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Cheryl Ayres (#46935923)
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Bio Photo PLEASE DO NOT USE THE MESSAGE BOARD TO REQUEST TRANSFERS USE EDIT FOR EACH MEMORIAL YOU WOULD LIKE A TRANSFER. IF YOU USE THE MESSAGE BOARD I WILL NO LONGER COMPLY WITH YOUR REQUEST. IT IS WAY HARDER TO HUNT THE MEMORIAL YOU WANT TRANSFERRED DOWN.



Grave photos I have taken & any family photos I have shared you have my permission to copy.

**** PLEASE FOLLOW FINDAGRAVE GUIDELINES FOR TRANSFERS. ****
I have been burnt many times by a person here & there requesting 100's of memorials because they are remotely related & they are not directly related. This is why I changed & started following the guidelines for direct descendancy. Do you believe that these people will transfer them to their direct descendants? I don't think so, a direct descendant comes along & sees the memorial transferred to another, they won't even bother to request a transfer for they would think that the person who maintains the memorial is a direct descendant. I had one person tell me a horror story of his request for his father's memorial & was denied by a person who was related but remotely because they shared the same surname & this person was doing a one surname genealogy, this is what I would call hoarding & the same goes for relatives requesting a transfer for distant relatives. By only transferring to their direct descendants what better way can you connect to relatives you didn't know you had. A quote from findagrave guidelines "The goal is not to "own" every memorial of those to whom you are related. The ultimate goal should be to have meaningful, accurate memorials that honor those who have passed away, regardless of who created the memorial or who maintains it." I do bend the rules in special circumstances such as infants, relatives that did not marry or had no children or if someone is doing genealogy for a person who is a direct descendant, I also go beyond the 4 generation rule for direct descendancy. I am keeping my memorials in safe keeping until a direct descendant comes along to claim them. I am honoring them by keeping them safe for people who really care about them because they are their ancestor & not just a distant relative. I go way beyond just putting names & dates when creating memorials, I research & give more details then the simple gravestone has by adding maiden names, full birth & death dates, linking family, obituaries,biographies, etc. I too have relatives that I am not a direct descendant of but will gladly transfer them to their descendants when they come along. Please consider my point of view, there is a very good reason why I follow the guidelines. When I have had to decline a transfer I always have responded respectfully to the requester why I declined & my thinking on direct descendancy, they completely understand & commend me for my stand in this matter, of course their are a few who do not & have bullied me into transferring them by mean cruel ways, which is wrong. I respect the rights of others opinions,but you should also respect others points of views. I just wanted to let everyone know why I follow the guidelines. I do hope this gives others to be just a little bit more understanding of why the guidelines were put in place, after all the site originally was suppose to be virtual cemeteries & a source to find burial places for relatives & loved ones & not for maintaining their own family trees. I am a genealogist but do not use this site for my family tree, I have my own personal tree elsewhere where it belongs. I have shared my relatives on this site but as I said before I will transfer them to their descendants. It isn't about hoarding with me, it is about what is the right thing to do.


NOTE: MILITARY SERVICE if requested by immediate family & direct descendants, I will add rank to their name. Civil War Buffs & any other War Buffs please refrain from requesting the rank be added, you are not family & have no personal knowledge of these soldiers. I do not assume to know the wishes of the soldier to add rank to their names, only family have this authority. As a stranger I will however respectfully add it to their bio to honor their service. The only other exception would be career soldiers of which rank will be added to their name.

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Ann Garczynski
Webster Rural Cemetery
I saw that you added most of the folks in this cemetery. Kudos to you. That is a LOT of memorials. I just added a few because I was visiting my mother-in-law's grave and saw some veterans graves that needed photos. No need to add me for any of these memorials. I was just visiting and saw a few that I wanted to photograph. Thanks.
Added by Ann Garczynski on Jul 04, 2015 8:48 PM
Edward A Mallang 3rd
RE: Re: Mollie (Bogart) Bateman
Not a close relative, but part of our tree.

