Hi Amy Welcome aboard! This site gets very addictive in a nice way... Only the person that posts the memorial can tranfer a memorial...when you own the memorial, meaning you posted it, on the upper right corner of your memorial that you posted will read: transfer ownership, edit, delete. I just click on transfer and a page will popp up and I enter you member #, that is the # next to your name on YOUR member page, and the rest is easy. I suggest you read the "frequently asked questions" on the FindAGrave home page, that has a lot of information for you. So, all I need is your mothers name and I will transfer her to you... Happy Graving, dot in calif.