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Tess (#46890960)
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Bio Photo Hello, My name is Teresa (Keith) Coale. I am the daughter of Alden L. and Alma L. (Eslinger) Keith. My father is the son of Herman F. and Edna N. (Dralenats) Keith my mother is the daughter of Clyde P. and Gertrude E. (Reynolds) Eslinger.

I live in El Dorado Springs, Cedar Co. MO and I am here to find information on my family my Dad's side Keith, Draelants, Ellerman, my Mom's side Eslinger, Reynolds and Hochstedler. I am also doing genealogy for my kids on the Coale, Cargill, Burris and Scales.

I will also help people find information they are looking for. Right now I am working on listing all cemeteries in Cedar Co Missouri. Feel free to email me if you have information to give or if you would like for me to find information for you, and if you see I have made an error please let me know so it can be corrected. I am working from a Cedar Co. Cemetery Directory but still there might be mistakes or typing errors.

Please when suggesting a correction REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT THE FIND A GRAVE POLICE, But when suggesting a correction or addition to a certain memorial go to the memorial you are talking about then go to the (EDIT) button on the memorial you are referring too. Then if it is something like a birth/death date/place, link to spouse/parents, Name, etc. click on the link for that, when suggesting for something to go into the bio click the (SAC) line. PLEASE this sends a link so all we have to do is click and go straight to the memorial. When sending it other ways you have to click on several links to get to where you want us to go for the correction/update. This is getting really bothersome when I have so many to do a day. This is not the place for corrections/updates. I also will not update if I can not contact you to find out where you got your info if I need to ask questions. I like to verify my corrections before accepting them. If you send me a date update by the SAC link it will be deleted and not updated.

I do transfer memorials if your related. I think it is really sad that people are here just for numbers, what does that accomplish. I do not really care how your related as long as the memorial goes to a family member. I do not transfer memorials just because you like to collect them because they are ministers, railroader, or any other people you like to collect, that is not fair to the family members if they want the memorials. Please let me know how your related, and do not just put that they are in your family tree.

I also do not transfer to someone so they can update then they say they will transfer back to me. If you want to type it up I can always copy and paste it in myself. Thanks for the offer but I am a big girl and I know how.

Thanks Tess

Something I got in an email I thought was funny.

As a bagpiper, I play many gigs. Recently I was asked by a funeral director to play at a grave side service for a homeless man. He had no family or friends, so the service was to be at a pauper's cemetery in the Kentucky back-country.

As I was not familiar with the backwoods, I got lost; and being me, I didn't stop for directions. I finally arrived an hour late and saw the funeral guy had evidently gone and the hearse was nowhere in sight.

There were only the diggers and crew left and they were eating lunch. I felt badly and apologized to the men for being late. I went to the side of the grave and looked down and the vault lid was already in place. I didn't know what else to do, so I started to play.

The workers put down their lunches and began to gather around. I played out my heart and soul for this man with no family and friends. I played like I've never played before for this homeless man.

And as I played 'Amazing Grace,' the workers began to weep. They wept, I wept, we all wept together. When I finished I packed up my bagpipes and started for my car. Though my head hung low my heart was full.

As I was opening the door to my car, I heard one of the workers say, "I never seen nothin' like that before and I've been putting in septic tanks
for twenty years."

Why can't people just ask for directions?

Remember go to the edit button on the page you want updated. Do not send an email. My email is for information that can not be done through the edit button.
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Sharon Wallen
Lillie Tipton
Thank you for letting me know about my duplication of her memorial. I don't know how that happens!!
Added by Sharon Wallen on May 02, 2015 9:38 AM
John Blakemore Sellers
RE: Robert A. Gee
Your welcome. I am not related, but linking the Goble and Gee families. The Gee's are buried on the same farm property as the Goble's in Carter County, KY. Two separate cemeteries (Buckley and Goble).
Added by John Blakemore Sellers on Apr 30, 2015 10:04 AM
John Blakemore Sellers
RE: Robert A. Gee
Added by John Blakemore Sellers on Apr 30, 2015 9:21 AM
Joyce Steely
Thank you for Transfer
You have become my first friend...thank you for the transfer of Alford and Suzanne Keller.
I had no idea leaving a flower and note would be such a moving experience...can't wait to do it on all the ancestors I can find!
Added by Joyce Steely on Apr 27, 2015 10:53 AM
Joni Schultz
RE: U. G. Dowd
Yes, I give you the resources how I am researching for Ulysses Grant Dowd on United State Federal Census, marriage record, and his Family in, and finding his burial with photo in Anyone can research his death obit on the newspapers when if you want. He is my second cousin 3x on my family tree in I am God bless. Thanks, Joni
Added by Joni Schultz on Apr 20, 2015 5:33 PM
Carolyn Hartsell
Sarah Arnold
Thank you for transfering Sarah McFall Arnold into my care.
Added by Carolyn Hartsell on Apr 18, 2015 12:57 PM
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Mary (Tannehill) Garrison
Tjank you for the correction. We are very sorry that we made this mistake, we strive to be very correct.
Added by Member #47614207 on Apr 15, 2015 5:21 PM
Floydene Gillihan
Garringer #127899450
Sorry that the memorial of Garringer was a duplicate. I will be happy to delete it but first I wanted to ask if I had your permission to add the picture. I am assuming that it is a duplicate for Alexander "Alex" Garringer?

Thank you.
Added by Floydene Gillihan on Apr 14, 2015 4:13 PM
Steve Stephenson
Thank you for the transfer ...

... of Estella (Lollis) Cox 54007607.

It was a complete surprise, Tess!

Thank you,
Added by Steve Stephenson on Apr 06, 2015 9:40 PM
Susan Renfro Anderson
Minnie A Ellerman
I found Minnie's death certificate. It lists her name as Minnie Lawrence, single. Her parents are listed as John D Ellerman and Caroline Schenkel. The information was her brother W T Ellerman. There are trees on showing she was married to a Herman Heinrich Ellerman(1863-1937). I have doubts that this is correct. Since you are also related to the Ellerman. (My great grandparents were William Bacht and his wife Mary Caroline Ellerman), I wonder if this information is correct. I do not want to list wrong information on my tree.
Added by Susan Renfro Anderson on Mar 28, 2015 7:02 PM
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