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Clynnl In Memory of Greyling Betz (#46892046)
 member for 8 years, 7 months, 17 days
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My name is Cathi, I live in California. I have 2 boys ages 19 and 15. I never knew sites like this existed until my buddy Greyling Betz was shot and killed in Jan. 2007. His body was found in Tijuana, the so called friends he was with needed a story to explain why Greyling didn't return with them that night so they made up a car jacking story, they escaped but werent sure what had happened to my friend.
The real story is that they are the ones responsible for taking his life, there was no car jacking, but because he was found in Mexico, it is out of our there will probably never be an arrest...
So with all that said, you can imagine how difficult this whole thing has been for me. I am so thankful for this site and for the people of Find a Grave...being able to come here and leave messages for others and read the ones left has somehow brought a sense of comfort.
Please if you have time visit his memorial, and my mother too. The tokens and messages mean so much to me.

Another memorial that I created: Greyling Betz. Please feel free to visit it also.
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Beloved Kendall
New Year
Dear Cathi,
I do hope this finds you well. I know this time of year is a tough time for you and I send you love and hugs. I'm sorry justice has not been found for Greyling.

I do wish I had had the opportunity to have met him. I am certain he was an amazing person.

I hope 2015 is filled with joy and peace for you.

Remember to be good to yourself and cherish the memories of good times.

Love you and best wishes for a beautiful new year.

Added by Beloved Kendall on Dec 31, 2014 4:31 PM
Beloved Kendall
Dear Cathi
Hello Ms. Cathi,
I saw your message left on Greyling's page and was wondering what "we won" meant.
Did they actually won the people responsible for his passing?

I hope you are well and taking good care of yourself.

Added by Beloved Kendall on Dec 03, 2014 3:27 PM
Traci's Mom
Token you left for Traci Fields
Because of you and other wonderful findagrave friends, Traci now has 5,673 flowers/tokens, and her birthday is still almost 3 weeks away. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! We appreciate you so much.

I'm in awe! To show you more of what Traci was like, I posted the following on her memorial page,

"Traci, my angel, I can see the big grin on your face for all the flowers you're receiving on your memorial page. You're telling me, "Mom, why are you so surprised there are so many good people in this world? You should have known that....." "You're right, sweetheart, I should have known".

Traci was a person of strong faith, and GOD took excellent care of her, and helped her through all her hardships! Her faith never waivered.

We've received an outpouring of so much love for Traci. You are all a blessing.

Sharon (Traci's mom)
Added by Traci's Mom on Nov 17, 2014 12:59 PM
Beloved Kendall
Sending Love
Hello Cathi,
I hope this finds you well. I have not been on F.A.G. for a while, but I had a dream about Greyling. I was visiting California and I had the opportunity to have met him. He was handsome, cheerful and full of life.

I wish I had had met him before he was taken. He must have been such an incredible friend.

He was perfect in my dream. Laughing and enjoying himself.

I hope you are taking good care of yourself and I wish you well in all you do.

Remember to always be gentle with yourself.
You deserve it.

Love & Hugs,
Added by Beloved Kendall on Nov 16, 2014 5:40 PM
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Happy Birthday on October 10th, today!
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Hugs, Andy & JD
Added by Algernon and Conan Togeth... on Oct 10, 2014 2:20 PM
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Happy Birthday on Friday!
I hope you have a wonderful birthday! Many happy returns! Cecile
Added by Mom to angels Bo and Chri... on Oct 09, 2014 9:45 PM
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Added by Shawna on May 30, 2014 7:53 PM
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Added by dot~ on Oct 17, 2013 7:38 AM
Star Kline
Happy Belated Birthday. Hope you had a wonderful day, and that you will enjoy many more birthdays.
Added by Star Kline on Oct 11, 2013 8:01 AM
rosie mcnaughton
Belated birthday wishes...
I'm sorry I missed your birthday. I hope it was nice.
Added by rosie mcnaughton on Oct 11, 2013 6:54 AM
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