Yes, I saw the photo as a Christmas Card, and found the Obituary. Thought I'd share with the memorial.

Always looking to provide more information about the people that the memorials represent. Guess that's how we keep the memory of them alive a bit longer, eh?

I do have her name listed as;

"Mary Bertha "Mollie" Bogart (1880 - 1975)"

and she was the grand aunt of wife of nephew of husband of grand aunt (Shirtail Reletive, eh?)

Also note below....Delores K 'Dode' Moon (1934 - )

daughter of Ojetta 'Jennie' Bogart, is still alive and active. I talked to her a few months ago, and got some information from her about her kids and their family's. We all grew up together here in Everett, WA., and I had a high school crush on her daughter 'Lorita', but got siderailed when I met Geneva (my wife of 47 years).

My family told me 50 years ago, that 'Dode' was related to our family, but I never really understood the connection. Now I do, as the tree is pretty complete.

Anyway... small world.

Warm Regards,

Skip (See lineage below)

Edward A 'Skip' and Geneva Mallang 3rd
4725 Castle Lane
Everett, WA. 98203
425-367-4970
Mallang@frontier.com


"Mary Bertha "Mollie" Bogart (1880 - 1975)"

grand aunt of wife of nephew of husband of grand aunt

Jesse Wilson "Jape" Bogart Jr (1821 - 1892)
father of Mary Bertha "Mollie" Bogart

George Jason Bogart (1869 - 1953)
son of Jesse Wilson "Jape" Bogart Jr

Ojetta 'Jennie' Bogart (1900 - 1982)
daughter of George Jason Bogart

Delores K 'Dode' Moon (1934 - )
daughter of Ojetta 'Jennie' Bogart

Raymond Allen Canell Sr (1926 - 2006)
husband of Delores K 'Dode' Moon

Charles Edward Canell (1900 - 1986)
father of Raymond Allen Canell Sr

Martha J Goldenbadge (1874 - 1962)
mother of Charles Edward Canell

William Jefferson Canell (1895 - 1975)
son of Martha J Goldenbadge

Agnes May Moore (1903 - 1958)
wife of William Jefferson Canell

Edward Henry J Moore (1871 - 1961)
father of Agnes May Moore

Beatrice Viola Moore (1904 - 1988)
daughter of Edward Henry J Moore

Edward Andy Mallang Jr. (1925 - 1996)
son of Beatrice Viola Moore

Edward Andy Mallang 3rd
I am the son of Edward Andy Mallang Jr.
Added by Edward A Mallang 3rd on Jul 04, 2015 4:50 AM
Gerald Deckard
Charles Davidson - FG # 75818227
Charles Davidson - FG # 75818227
Cheryl Ayres - Leave Public Message
Cheryl,
Charles is the spouse of a relative of mine. Would you transfer the maintenance of his memorial to me? If you prefer to not transfer, would you make the following changes to it?
b. 13 Apr 1860 - USA
d. 30 Jan 1924 - USA

h/o Lovina Huntley
f/o:
Emzi Acacia Davidson (1881 - 1952)
Ludesta Davidson Russell (1883 - 1960)

Add gravestonel note: Franklin Cemetery - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA

Thanks,
Jerry
Gerald Deckard (#47609545)
Added by Gerald Deckard on Jul 03, 2015 2:38 PM
Gerald Deckard
Ludesta Davidson Russell - FG # 75836298
Ludesta Davidson Russell - FG # 75836298
Cheryl Ayres - Leave public message
Chery,
Ludesta is my 2nd cou 1X rem. Would you transfer the maintenance of her memorial to me? If you prefer to not transfer, would you make the following changes to it?

b. 1883 - USA
d. 22 Sep 1960 - USA
d/o Charles and Lovina Huntley Davidson
w/o ? Russell

