Thomas (Tom) Frazer Draper, Jr., MD, died peacefully at his home in Newtown, Connecticut on January 9, 2023 at the age of 96.
He was the devoted husband of Patricia (Gafney), who predeceased him in 2021, for almost 69 years, and the beloved father of a daughter and husband of Westerville, Ohio; a daughter and husband of Danbury; a daughter and husband of Brookfield; a daughter and husband of Darien; a daughter and husband of Newtown; a daughter and husband of London, England; and a son and wife of Fairfield. An infant son, Thomas Frazer Draper III, predeceased him.
Tom was born in Queens Village, New York on October 15, 1926, to Ann Griffin and Thomas Frazer Draper.
He graduated in 1944 from Xavier High School in New York City and soon after enlisted in the US Navy, proudly serving his country during World War II as 1st Class Seaman. He was honorably discharged in August 1946 and subsequently received a Bachelor of Science degree from Fordham University in 1949, his MD degree from Queens University, Kingston, Ontario in 1955 and a Master's in Public Health from Yale University in 1969. He completed his Pediatric Residency at Johns Hopkins University/Baltimore City Hospital and served as Chief Pediatric Resident at Upstate Medical Center in Syracuse, NY. In 1976 he completed an Infectious Diseases Fellowship.
Tom loved and was dedicated to his community. He provided medical care, wisdom and vision, in his many professional roles. He was a compassionate pediatrician, who cared for and was beloved by several generations of families during the 40 years he practiced medicine in Newtown and Danbury.
Dr. Draper was a member of the medical staff at Danbury Hospital for over 60 years, serving as Chief of Pediatric Ambulatory Care (1971–1991), Chairman of the Pediatric Department (1980–1982), and President of the Medical Staff (1991–1994). In addition to his clinical expertise and his dedication to his pediatric patients, Tom was also passionate about public health and serving his community. He was the Director of Community Medicine at Danbury Hospital (1991–2005) and the Director of Health for Newtown (1965–1998), continuing as medical advisor until his death. He also served as the school physician in Newtown for many years. In that role he became a regular presence on the sidelines at Newtown High School football games, ready to care for any injury. He served the City of Danbury Department of Health for over 45 years as Director of Health (1971–1974), Director of Communicable Disease Services (1975–2008) and Medical Advisor (2008–2017). He was a real public health champion and embraced the meaning of public health—to ensure the conditions in which to be healthy. He cared deeply for the environment, knowing its health is integral to community health. His was skilled in convening and listening to bring parties together. A beautiful representation of his passion is his longstanding desire and push for sidewalks that would get people walking and connect residents with each other. Continuing his commitment to community health, in 2008 he became the Medical Advisor to the Connecticut Institute for Communities (CIFC) where he helped establish the community health center now known as CIFC Health and went on to serve as Medical Director for several years.
Tom is survived by his sister of Purcellville, Virginia, and by his brother of Nissequogue, New York.
He was predeceased by his sisters Patricia Randolph, Jacqueline Prout, and infant Joan, and by his brothers, David, Raymond, Michael, Denis Draper.
His greatest joy was his family, and he took pride in watching his children and grandchildren grow into successful adults and sharing his life experiences with them. He loved being a grandfather, spending time with his grandchildren, hearing their latest news and celebrating their milestones. He was the adored Poppa/Papa to 21.
He was predeceased by his granddaughters Hannah George and Rebecca Draper Townsend.
He was also Big Poppa or Poppa Tom to nine great-grandchildren, and was looking forward to the arrival of another great-granddaughter in April.
He is survived by numerous American and Canadian cousins, nieces and nephews and extended family who loved him deeply, and lifelong friends whom he cherished. His compassion, his willingness to help everyone, his enthusiasm for knowing what was going on in their lives, and his ability to keep in touch with everyone were unmatched. His love of family extended to an appreciation of family history and a lifelong passion for researching and sharing the story of his family. A large part of that story was his Canadian heritage. He loved to reminisce about the teenage summers spent working on the family dairy farms in Ontario, and throughout his life he made at least yearly trips back to them. He couldn't wait to get into the barns or ride out into the fields to see how things were doing. His Canadian family was so precious to him, and such an important part of who he was.
