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Taphophile Duo (#47438338)
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Keeping and maintaining our relatives.

Redistributing the other memorials to someone we know will take care of them and isn't interested in collecting dead people like normal people collect friends.

NOTE: If you volunteer on this website and decide you no longer want to be a manager, please make arrangements to transfer your memorials to someone who is active and cares about the accuracy of the information. This really will help reduce duplicates, which we notice with increasing frequency.

If you place memorials and don't come back, or you refuse or neglect to fix them, link them, etc., they are as abandoned as many of the graves we encounter in cemeteries, only you have now abandoned these people twice.

It would also be a good idea to leave a family member or friend instructions on how to make transfers of your memorials in the event of your own untimely death.

In addition, it's not up to you to make new FAG rules regarding anything.

Thank You

(Borrowed from another active FAG Contributor)

"Ancestors are nice to have
We could hardly do without them
And if they made the page of fame
We strut and boast about them.

But there are those who think that souls
Who have lived out life's brief span
Still hang around their earth's abode
To watch the works of man.

So when I think of ancestors
Who have crossed the Great Divide
I wonder if they view my life
With the same exultant pride."

By Pearl E. Bowers
2nd Cousin, 3X removed

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

Mary Elizabeth Frye, 1932.

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Messages left for Taphophile Duo (618)[Leave Message]
Henderson Cemetery correction
Thank you! I have properly placed Sibley Wescott in the Union/Henderson cem. I appreciate your help!
Added by Penelope on Oct 15, 2014 6:02 AM
Tracy Family
Henderson Cemetery
Thank you so much for the outstanding photos added to the Henderson Cemetery. The clarity is amazing! Thank You!!
Added by Tracy Family on Oct 12, 2014 3:56 PM
You have created a memorial for Wayne Clayton Newcomb. What is your connection to him?
Added by Lme on Oct 11, 2014 3:00 PM
J. Beidler
Clarence E. Allender
Thank you for the reply. I came up with the same date as you, but there was 2 other researchers that had the conflicting date. I just wanted to be sure where you got your info from. As for the connection to Clarence:

ME - Jackie L. Beidler
Louis E. Beidler
Harry M. Beidler
Henry Roy Beidler
Henry Mercer Beidler/Amanda J Allender
John Ingrahm Allender / Mary ??
Joseph Jr. Allender / Jane ??
Joseph Sr. Allender / Ann ??

Clarence E. Allender
Joseph III Allender
Alexander Sr. Allender (bro to Joseph Jr.)
Joseph Sr. Allender

Again, thanks so much for your time!
Added by J. Beidler on Oct 05, 2014 5:48 PM
J. Beidler
Clarence E. Allender
Where did you get Clarence's birthdate? If you take the age he died and re-calulate it doesn't come out. I know the family Bible was destroyed in a fire shortly after his death, so having to verify the info with other records, had given me 3 different dates/years. I'm trying to eliminate the info to get a clearer picture. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you for your time and effort in advance.

Jackie Beidler
Added by J. Beidler on Sep 29, 2014 12:31 PM
Frances Cannon Hays
Thank You
What a great family this is, they have given back more than most. What a great way to say I'm connected.

Added by Frances Cannon Hays on Sep 22, 2014 8:48 PM
Frances Cannon Hays
Nelson P Wheeler
I am researching the Cannon/Wheeler family. Do you have the full picture of Nelson Wheeler and the Family? I would really like a copy for my files. Thanks for your help. I appreciate your adding his death and that of his wife Eleanor Knox Cannon.

Fran Hays
Added by Frances Cannon Hays on Sep 21, 2014 12:49 AM
Chris Chase
RE: Chase
I can't find your email here. I believe it is Polly in the pic as I've compared features from the pic of the chase brothers as she is standing behind O.G..
Added by Chris Chase on Sep 20, 2014 7:23 PM
Chris Chase
RE: Chase
In my g-grandfather's old trunk of pictures, There is a very old photo that I believe is Polly and one of her sons. It's the original. If you like, I can scan it and send it.
Added by Chris Chase on Sep 20, 2014 6:12 AM
Chris Chase
James B. Chase is my 3rd g-grandfather. He was Oliver Gilman Chase(1765)'s son also. I have a copy of a picture all of the brother's and their wives. Have you seen it?
Added by Chris Chase on Sep 19, 2014 8:31 PM
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