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pkarchs (#47286217)
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Most memorials added or managed by me are family - related either directly or a few degrees removed. The vast majority I researched, discovered, visited, documented, linked beginning in 1994. Unless the subject is part of current research, I'm happy to transfer a memorial to anyone more closely related than I am, regardless of generation and especially if they have further information and connections to add. If I've posted a photo of interest to you, please use it - no permission required, giving credit when practical and appropriate to do so.

I both request and transfer management because the most meaningful memorials on Find-A-Grave are created by many interested and dedicated volunteers working together. Put the memorial in the hands of the most knowledgeable - typically a direct relation with vested interest or a local enthusiast with invaluable insights. The "Family First policy of Four Generations" has become a failed excuse for the well-known few to maintain control and rack up unattended "numbers" at the expense of expanding useful information for the majority and posterity. I respect those who labor long hours by groundwork and online to produce vast data on Find-A-Grave. By contrast, my emphasis is connectivity of the "relative" few I knew or have come to know well. I strive to be accurate, scholarly and welcome corrections.

Hypothetical or "unknown" memorials often lead to real answers; this has happened for me countless times. With the help of others, deductive hypothesis becomes actual discovery when and where least expected. I've not only found unexpected graves this way, but entire cemeteries. In my sleuthing, I inadvertently stumbled into three ancestral cemeteries in 2011 not previously found on this site and whose descriptions, interments, and transcriptions I introduced and partially or fully manage:

1) Lyon-Rawson Cemetery [Byram Neck, Greenwich, Fairfield Co., CT]
2) Solomon Gedney Burial Ground [Village of Mamaroneck, Rye, Westchester Co., NY]
3) Bailey Cemetery [Mahopac, Putnam Co., NY]

I have a particular interest in design of all kinds - in this context: funerary, both graphic and literary. For this reason, I aspire to accurate transcriptions correct by line, case, font. By means of text transcriptions, Google scans the verbiage and only then does it become searchable on the internet. Few epitaphs are original and with even a few eroded words and partial phrases, the indecipherable becomes known. The best photograph (text unsearchable via Google) is not enough.

Finally, I prefer quality over quantity, recognizing that perfection takes time and you have to start somewhere.

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Rodney Bercham
RE: Re: Bernhard Bercham
Thanks Phillip
Got your email and have forward it to my sister for info and comment. I am waiting for her input and once received will collate the comments and any addition info and send you an email. If you could be patient with us we will get back to you as soon as possible. My sister does have strong opinions, especially regarding our Aunty Gert, and your conclusions which are the same as mine she has found difficult to accept. Gert was her favourite aunty and our father's favourite sister. Gert,as far as my sister is concerned, was a "Bercham" and had that" Bercham know all attitude and never being wrong". As it is my sister is pleading info overload.Importantly some years ago my sister did have a talk,albeit a short one, with Gert which did influence the way we targeted our research. Once again you thank for sending all that info, and please bear with us,I will get back to you as soon as possible.
Thank You Rodney
Added by Rodney Bercham on Oct 18, 2016 8:19 PM
Rodney Bercham
Bernhard Bercham
Hi I am Rodney Bercham grandson of Bernhard Berchem. I was amazed when I stumbled across this this web site with the amount of info about my grandfather, I have not been able to find any details regarding his birth, or any activities before he married my grandmother Mary Ann Phillippa Pearce on 26 Sept 1896, nor after my father was born on 16 Aug 1908. A lot of the difficulties is due to all the descendants using the surname Bercham and assuming Bernhard was born in 1864 and not 1857. I have some info regarding the children you may find interesting or useful but I need to put it in some sort of order first, so let me know if you interested. I notice some interest in my Aunty Delcie Florence Bercham. She was the second wife of my Uncle Frederick Richard Bercham. His first wife was Ivy May [Woods] Bercham who died in 7 July 1955. My grandmother Mary Ann was born in Black Rock in South Australia on 18 October 1881. She was originally buried in Port Augusta Cemetery,RC Section,B30,G10 in 21 October 1925, but later my father had her reburied with her second husband John Douglas Drinkwater in the Stirling North Garden Cemetery,Section 2, Row F,Grave 9. I hope some of this info is useful and I will start sorting the other info in case you would like see it etc. Look forward to hearing from you.
Added by Rodney Bercham on Oct 14, 2016 2:54 AM
Les Pearce
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Thank you so much for providing these lovely photos. People like you do such a wonderful service and I cannot thankyou enough.
Added by Les Pearce on Oct 05, 2016 4:48 PM
RE: James Gedney
I have seen his spreadsheet and worked a little from it. I am temporarily living with my brother in White Plains and saw the burial ground every time I got off 95 and was determined to visit it. I was sad to see the stones like that when I finally got there. They should leave the cemetery there and fix it but now a days no one seems to care.

I transferred all the Gedneys I created to you.
Added by BarbaraLL on Aug 25, 2016 8:29 AM
James Gedney
Transfer complete. Have you ever been to this cemetery. I tried contacting the historical society to see if it could help repair the stones but got no answer. It is a shame that it has been vandalized and disturbed by contruction.
Added by BarbaraLL on Aug 25, 2016 7:06 AM
Joyce Niswander
RE: Adelaide Frances
You're welcome, Philip.
Added by Joyce Niswander on Jul 06, 2016 4:06 AM
RE: Squire Baily (1840-1842) | Bailey Cemetery; Mahopac, Putnam Co., NY
Thanks, Convinced I'll change my record.

Regards Fred
Added by Fred on Jul 03, 2016 5:57 PM
Gary Boughton
RE: Joel Marchant (1762-1844) | Umpawaug Cemetery; Redding, Fairfield Co., CT

Very happy it helped you,

Added by Gary Boughton on Jul 03, 2016 3:21 PM
RE: William Robert Mullins (1851-1903) | Holy Sepulchre Cemetery; East Orange, Essex Co., NJ
You're very welcome. Thanks for the good words.
Added by Roibeard on Jul 03, 2016 1:44 PM
Janet Muff
RE: Three children of John Ray (1802-1868) | North Russell Cemetery; Plot 43
Jim's grandmother was a Ray, so his genetic "footprint" doesn't correlate with the Ray YDna. There's no doubt about his line, however, as his family has been in Rutland Co., for 8 generations and he's related to many of the old settler lines.
His Ray line is as follows:

Gilbert Ray and Rachel Perry
Benjamin Ray and Gloriana Gillett
Franklin Horace Ray and Anna Lobdell
John Lobdell Ray and Emma Matilda Gates
Ethel E. Ray and James Bree
Mary Emma Bree and George Potter Boyce
James Daniel Boyce

His Mayflower line goes up from Ethel Ray and her mother, Emma Matilda Gates to Francis Cooke and the Chiltons (not through the Ray line per se).


Added by Janet Muff on Jun 27, 2016 9:06 AM
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