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Pammy In Oklahoma (#46877560)
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Bio Photo I'm Pam.
I live in Stillwater, OK.
I love doing research on Payne County, Oklahoma and surrounding counties.

Due to the death of DonZas, I am managing the memorials in Fairlawn Cemetery in Stillwater that he posted. I will be keeping all of the memorials that are in my family tree. And, believe me, there are alot of them.

However, if you wish for me to transfer a memorial to you, send EACH request through the "EDIT" - "SUGGEST A CORRECTION" Link on EACH person's memorial. Please allow time, because I get alot of requests each day.

REMEMBER the Find-A-Grave RULE states:
Transfer requests should be for DIRECT RELATIVES WITHIN FOUR GENERATIONS. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Uncle, Aunts, Cousins, nephews, mother's brother's first cousins, well, these don't count as a direct relative. And, yes, this part is included in the rules.

E-mail me if you have a question or if you have a request that I haven't already uploaded.

Also, I have photographed and transcribed Ripley Oak Park Cemetery and Mt. Hope Cemetery near Ripley, OK. I don't transfer these memorials, but I will add the information and links if you ask me.
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Robert Steen
RE: Ruby Steen
Thank you Pammy in Oklahoma! This solves the "Ruby" mystery. Now if I only could find the maiden name for Ralph's first wife Annie.

By the way, I put in a bunch of requests to transfer Steen memorials that you inherited from DonZas to me. I read in your bio that you be willing to transfer those to a relative so I asked. No big deal, just thought you might want to relieve yourself of the management.

Thanks again,
Added by Robert Steen on Oct 09, 2016 5:55 AM
Larry & Helen in Ok.
Thomas Noah Baker 23141732
Hello Pam; Could/would you copy the Obit you added in the Grave side and send to me and I will add it to where it belongs, in the [bio] on the information side. I always add the contributor Find A Grave#. This is under Find A Grave guide line like transfers. Please this this under the edit please. Thank you, Larry
Added by Larry & Helen in Ok. on Sep 11, 2016 7:40 PM
judi Stracener Kail
Additional Info
I noticed something that you could add to the bio. On the headstone, there is an inscription of their marriage on 24 Sep 1931. Also, you could add her maiden name of Sullivan (on this memorial and on her page as well) and connect them on each other's memorial page.
Added by judi Stracener Kail on Sep 08, 2016 8:31 PM
Neal Putnam
Should I put bio info?
I was going to add some info to my mother's memorial and I wondered if I should just submit the info with Internet flowers.

Thanks for all the work you do. It is very much appreciated.
--Neal Putnam
Added by Neal Putnam on Sep 01, 2016 12:54 AM
Dan Oh
John Downing

You've sent me several changes for this entry, but something doesn't smell right. His wife's entry says she is buried in Oklahoma, yet you say the husband died out there and was shipped back to Downingtown, Chester County, Pa for burial. That's an awful long trip in the 1830's Further, did I read she was Baptist, or was that her family? If she was not Quaker, John (Or Jeremiah) would most assuredly have been removed from a Quaker Meeting for marrying out of the faith and certainly not be permitted to be buried in a Quaker Cemetery.

I really think it is a stretch to think this John Downing is your Jeremiah Downing.

I have not declined your request, only 'ignored' if until you can provide documentation for your claim. I'm not trying to be a findagrave Nazi, just want to get the facts right. Let me know.

Added by Dan Oh on Aug 22, 2016 7:43 AM
Mathes twins
I'm writing re Iva and Ina Mathes McVay. They are twin sisters. Iva married Harry McVay and had two children. When Iva died Harry married her twin Ina and they raised the children. Do you know if its easy to get informational death certificates in Oklahoma? On the findagrave memorials you are managing there are two different birth dates and I'm not sure which is correct 1894 or 1895. Ina use to come to California to visit her sister Arminta Mathes Munyon (my husbands Grandmother). We remember her well. Would like to hear from you. Sandra Munyon
Added by SandraMunyon on Aug 19, 2016 7:20 PM
Nancy Lorenz
Marjorie Hopkins
Hi Pammy,

I'm wondering where you got Marjorie Hopkins's parent information. Can you please let me know the source of George Benjamin Hopkins and Eva Belle Moore Hopkins. George and Eva were my grandparents and we don't have any record of a Marjorie Hopkins. Thanks so much! Nancy in Oregon
Added by Nancy Lorenz on Aug 01, 2016 11:40 AM
Robert P. Higdon, Jr.
Sarah M. Stewart
Sarah Stewart is my great grand aunt who is buried in the Fairlawn Cemetery, in Stillwater. I would like to have a picture of her gravestone. I live in Maryland so it's not possible for me. Thanks
Robert Higdon
Added by Robert P. Higdon, Jr. on Jul 12, 2016 8:59 AM
J. Binder
Elizabeth Barlow
Pam, regarding your request for me to add her date of birth, may I ask what your source is for that information? I don't think I have any records that reflect a date of birth for her.
Added by J. Binder on Jun 21, 2016 10:17 AM
Edgar H. McComb
Thanks for trying to obtain a picture. I appreciate the assistance very much and have entered your findings in the bio section.

Edgar H. McComb - Find A Grave Memorial# 162636574
Ingalls Cemetery
Payne County
Oklahoma, USA
Added by Shane on Jun 19, 2016 10:25 PM
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