Add the gravsrone note: Franklin Cemetery - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA
Thanks,
Jerry
Gerald Deckard (#47609545)
Added by Gerald Deckard on Jul 03, 2015 2:01 PM
Gerald Deckard
Cora Bell Huntley Sprouse - FG # 75849207 Cheryl Ayres - Leave public message Cheryl, Cora is my fir
Cora Bell Huntley Sprouse - FG # 75849207
Cheryl Ayres - Leave public message
Cheryl,
Cora is my first cousin twice removed. Would you transfer the maintenance of her memorial me? If you prefer not to transfer would you make the following changes to it?
b. 17 Dec 1868 - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA
d. 21 Oct 1924 - Wilkesville, Vinton, Ohio, USA
d/o Henry Huntley and Catherine Elizabeth Cardwell
w/o Ben James Frank Sprouse
Add links:
Father - Henry - 142617060
Mother - Catherine - 97137722
Add burial note: Franklin Cemetery - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA
Thanks,
Jerry
Gerald Deckard (#47609545)
Cheryl Ayres - Leave public message
Cheryl,
Cora is my first cousin twice removed. Would you transfer the maintenance of her memorial me? If you prefer not to transfer would you make the following changes to it?
b. 17 Dec 1868 - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA
d. 21 Oct 1924 - Wilkesville, Vinton, Ohio, USA
d/o Henry Huntley and Catherine Elizabeth Cardwell
w/o Ben James Frank Sprouse
Add links:
Father - Henry - 142617060
Mother - Catherine - 97137722
Add burial note: Franklin Cemetery - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA
Thanks,
Jerry
Gerald Deckard (#47609545)
Added by Gerald Deckard on Jul 02, 2015 8:06 PM
Gerald Deckard
Lovina Huntley Davidson - FG # 75818325
Lovina Huntley Davidson - FG # 75818325
Cheryl Ayres - Leave public message
Cheryl,
Lovina is my first cousin twice removed. Would you transfer the maintenance of her memorial me? If you prefer not to transfer would you make the following changes to it?

b. 1Feb 1859 - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA
d. 20 Nov 1941 - Columbus, Franklin, Ohio, USA
d/o Henry Huntley and Catherine Elizabeth Cardwell
Lovina died of Cardio Vascular Renal Disease - Senility.
Residence - Columbus, Feanklin, Ohio, USA
Add links:
Father - Henry - 142617060
Mother - Catherine - 97137722
Add burial note: Franklin Cemetery - Huntington, Gallia, Ohio, USA
Thanks,
Jerry
Gerald Deckard (#47609545)
Added by Gerald Deckard on Jul 02, 2015 6:34 PM
Sheryl Siegl
Martha Mattie Belle Austin Abbs
Cheryl, I have been researching the Abbs family and met with confusion because some trees show Mattie Austin and Martha Belle Abbs as 2 different people. I now know they are one in the same. However, she could not have been the mother of Virgil Abbs, as he was born in 1922, 9 years after she died. Virgil and his siblings would have been the children of William Abbs' second wife, Nora. Martha/Mattie would have been the mother of William's oldest children, Letha Maud Abbs (born 1907) and Bernard Abbs, born 1909. I have found documentation for Letha in church baptismal records. Thought you might want to know.
Sheryl S.
Added by Sheryl Siegl on Jun 29, 2015 1:52 PM
Colin John Chatfield
FaG 75512339
Charles Lawrence Bolden. Many thanks. The death certificate confirms a lot except his middle name. But well done.
Added by Colin John Chatfield on Jun 27, 2015 3:28 PM
Angie Robinson
Carl Arthur Brewer 48901486
BREWER, CARL ARTHUR
US MERCHANT MARINE
WORLD WAR II
DATE OF BIRTH: 07/29/1914
DATE OF DEATH: 07/01/1970
BURIED AT:
LONGVIEW MEMORIAL PARK
5050 MOUNT SOLO ROAD PO BOX 217 LONGVIEW, WA 98632
(360) 423-6090

from VA
Added by Angie Robinson on Jun 26, 2015 8:21 PM
Daniel copper
Daniel walter copper
Charity & chastiy coppernoll. We are his twin daughters. 10 24 1977.
Added by Daniel copper on Jun 23, 2015 10:20 PM
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