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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

~~~~~ABOUT PHOTOS~~~~~

Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Debbie W
RE: Biorn and Welge Photos
Hadn't heard.....Was it John or Thomas?
Added by Debbie W on Oct 21, 2015 9:55 AM
Foster grave at Sac County Cem
Thank you Mary! You have helped solve a huge mystery for our family. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to go out of you way and go down to take these photos. You are the best!
Mike Stuart
Added by mike20169 on Oct 15, 2015 5:57 PM
Jennifer Eagan Dixon
John Eagan
Thank this a mass grave?
Added by Jennifer Eagan Dixon on Oct 15, 2015 3:20 PM
charlie shores
Ivan shores
Thank you for the photo of grandpa ivan
Added by charlie shores on Sep 19, 2015 7:03 PM
RE: Edward Hope
Thanks you for posting the photos on his and his wifes memorials. I am glad the request led you to stones/markers that weren't previously visible (it is unfortunate that it took a drought). Also thanks for pointing out the other contributors duplicate.
Added by MJH on Sep 19, 2015 12:00 PM
Thank for the photo at Sacramento County Cemetery. Can you tell me if this is a mass burial site or like a "potter's field"? See Memorial# 123102131

Anita Kilburn Powers #48113519
Added by AnitaKilburnPowers on Sep 16, 2015 1:59 PM
Edward Hope
Thanks for the picture.
Added by Max on Sep 12, 2015 8:59 PM
Edward Hope
Thanks for the picture.
Added by Max on Sep 12, 2015 8:59 PM
Edward Hope
His obituary states "burial will be in the veterans cemetery in Sacramento" . I had added his wifes memorial first and found his obit while researching her. (According to her obituary graveside services were held at Sacramento County Veterans Memorial Cemetery) .
Thanks for the message and for notifying the other person of their duplicate.
Added by MJH on Sep 12, 2015 6:27 PM
Debbie W
RE: Biorn and Welge Photos
Thank you so much for photographing and posting! There is something almost settling about having them documented on this site.

I had forgotten that my cousin Michael was buried at that same cemetery! Thank you for transferring it to me so I can add information. His brother Glenn died this summer. I can do a memorial for him (different cemetery). I'll have to see if I can get photographs of them to add to their memorials.

Can you also transfer a couple of other memorials at that cemetery? 129012656, Joshua Steven Lynch (my cousin Gordon's baby) and 13053564A, Alathea Faulk (cousin Diane's baby). Both of these babies died from heart problems and very close together.

Were you able to find my cousin Susan Lynch(or Altop)? She should have been by my grandparents. (Maybe there is no marker.)
Added by Debbie W on Aug 24, 2015 10:42 AM
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