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MJH (#47754567)
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I am thankful that sites such as Find A Grave are here to document the final disposition (burial location, cremation, etc.)of our ancestors, descendants, relatives and friends. These sites and the memorials created may well be around longer than a tombstone or cemetery exists or a tombstone is readable. I hope my time spent creating and maintaining memorials through research and collaboration with others will be of use to others researching where their ancestors and loved ones are buried as a part of their family history.

*EDIT PROCESS - Per the Find A Grave rules: "You can submit updates or corrections of factual information for any memorial by clicking on the 'Edit' tab on the memorial in question." (Please do not leave any requests here.)
I will most likely research your edit requests to double check for accuracy and will contact you if I have a question, am concerned or would like to see a copy of the document the request is based on. At the same time I will add a note to the bio section about the suggested edits. I am appreciative of all edit requests and those wanting to collaborate to make memorials as accurate as possible. I generally do not post transcripts of documents when the information is included in the factual sections or lists of sources. *Please note it is nothing personal when I ask for documentation it is simply trying to be accurate and preferring to see the documentation for myself (which is partly a result of having been given incorrect information in the past both here and elsewhere). I am often even pickier when the person is in my family tree.

*OBITUARIES - I will not add cut and paste obituaries unless they are out of copyright or you provide me with a letter or email from the copyright holder giving permission to add it. I am happy to rewrite the factual information in the obituary into a short biography if you send the obituary to me. I would appreciate the name of the newspaper or website where the full obit can be found and the date it appeared so I can list that in the bio section. The names of living people will not be listed in the bio nor will URL links.
*Please do not post scanned obituaries or photos that you did not take to the photo section as they are against the rules on Findagrave due to copyright issues.

*TRANSFERS - As per the Findagrave rules, I automatically transfer direct ancestors and descendants within 4 generations (siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren), unless I am also directly related within the 4 generations. If you are directly related within 4 generations, please use the edit tab and tell me how you are related. If we are both related my hope would be that we connect and share information.

*BURIAL UNKNOWNS - I will not link to memorials where the burial location is unknown or to people who have obviously been intentionally placed in a cemetery where someone "thinks" they "might be" (especially when I know it has been proven they are not buried there) and I plead with you to not add them as they are against the rules and it defeats the primary purpose of Find A Grave to document final dispositions. I can't begin to count the times I have been disappointed to find someones name on Find A Grave only to find that the final disposition is missing. Findagrave is not a family tree site or a memorial site, it is a site to document final dispositions with the ability to add information that is of genealogical value and that helps memorialize a persons life.

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J Huggins
Ruby Dowler-Weddel Ferguson
I was wondering if you would allow a transfer
request for Ruby Dowler-Weddel-Ferguson, I supplied a marriage licence from to you recently that was not sufficient for the marriage proof that you are requiring. Ruby was my great uncle Merlin Weddel first wife from the Craig County,Oklahoma area, I have been researching her and family for over eight years. I have invested time,sweat and tears in her story. I understand your position on not wanting to post inaccurate information, If you are willing to allow this transfer, I promise to manage her Memorial respectfully. Thank you for all your works and consideration.

Added by J Huggins on Jul 24, 2016 11:53 AM
Tom Nelson
RE: Albert Mittie and Laura Mittie
Hi! Regarding Albert, I got the date and county from Here is the transcipt/abstract:

California, Death Index, 1905-1939

Name: Albert Mittie
Birth Year: 1883
Death Date: 10 Jun 1937
Age at Death: 54
Death Place: Fresno

And regarding Laura, I got her middle name from Albert's World War I draft registration card. I was gratified that the penmanship was so good! But, if that's not persuasive enough, then just leaving it as "L." would be OK, too.

Thanks for getting back to me.

Tom in Kansas City, Missouri
Added by Tom Nelson on Jul 23, 2016 12:27 PM
Mattie Bennett

hope this helps

Added by PamJlnKnab on Jul 19, 2016 9:55 PM
RE: Mattie Bennett
How can I show ya it said on her marriage license she was married to William Bennett and the ancestry link me to that household of William and Mattie Bennett. Some people don't have initial like my great aunt she only have just B and I didn't wanna believe it but she showed me her birth certificate so oops.. sorry about the period.. I'm from Missouri and I always knew Mattie could be nickname for Martha..
Added by PamJlnKnab on Jul 19, 2016 2:56 PM

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