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Tazgirl (#46997648)
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Bio Photo I'm a single Mom of 2 wonderful boys, and a husband who is gone but not forgotten, James Lloyd Jordan Jr. Find A Grave Memorial# 73425566. I followed in my mother's mother's footsteps and fell in love with researching my family. I have found many cousins through And 1 family though this website, who I consider not only a cousin but a best friend.
If you have any questions about something I add please don't hesitate to ask. If you would like help breaking through your brick wall my cousin and I would be more than happy to help. You can click on our website located in my profile. or you can email us @ If you are looking at my folders and you are related to My husband's side, check my folders marked James, mine and Robbi's side or the folder Mom's, Mama Jodi, James, Robin and My Family Connection. Chances are you will find your loved one's in these 2 folders for I found several wraps to my husband and I.
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Chet Walker
RE: Barr Family Cemetery
I appreciate the offer but I am not related to anyone in Ashe Co. so am happy to transfer to any relative who is active on F-A-G.
Also, I uploaded all my photos in Sept 2013 so have not been adding anything since then.
Added by Chet Walker on Aug 25, 2014 11:41 AM
RE: Pvt James W. Sherlin
You're very welcome!
Added by Donna on Aug 21, 2014 10:14 AM
RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 28286348
It was my pleasure, truly; The Confederate Cemetery is beautiful and I love going. I am swamped with schoolwork right now, but when I find time I will go to the downtown library and see if I can find the obituaries for Mai Calhoun and her husband and then post them. It might be a few weeks but I will get to it :) Good luck with your genealogy project!
Added by HomesickOkie on Aug 20, 2014 6:28 AM
Robert Kuhmann
#123807006 & #17233694
Hi Roxanne,
cc: Kim Jacobson (#46593064)

You said, "re: Find A Grave Memorial# 123807006
Hi, My name is Roxanne Jordan. Catherine Montgomery was the wife of my 3rd cousin 10x's removed. I do see you have made a duplicate memorial but do have the same information that I do. Was wondering if you know which cemetery is correct. Here is a copy of the original memorial made. Created by: Kim Jacobson. Record added: Dec 31, 2006. Find A Grave Memorial# 17233694
Has the same tombstone as the one you have. I find this kind of odd. I wanted to contact you before contacting Kim and you asking about merging these two since the rule is a duplicate who ever created first has the rights to keep unless there is no direct relationship. I'm also interested in sharing information on this line along with the Hamm/ Ham's. The Ham/Hamm was my 2gr grandfathers line and the Calhoun's was my 2nd gr grandmothers. Thanks for any help, Roxie
ps you may email me @ or leave me a public message. Added by Tazgirl on Aug 13, 2014 7:23 PM".


Robert replies to Roxanne, both memorials are useful and special!

1) My entry is NOT A DUPLICATE. It's the physical burial site.
2) Whereas Kim's memorial was added at the site of the actual murders. That location bears a "cenotaph", which marks the place, as a historical site.
3) But, according to competent research, there are no burials of "those killed", at that location.
4) Research also indicates, that the physical burial site is, "Calhoun Cemetery" (which is where I added my memorial).
5) I didn't add that cemetery to Find A Grave, nor the photo of the "cenotaph" - other volunteers did so.
5) Alas, there is NO "surviving" gravestone for Catherine, as a victim of the massacre (inside of "Calhoun Cemetery" - or, if one once existed - it's now "lost to time").
6) I suggest that BOTH of memorials be retained.
7) I've added a notation - pointing to Kim' work - and she may add a reciprocal notation.

That's what has been done to resolve similar, otherwise "conflicting" memorials - and following the advice of the F.A.G. Admin staff.

Robert Kuhmann (#46567652)
Find A Grave member for 11 years, 5 months, 25 days.

Added by Robert Kuhmann on Aug 13, 2014 8:58 PM
RE: Stembridge Family
Got your request and have transferred Charles Stembridge to you. I will plan to take a photo when I can pinpoint his plot in the cemetery. :)
Added by LadyG8r924 on Aug 11, 2014 5:22 PM
RE: Twin Valley memorial Park
If you can not call you can go to the Twin Valley Memorial Park website and email them.

Added by Franny on Jul 27, 2014 1:36 PM
Twin Valley memorial Park
I saw your request for Harold and Mildred Beaver
I have taken a lot of outside tombstone pictures. I have not indexed all of the over 10,000 pictures yet. If you can tell me what section he is in I will gladly look for you.
If you don't have the section, the cemetery has a website you can always email them and ask.

Added by Franny on Jul 18, 2014 3:35 PM
mike reeves
RE: Ewing Picture Request
You're welcome, I enjoy the pastime.
Added by mike reeves on Jul 05, 2014 11:01 AM
RE: JW Calhoun
Not sure exactly to this JW but seems we all descend from a James Calhoun. he had many children the best I remember. one of his sons was James > William > Liza who was my great grandmother. All Ashe county Calhouns seem to trace back to him.
Added by Roger on Jun 30, 2014 11:46 AM
JW Calhoun
Hi, I am related to all the Calhouns in Ashe county but Jw isnt that close to my side. Will be happy to transfer.
Added by Roger on Jun 27, 2014 6:29 PM
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