Go to any of the memorials I have created (Lewis Wagner or Alice Willenburg, for example) and click on the Edit tab at the top right of the memorial. A new menu will appear. Click on Suggest a correction or provide additional information. Whatever you put there and send to me will go directly to my e-mail and will not be seen by anyone else. You can give me your e-mail address that way, and then I can send you mine. That will keep both of them private.
I don't think I have any Murphys in my family tree. I can explain more once we exchange e-mail addresses.
P.S. I changed Mickey to Micki. The obits for Alice and Lewis both had the wrong spelling.