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Judy in California (#46930755)
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Bio Photo "Your tombstone stands among the rest;
neglected and alone
The name and date are chiseled out
on polished, marbled stone
It reaches out to all who care
It is too late to mourn
You did not know that I'd exist
You died and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you
in flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse
entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled
one hundred years ago
spreads out among the ones you left
who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
and come to visit you."
Author Unknown (but still searching)

Today we walked where others walked
On a lonely, windswept hill;
Today we talked where others cried
For Loved Ones whose lives are stilled.
Today our hearts were touched
By graves of tiny babies;
Snatched from the arms of loving kin,
In the heartbreak of the ages.
Today we saw where the grandparents lay
In the last sleep of their time;
Lying under the trees and clouds -
Their beds kissed by the sun and wind.
Today we wondered about an unmarked spot;
Who lies beneath this hallowed ground?
Was it a babe, child, young or old?
No indication could be found.
Today we saw where Mom and Dad lay.
We had been here once before
On a day we'd all like to forget,
But will remember forever more.
Today we recorded for kith and kin
The graves of ancestors past;
To be preserved for generations hence,
A record we hope will last.
Cherish it, my friend; preserve it, my friend,
For stones sometimes crumble to dust
And generations of folks yet to come
Will be grateful for your trust.

'A man who thinks too much about his ancestors is like a potato - the best part of him is underground.'' Dr Henry Sage Fenimore Cooper
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Cheryl Hanson
Nettie Belle Aery
Hi Judy,

You were correct. I changed her name and updated her memorial. Looks like I am going to have to check everything people send me.

Thank you very much,
Added by Cheryl Hanson on Aug 25, 2014 11:59 AM
David Melton
Jobe B Edens
Judy, Thank you for the knid words! If here are Edens located there do you pictures of them as well?
Added by David Melton on Aug 25, 2014 5:16 AM
RE: David Brown
You are very welcome, Celebrate Volunteerism!!!
Added by BobBoston on Aug 23, 2014 6:11 AM
Sara and Harvey Causey
RE: Maude & Julius Hudspeth
You're very welcome. It was our pleasure.
Added by Sara and Harvey Causey on Aug 22, 2014 7:18 AM
Jim TeVogt
Cooper in NYM
You are very welcome Judy. I'm glad I could help. This was my first visit to that cemetery and it was an interesting experience.
Added by Jim TeVogt on Aug 20, 2014 5:59 PM
Patricia Dunbar
Sarah Stacey Find A Grave Memorial# 36407985
Hi Judy...Checked my notes I made back in 1998 and the inscruption reads...Sarah Stacey Feb 22 to May 3, 1937.
Added by Patricia Dunbar on Aug 07, 2014 5:59 AM
Connie Clark
RE: Mildred and Clarence Hardy
Hi Judy, thank you for your kind words , it was out pleasure . We love going find a graving! We also found Mildred and Clarence Hardy died 2002 and 1941. They do not have memorials made. Not sure, but figured they were related . Took pictures😬 best wishes, Connie and Wayne
Added by Connie Clark on Aug 04, 2014 5:10 PM
RE: William Porter Burgett
it's best to call them to get it now days. The company recently changed hands.
Added by TLH on Aug 04, 2014 11:27 AM
John & Retta Waggoner
John Stone Cemetery
We enjoyed visiting this beautiful cemetery and taking these photos for you. A while back I purchased a Clay County Cemetery book on ebay. On a visit to this cemetery I carried the book and to my shock and surprise the former owners whose names were written on the inside cover were buried there.
(Wade & Loretta Stone). They had added several margin notes about their family. When I was having a problem locating the cemetery in the index I looked on the top of the page and written in pencil was "Stone page 227". Uncanny.
Added by John & Retta Waggoner on Jul 19, 2014 2:53 PM
Jane Stacy Eubanks
Harrison Stacy
Hi Judy...the only info I have on my Harrison is that his father was Benjamin Stacy and he was born in Kentucky and died in Arkansas. I believe all my Stacy's were from Kentucky.
Added by Jane Stacy Eubanks on Jul 12, 2014 8:57 PM
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