ATTENTION: POST ONLY AFTER DEATH!!! When a person dies, I check to see if they have been posted, (not months & years while they are still living.)if NOT I post them. Posting while they are STILL LIVING is WRONG!!! - -DON'T ASK me to DELETE MINE if the DUPLICATE was posted while they were STILL LIVING.
------- These are Find A Grave guidelines for transfers that alot of people are not respecting.
How do I get a relative's memorial transferred to me? First, Determine if you really need the memorial transferred to you for management. Only request transferring of management if you have extensive changes to make to a memorial. You can add photos and suggest corrections without having to request management. Simply having someone in your family tree is not grounds for a management transfer request. With hundreds of thousands of contributors, we have many overlapping family trees and it would be impossible for all contributors to manage their entire tree.
Second, Transfer requests will be for direct relatives within four generations. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
Third, If you have extensive additions/changes to make to a memorial, please contact the Find A Grave member who created the memorial via the "Suggest a Correction" link under the "Edit" tab on the memorial in question with your request to have the memorial management transferred to you. This will send an email request to the contributor, even if there is not an email address listed on their contributor page.
Fourth, Explain your relationship in the request! Any non-direct relatives (aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) are not required to be transferred. Keep in mind that the original contributor may also be related to the memorial and may not make the transfer. Bulk surname requests must not be made. Be advised that memorials listed as famous or maintained by Find A Grave will not be transferred.
Fifth, The "Suggest a correction" feature may also be used to submit corrections, an original biography, and family links to memorials that do not fall under the above definition. (Be sure to include the memorial ID#s for the family links and how they are related, father, mother or spouse. The original contributor will make any corrections and add any additional information you have for that memorial, such as links to parents and spouses, provided the information is accurate.
Sixth, Please note that it is not appropriate to request a transfer and then, after receiving the transfer, delete that page and substitute it with a new memorial that you have created. This practice denies credit to the original contributor. Please use the original memorial page to make updates and add information.
NOTE: If you are unable to edit a memorial after it has been transferred to your account, try logging out of Find A Grave then logging back in.
You also need to state your relationship and your ID number.
*****Always pray to have eyes that see the best, a heart that forgives the worst, a mind that forgets the bad, and a soul that never loses faith
*****Please do NOT add photographs from obituary notices (unless you, personally took the photo), as they are protected by copyright law. Find A Grave reserves the right to remove obituary notices and photographs from memorial records. Similarly, you may NOT scan an obituary and add it as a photograph to a memorial record.
If you could see your ancestors All standing in a row, Would you be proud of them or not, Or don't you really know?
Some strange discoveries are made In climbing family trees, And some of them, you know, do not Particularly please.
If you could see your ancestors All standing in a row, There might be some of them, perhaps, You wouldn't care to know.
But here's another question, which Requires a different viewó If you could meet your ancestors, Would they be proud of you?
"Work for a cause, not applause. Live life to express, not to impress. Don't strive to make your presence noticed, just make your absence felt."
Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change. Life's too short to be anything but happy. Enjoy Life - It has an Expiration Date.
Calm yourself down and go color and for those that have demanded immediate transfers, edits, etc. I have access to my email account maybe once a week if that, I don't live with a computer or a cellphone attached to me.