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Aislin (#46535342)
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Bio Photo When I was researching my own family, I received a great deal of help from complete strangers who were willing to help me without asking anything in return. I felt the need to pay that forward. So it tickles me beyond words to discover my headstone photos as part of someone's family tree. How sad would it be if after all the photos are taken and posted and researched and documented that no one looked at them or cared that they were there. So to those of you who have found my photos and made use of them, thanks for caring and you're most welcome.

I feel that its important to say at least a little something about each of their lives. They lived, they loved, and had families. For those that have nothing there, they're not forgotten, I just haven't gotten there yet. And while I don't always cite my sources on each memorial, for Long Island special thanks goes to Carolee Nichols Diamond and David Roberts for their unending patience and wealth of information; the transcriptions and family photos of Elbert N. Carter; George Moraitis, Historian for the Cedar Hill Cemetery, Port Jefferson (R.I.P. my friend); Steve Gill from the Patchogue Cemeteries Restoration Committee; Dan Prunty, Ruland Funeral Home and President of Cedar Grove Cemetery.

If you find something that needs correcting, or if you have information you'd like added, please use the SAC and I'll be happy to make the changes. If you need to contact me, send to aislin at

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Marie Hayes
Richard Terry Woodhullull
Thanks for the info and the photo of his headstone.
Added by Marie Hayes on Jun 20, 2016 2:35 PM
Susan Howell Denny
#75456207 Nancy Caldwell
Nancy(Howell)Van Winkle Caldwell is the daughter of Reeves Howell #75256735 and sister of Phoebe Ann (Howell)Bartrum Ingraham, Jonah Howell, Shepard Reeves Howell #62451347, William S. Howell #46506496 and Theodore Bartlett Howell who died 1911 and is buried on Staten Island in the Sailor's Snug Harbor Cemetery. No FG record currently exists for him yet.
Added by Susan Howell Denny on Jun 17, 2016 12:13 PM
Bob Bardo
RE: Halsey Hulse
Thanks to your hard work removing dirt to get your GREAT photo of the transcription on the gravestone for Halsey Hulse (Find A Grave Memorial # 6420685), and a lot of squinting and mental acrobatics, I FINALLY figured out what it said. Very difficult!

Here it is --

Gone to dwell with Jesus where
there will be no more sadness, sorrow
or pain, but where he will praise the
Lord forever.

Thanks again, Aislin!

Added by Bob Bardo on May 21, 2016 1:28 AM
C Balzer
Mt Pleasant Cemetery
I will be going to Mt Pleasant next week. Do you have plot information for Jemima Saxton?
Added by C Balzer on May 19, 2016 6:09 PM
Mary Champlin
Satterley memorials
My name is Mary Champlin. I am one of the grandchildren of Ellen V Satterley. Thank you for the work you have done on my family. I would love to correspond with you about the information you have gathered.
My email is
Added by Mary Champlin on Apr 25, 2016 6:37 PM
Nancy Carr
Thank you for "WRIGHT" info!
Good morning,

Thank you so much for the amount of information you have detailed here regarding the Wrights of Brookhaven. My mother is the grand-daughter of Frank P. Wright Sr, John and Mary's youngest son. My mom, at 92, remembers trips to Bayport as a young child... Needless to say, she is fascinated with each new piece of family history that is revealed.
I am fairly sure that it was you who sent me a transcript for Kate Strickland's obituary. She is another of my mother's great- grandmothers... thank you again for that as well. Is it possible that we have a family connection? Over the past few years, I have collected a great many photos, newspaper articles and obituaries (reprints) that I would love to share! Please let me know if this would be of any interest to you. Either way, thanks again for all you have done.

Warm regards,
Nancy Carr
Added by Nancy Carr on Apr 18, 2016 9:07 AM
jeffrey dayton
bertha conklin Jett
she has recently passed away

March 25, 2016 (Age 99)

please add the following date of Departure thank you
Added by jeffrey dayton on Mar 27, 2016 7:32 AM
Colin Stevens
RE: Peter
Good Morning,
Peter "Fraser" Ferrari was my great grandfather on my mother's side. I am totally dumbfounded on how a person came up with "Ferrari" for Peter's last name. I have a copy of his death certificate from NYS. On the certificate it reads his last name was Fananesi and that his mother's maiden name was Ferrari. I am uncertain who supplied the death certificate information.
I have no possible idea who even supplied the information for "Find A Grave". For years, I suspected the surname was changed but have been unable to obtain any information except for the death certificate. If there is a contact person with this information, you have my permission to pass on my name and email address. I would be most anxious to talk to this person so a family mystery can finally be solved.
Thank you for your quick response. Again, thank you for any consideration given this request. Colin
Added by Colin Stevens on Mar 13, 2016 8:40 AM
Colin Stevens
Peter "Frazer" Ferrari
Memorial #143755845
Respectfully request the name William Louis Frazer, son of above subject be added to the Family Link section which contains the names of his siblings. William Louis Frazer, 1890-1921 is buried in the Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, Center Moriches, NY beside his wife Fanny R. Frazer 1896-1974.
This information is based on personal knowledge.
Thank you in advance for all considerations given this email. Regards, C. Stevens
Added by Colin Stevens on Mar 12, 2016 8:36 PM
Martin & Kate Benevich
My email address:

I'm out of town right now so I don't have access to my files, but what I know is that Martin Benevich immigrated from Russia ( Poland) and Katherine from Austria (Poland). They say they were naturalized in 1900 but I can't find it. The last name has multiple spellings but it seemed to be Benowitz most often in the early days and Benevich most often later on. The earliest I find Martin is around 1897 on Long Island. Not sure when he and Katherine Deedy married. They had at least 5 children. A son, Antoney, died young and is buried at St. Francis de Sales church in Patchogue. They had 4 daughters. The youngest, Kathryn, is my grandmother. The family lived in Sayville on Overton St. Martin died Feb 1930. Katherine died June 1971.

I am very anxious to hear from Marci. Thank you for making the connection for me.

Added by geauxtigers83 on Feb 20, 2016 8:49 AM
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