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Trudi Scarborough-Strahan-Farlow (#47054689)
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Bio Photo WELL, I HAVE MOVED BACK TO SULPHUR,LA. Been kinda out of the site for a while since I lost my dad in 2010. however, I am starting back up again in good ol 2012.I have always loved graveyards! My mom says that ever since I was a child I loved going with my grandmother,Izetta Parker, and listen to all the history of our family. I have always wanted to know about my Grandfather,Mytric Parker,he was murdered in 1972 while he was being robbed at the store they owned. Which to this day his murder is a cold case in Gulfport,Mississippi.I believe that his case is the reason I am always trying to put in the names of those who lost their lives due to abuse or murder. Everyone that lived has a story to tell and some of us in this world feel the need to either tell it or make sure they are not ever FOROTTEN. I also have family that belongs to the Parker,Smith,Flurry,Scarborough,Breland families that are in Harrison,Stone,Hancock and Pearl River Counties in Mississippi.The Strahan is from my first husband and Farlow is from the present husband. I love taking photo requests for people in my area. If I put a name of your family or a close friend and you wish to correct me or own it just ask or tell me.I mean no harm to anyones family of a loved one lost by the hands of other people. I have lost some very close friends at the hand of others by people drinking and driving and have a virtual graveyard for those that have died to this senseless act.HAPPY GRAVING....
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Ken Bosso
Stephen Ledell 38623533
I have added plot data for Stehen. You can see the additions on your profile page under the "edits" tab. This is a new edit system that is really easy to use. You can look at my profile page if you want more info about it.
Added by Ken Bosso on Jan 27, 2014 12:05 PM
Linda Ellis
RE: hi there
Hello Trudi -
Maybe distantly :-) - My relatives married into all the families you named I think. I have a lot of them in my family tree, starting with Henry marrying my ancestor John Havens' sister, Elizabeth,
who are buried in the Old Flurry Cemetery now in George Co MS. [when they died, it was Jackson Co.]
Added by Linda Ellis on Mar 03, 2013 7:52 AM
Robin Harris Edwards
Mya George
Trudi, that's is a sad story for Mya. I had thought about creating homemade markers for those without headstones. The problem with the big cemeteries is that they only allow certain types of stones. I wish something could be done. So sad. Thanks for sharing her story though.
Added by Robin Harris Edwards on Mar 03, 2013 6:51 AM
RE: Your Virtual Cemeteries - Memorials to Unsolved Murders in Baton Rouge
Hello -

Thank you in advance for updating your Virtual Cemeteries - Memorials to Unsolved Murders in Baton Rouge memorial with one for Heidi M. Goetsch, when you get a chance.

I'll send you an email directly from my email account (moi533) to yours (VIVIAN012404.)

Again, thank you for keeping the memories of murder victims alive.

Jean E. DeLauche, St. Louis, Missouri

Added by JDeLauche on Dec 10, 2012 4:55 PM
Duffie and Kathy
Trudi, So good to hear. We send you a SAC but you must be a little behind on them. It was on Julie Ann Martin. Take care D & K
Added by Duffie and Kathy on Dec 03, 2012 5:55 AM
Duffie and Kathy
Trudi are you OK? D & K
Added by Duffie and Kathy on Nov 30, 2012 3:44 PM
Forgot to Add - Your Virtual Cemeteries
Hello, again -

I forgot to add that I found a photo of Heidi as an adult on a web site and have saved it, in case you choose you add her info to one of your Virtual Memorials.

Again, thank you.
Jean E. DeLauche, St. Louis, Missouri
Added by JDeLauche on May 11, 2012 3:33 PM
Your Virtual Cemeteries - Memorials to Unsolved Murders in Baton Rouge
Hello -

In trying to find out more about a murder of a childhood friend - Heidi M. Goetsch, killed by multiple gun shots, Baton Rouge, July 17, 2003 - I found your Virtual Graveyards. I don't know where Heidi is buried. She may have been cremated with no burial.

Would you mind adding her to one your Virtual Graveyards? These are the details I have for her:
Name: Heidi M. Goetsch
Born: Sept. 21, 1955 (Milwaukee, Wisconsin, I believe)
Died: July 17, 2003 (Thursday), Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Murdered, unsolved to date
Father: Arthur Otto Goetsch, born: May 31, 1925, Sheboygan County, Wisconsin; died: July 13, 1987, Wheaton, DuPage County, Illinois

I've checked online to verify if her murder case has been closed, but I didn't find anything.

You have done a wonderful thing to memorialize those who have been cruelly murdered.

Thank you in advance.
Jean E. DeLauche, St. Louis, Missouri

Added by JDeLauche on May 11, 2012 3:30 PM
Duffie and Kathy
Welcome back and we are sorry to hear about your Dad. D & K
Added by Duffie and Kathy on Jan 29, 2012 4:40 PM
Barbara Munson
Walter Cowan - Metairie Cemetery
I see you have a photo request at Metairie Cemetery. I'm out at Metairie often, but the cemetery is huge. There are currently 87 requests for photos there. If I present a list of 87 graves asking for locations, the lady will probably shoot me. If you can call the cemetery and get the location, I'll be happy to try to locate the grave and take a photo for you. The phone number of the cemetery office is 504-486-6331.

Be aware that Metairie has locations listed by who owns the cemetery plot. For example, they couldn't find my uncle who died in 2006 until I realized he was buried with his in-laws who died in the 1960s. When you call, have a list of other surnames for them to check under in case your person is buried with in-laws, etc.

Barbara Munson
Added by Barbara Munson on Jan 16, 2011 9:50 AM
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