave contributor that has the same outlook on this website as we do! You Rock!
Added by Shenk & Dorothy Ellhers on Aug 16, 2014 8:36 AM
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