Thank you for writing. How very exciting it is to find out that you are a decendant of Belle Starr. She was quite a woman. Her memorial page here on Find A Grave gives the location of her tombstone. You have to read further down and it'll tell you exactly where it's at and where it's located. There's also a picture of her tombstone on the memorial page and on towards the bottom of the biography of Belle, is what it says on the tombstone. I hope this helps you on locating her. Just come here and put her name and it'll take you to Belle's memorial page and read it all the way through. Under the biography is the location of the tombstone and what it says. If you still need more info, write me and I'll see what I can find out further for you. Take care. Hope to hear from you again soon.