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Mary Kirby (#47060304)
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Bio Photo I am an avid genealogist concentrating primarily upon the Kirby surname and whomever the females in that family married. I have worked from my immediate family back to Richard Kirby and Sarah Small from Tennessee and am now working forward from each of their children to the present, a daunting task as my ancestors tended to be very prolific!

My interest in cemeteries started right before I was supposed to retire from the Air Force in 2001 when I took my father to Scottsboro, Alabama to see where his father and grandfather were from and visit his great grandfather's grave. The cemetery where his great grandfather is buried was neglected and in very sad condition. We decided we'd go back there armed with a lawn mower and weedeater and take care of that cemetery at the next opportunity. 9/11 happened so I didn't get out of the Air Force when planned and then one thing after another kept us from going back. Last summer we had planned to revisit the cemetery and do what we could to preserve it. Daddy's health didn't allow us to do that and his death this past September ensured that the two of us would never be able to. I understand now that it may be too late to help that cemetery as loggers have pretty much destroyed it completely. That is very sad considering how long those tombstones had been around (all early and mid 1800's many had even withstood a war) and I am even more grateful for the pictures of them I took when daddy and I were there. Now I'm taking pictures of tombstones for two reasons, one being the obvious, searching for data on ancestors and two being the preservation of history.

Feel free to download any gravestone pictures I have taken and posted.

Please before asking for a transfer make sure you have reviewed the FAG policies on transfers! You can add pictures without a transfer. You can request edits and link creations under the "edit" tab. Transfer requests should be for direct relatives within four generations. This would be your siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. The majority of folks I have added to FAG are actually related to me the exception to that are memorials in the Checotah, Greenlawn Cemetery. Outside of Greenlawn Cemetery if I have added them then they are related to me.

My major research interests are the surnames Kirby, Hamm, Ritchie, Parker, Rogers, Dearmore, Butler, Casey, Miller, Giles.
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Messages left for Mary Kirby (206)[Leave Message]
Willis H. (Matt) Boles Obit
Hi Mary,

I was wondering if it's possible that you might be related to Willis Boles. You had added his obituary to his Find A Grave entry.

I'm trying to find someone who has more information about him, as I have connections to his Boles family members. In the obituary it states that he had seven children, so I'm assuming that he had descendants running around somewhere.


Barbara Burt in NC
Added by SleepingDog on Apr 30, 2015 11:21 AM
Thank You
Thanks so much. Peggy
Added by pz on Apr 29, 2015 11:26 AM
Frances Dunbar #141178664
Hi Mary- I wonder if you would look up an article published in McIntosh Co. Democrat dated 11-08-1928 which is a Card of Thanks referring to Frances by Ida Capps and Vic Cave (her children).
Would you either post it to the memorial page or email to me I don't have newspaper access. Thank you so so much for all the work you do. Peggy (g-granddaughter)
Added by pz on Apr 29, 2015 6:57 AM
William R Porter
Thank you. Peggy
Added by pz on Apr 29, 2015 6:19 AM
Sue Arnn
Samuel Lafayette Arnn
Please add the following information for this memorial:

Father: Berryman Arnn # 109203183
Mother: Joanna Amanda Blair Arnn # 112492385

Thank you so much!

Sue Arnn
Added by Sue Arnn on Apr 26, 2015 5:46 PM
Samuel M Alexander # 112201713
Thank you for the pictures you have taken in the Council Hill Cemetery with the surname of Alexander. Several are relatives, and I'm trying to link this Samuel to the rest of the family in that cemetery. Do you have any other info on him? I see the stone is very close to other Alexanders that I have been trying to get all connected.
Added by maryca on Apr 19, 2015 5:01 PM
Hamner G Turner, Sr
Mary- Thank you for the update. You did a great job on the bio.
I also noticed that you added a clipping for Thomas Cave - thank you.
I am a relative for each of these so thanks again.
Added by pz on Mar 23, 2015 8:26 AM
Family - Coughran, Merkel, Weber. Williams
Thank you for all your work and help, Mary. I appreciate everything you do.
Added by DS on Mar 16, 2015 2:30 PM
Mary Ann Weshinskey
Edward Dawson Cameron #20561252
Thanks for the info on Mr. Cameron's parents. The info has been added.
Added by Mary Ann Weshinskey on Mar 14, 2015 4:09 PM
Thank you for accepting my edits.
SDT (#48294079)
Added by SDT on Mar 04, 2015 12:04 PM
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