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Tari L Elam (#47250223)
 member for 5 years, 1 month, 24 days
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Bio Photo I've been collecting family stories for many years and am finally at a place where the threads of the quilt have come together; ready for assembly and display. Honored by my oft' times 'crazy' family, I continue chasing 'white rabbits' and have made more than one error in my conclusions. I ask only that people let me know if a perceived error is discovered. I am always pleased to correct family records. It is as important for me as I trust it is for each of you.


I decline to give permission to use my photos for resale, for profit, or to upload to a different web site.


I will happily transfer ownership of memorials to family members provided the memorial is unrelated to my own genealogy research.

*** PLEASE send any requests for edits or transfers from the edit link on the memorial you want me to look at. Remember to include your F.A.G. member number. ***

Thank you for your understanding.
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Just found and posted the 1920 census with James and Edith and a new clue, James' mother, they are in Bakersfield, maybe this will help pinpoint where he is buried. I changed the approx. marriage date of Edith and Martin.
Added by Eileen on Apr 23, 2015 3:39 PM
Chiatovich, of course
From the census record Edith is not even acknowledging her first marriage as she claims she first married at age 35 and she is 37, Martin however acknowledges his first marriage.
Added by Eileen on Apr 23, 2015 3:31 PM
RE: Both are right
It is moments like this that we are both celebrating that reinforces how great this sight and its volunteers are.
Added by Eileen on Apr 23, 2015 1:49 PM
Doug & Marilyn Parman
RE: John McGovern # 57571946
That is the cemetery photo. The next time I go to the cemetery I will try to remember to take a photo. Or request a photo, my cemetery records shows he has a marker. I was there yesterday so it might be a week before I go again. But who knows if I get a lot of requests I may go earlier.

Added by Doug & Marilyn Parman on Apr 23, 2015 11:55 AM
Both are right
I don't know why they won't show up in the correct order, ah the glitches that drive us crazy.
Added by Eileen on Apr 23, 2015 10:23 AM
If you want unlink her from Neil and I will relink her from my end.
Added by Eileen on Apr 23, 2015 10:10 AM
RE: Edith Chiatovich
The only spouse that comes up from my end is Martin. Both spouses are listed but only the person who linked them can go into the links and add a marriage date to correct the order.
Added by Eileen on Apr 23, 2015 10:08 AM
RE: Edith Chiatovich
I have added the approximate marriage date with Martin, because you added the other spouse and linked you have to add 1910 to that one, I can't. Thanks, Eileen
Added by Eileen on Apr 23, 2015 8:38 AM
Edith Chiatovich
Hi Tari,
Thank you so much for the update of Edith's memorial with her parents. I have a special place for the family being one of the first Nevada families I researched when I moved here and Edith has always been a brick wall. I am so looking forward to adding information to her memorial, thanks again, Eileen.
Added by Eileen on Apr 22, 2015 7:10 PM
Dana G
RE: Wafers at Holy Cross
You are very welcome! Please do stay in touch, and remember to let me know if and when you come to the SF Bay Area, and if I can help you in any way.
Added by Dana G on Apr 14, 2015 10:35 PM
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