I maintain a family (and friends) tree in Rootsweb Worldconnect, database named Abeln, page name Ruyle.
I thank everyone for their suggestions. I realize that not all details for every entry is as complete as my tree. I myself would prefer to post as much information as is available. However, as much as possible, I am trying to honor the wishes of those who are closest to the deceased, with regard to the information posted in FindaGrave.
In response to a few recent requests, please be aware that for graves I have added that are a part of my family tree, I use the most complete and accurate information available to me, and not necessarily the exact information on the death certificate or in the obituary, which is sometimes wrong.