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LaDon Brennan (#46902635)
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Bio Photo "Do not regret growing old. It is a privilege denied to many."

I grew up in central Missouri where my ancestors settled, most from KY; I often return and photograph country cemeteries and haunt the library reference departments. Looking for gravestones for my Wells, Lane/Lain, Hazlewood/Hazelwood, Bellamy/Bellomy, Thoroughman/Thurman, Stayton, Pullen/Pullin/Pulliam, Gregg/Gragg, Rigg, Page families; others include Dunning, Gant, Payne, Settles/Suttle(s), Sudduth, Stoneking, Stewart, Shelten, Stoll.

A goal is to ensure there are memorials for all known burials in the "country" cemeteries in the Bates/Cass/Henry counties where my ancestors lived and are interred, and am photo indexing as many as I can - some are in woeful condition. Too many are now in cow pastures, vandalized or stones used in barn foundations. May those with so little respect for our ancestors be haunted by their ghosts.

Corrections, updates and link requests are welcomed so "our" memorials are informative and accurate -- please send maiden names if you know them. Every person has a story - hopefully memorial managers who prefer not to update or correct their memorials will transfer them to the requesting family member/friend to maintain and add the story -- or there will be a software update that allows third parties to contribute to memorials. Thanks to all the administrators who make the site available and user-friendly, and to the many great volunteers who make "finding Grandma" possible. Special thanks to photo volunteers who spend hours searching for lost grave markers, sometimes in overgrown, tick and snake infested, unkept, unmarked cemeteries.

You are welcome to use information or grave marker photos I have entered. If you do a copy/paste of a memorial with a bio, please credit Find-a-Grave and the contributor;-- a LOT of time and research has gone into many of these memorials. Please do not copy/post my "people" photographs.

Please make your edit/transfer requests from the "edit" link of the memorial and not from the profile page which I don't view often. I generally don't transfer memorials with researched bios, nor do I transfer to requesters who are rude/demanding, have no profile, have two or more times memorials managed as entered, (some contributors claim an astonishing number of "grandparents") or who are collectors -- but I'll always update and link memorials within a day or two if not traveling. While I don't acknowledge edits, I do appreciate receiving them and thank you for taking the time to improve the memorial.

If a contributor enters a memorial as "unknown", in incorrect cemetery, or with no DOD, and I later find the cemetery or a recent DOD, I do not create a duplicate with updated information and then insist the original contributor delete their memorial (or ask admins to delete it), even though the admins appear to facilitate that. (You know who you are.) I will always send an edit to the original contributor so they can correct their memorial. It seems contrary to the spirit of a co-operative website to do otherwise. It is also surprising that admins give preference to person who knowingly creates a duplicate over person who made an error on original memorial, probably in good faith, without giving them opportunity to make correction. Not sure when guidelines tightened up, but at least in 2007 it was permissible to enter a memorial for any tombstone that had a person's name engraved on it, with or without a DOD, if accompanied with tombstone photo.

In his profile, contributor Jeff G #47276975, expressed my own feelings about our responsibility to this Site and the memorials we manage, and he has kindly given me permission to share his comments, below:

"We don't "own" the memorials we manage - they are not ours. We may create them, we may update them, we may transfer them to others - we are but stewards. They are Find A Grave memorials of human beings, departed.

They are not "friends" on a social media network website to be collected like baseball trading cards. And there's no prize for the one who dies with the most.

The reward comes from maintaining the most accurate and dignified memorials we can. What we record becomes history, and a record in my or someone else's family tree. We have a responsibility to do a good job of it. It's a privilege and honor."

There are so many orphan memorials on the site, names entered and forgotten. Please, if you enter a memorial, have the common courtesy to add edits submitted by people who care.

Note - accidents and nerve damage to left arm and hand, combined with worsening of my Essential Tremor, preclude my ability to hold a camera, has resulted in numerous typos; please call them to my attention. If adding info from census records, I use spelling as shown - those aren't typos. Since I can not pursue my passion to photograph lost cemeteries, am using that time to enhance and link memorials.

Happy graving - and remember to thank our Veterans and Active Service men and women.

Nov 2015: To those "contributors" who send edits that significantly change a memorial content/links, but provide no profile, email or public message access so I can contact them to verify their source -- GET REAL.
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RD Keever
William Pitt Withers death
LaDon you might like too also change his death date from August 26 to August 25. While your at it click on the two new pictures I've posted on his memorial. R.D. Keever
Added by RD Keever on Apr 14, 2016 12:03 AM
Fred Bradley
RE: Barnes
You are welcome....Marker wasn't in very good shape and I didn't try to clean it.
Added by Fred Bradley on Apr 13, 2016 6:28 PM
Cynthia Kenny
RE: Elm Grove Cem
Hi LaDon-Yes, Elm Grove Cemetery is Tarkio Chapel Cemetery. Guess I didn't even realize someone had created Elm Grove Cemetery. I went through with the same thing in Maitland as it was the K of P Cemetery and then was changed to Maitland Cemetery, when I got them to finally merge, there are duplicates of numerous memorials!?!? What to do! The same in Mound City, someone created Mound City Cemetery, no such cemetery, but numerous memorials, so got them all to switch to either Old Mound City Cemetery or Mount Hope Cemetery. Contributors need to be careful if they are unfamiliar with this area before creating NEW cemeteries!
Added by Cynthia Kenny on Apr 08, 2016 7:37 PM
John A. Dunham
John A Dunham & his wife Mary A. Douglas Dunham are both burried in Harvey Cemetery LaRussell MO

Find a grave memorial # 42109624
Added by on Apr 01, 2016 8:54 PM
Douglas Pyeatt
Sorry I've taken so long I think I put request in wrong folder. I do'nt go by the guidelines as long as they are not my family ,so any time you wish a mem. just ask. I'll try to respond faster ?
. Happy hunting Doug
Added by Douglas Pyeatt on Mar 21, 2016 6:17 PM
Linda Cardinal Erler
RE: George Wells
You keep him or give to Vickie if she desires. Thanks for all your contributions.
Added by Linda Cardinal Erler on Mar 16, 2016 1:24 PM
RD Keever
William Pitt Withers
He is buried in the Withers Cemetery in Arkansas. About 8 miles from where he was wounded in the Battle of Ashley's Station of August 24, 1864, He died the next morning August 25, 1864. He was buried on the William Johnson farm of 1864, along with a few other unknown Confederate soldiers. His son, Jno. T. Withers Found his grave in 1911 and placed a nice headstone at the gravesite in late 1911 or early 1912.
R.D. Keever
Added by RD Keever on Mar 10, 2016 12:51 PM
Mary Leakey
Thanks for the additional information on Mary, memorial # 132464388. I have updated the information promptly for you!

I really appreciate adding information in the bio section. Please let me know if you are family, and would like a transfer of this memorial!

Thanks again for your helps!

Edmonds, WA

Added by Tami on Mar 07, 2016 8:46 PM
Amy Suzanne Martin
RE: Maude Leakey Coffer
lol ~ I think I have it now. I've added an obit for Maude's brother, Thomas Elmer LEAKEY, Find A Grave Memorial# 8595840. I'm related on the COFFER side. :)
Added by Amy Suzanne Martin on Feb 29, 2016 10:21 AM
Amy Suzanne Martin
Maude Leakey Coffer
Hi LaDon, thank you so much for the links to Maude's parents. I have also added her obituary to her page, Find A Grave Memorial# 137899387. Are you a relative? Many thanks, Amy
Added by Amy Suzanne Martin on Feb 29, 2016 7:20 AM
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