Tom grew up in a large and close-knit family. In 1952 he married Patricia Marie Gafney, the love of his life, and in 1958 they moved to Newtown where Tom established his pediatric practice. Their lives were grounded in their Catholic faith and their devotion to each other, which provided them with the strength to meet any loss or challenge. They shared a love of travel, reading, New York City, golf, and Christmas—everything except a love of skiing. Tom bravely taught his seven children to ski on his own. Together they created a home for their growing family filled with music, laughter and love. He made every family gathering special, whether Christmas Eves in Newtown, or reunions in Canada, Ohio or Cape May, always ending with music around the piano. He had a wonderful life, and we will forever be blessed and grateful to have been a part of it.
Burial with Military Honors at Newtown Village Cemetery, Newtown, CT,
Source: Honan Funeral Home, Newtown, CT
He was the devoted husband of Patricia (Gafney), who predeceased him in 2021, for almost 69 years, and the beloved father of a daughter and husband of Westerville, Ohio; a daughter and husband of Danbury; a daughter and husband of Brookfield; a daughter and husband of Darien; a daughter and husband of Newtown; a daughter and husband of London, England; and a son and wife of Fairfield. An infant son, Thomas Frazer Draper III, predeceased him.
Tom was born in Queens Village, New York on October 15, 1926, to Ann Griffin and Thomas Frazer Draper.
He graduated in 1944 from Xavier High School in New York City and soon after enlisted in the US Navy, proudly serving his country during World War II as 1st Class Seaman. He was honorably discharged in August 1946 and subsequently received a Bachelor of Science degree from Fordham University in 1949, his MD degree from Queens University, Kingston, Ontario in 1955 and a Master's in Public Health from Yale University in 1969. He completed his Pediatric Residency at Johns Hopkins University/Baltimore City Hospital and served as Chief Pediatric Resident at Upstate Medical Center in Syracuse, NY. In 1976 he completed an Infectious Diseases Fellowship.
Tom loved and was dedicated to his community. He provided medical care, wisdom and vision, in his many professional roles. He was a compassionate pediatrician, who cared for and was beloved by several generations of families during the 40 years he practiced medicine in Newtown and Danbury.
Dr. Draper was a member of the medical staff at Danbury Hospital for over 60 years, serving as Chief of Pediatric Ambulatory Care (1971–1991), Chairman of the Pediatric Department (1980–1982), and President of the Medical Staff (1991–1994). In addition to his clinical expertise and his dedication to his pediatric patients, Tom was also passionate about public health and serving his community. He was the Director of Community Medicine at Danbury Hospital (1991–2005) and the Director of Health for Newtown (1965–1998), continuing as medical advisor until his death. He also served as the school physician in Newtown for many years. In that role he became a regular presence on the sidelines at Newtown High School football games, ready to care for any injury. He served the City of Danbury Department of Health for over 45 years as Director of Health (1971–1974), Director of Communicable Disease Services (1975–2008) and Medical Advisor (2008–2017). He was a real public health champion and embraced the meaning of public health—to ensure the conditions in which to be healthy. He cared deeply for the environment, knowing its health is integral to community health. His was skilled in convening and listening to bring parties together. A beautiful representation of his passion is his longstanding desire and push for sidewalks that would get people walking and connect residents with each other. Continuing his commitment to community health, in 2008 he became the Medical Advisor to the Connecticut Institute for Communities (CIFC) where he helped establish the community health center now known as CIFC Health and went on to serve as Medical Director for several years.
Tom is survived by his sister of Purcellville, Virginia, and by his brother of Nissequogue, New York.
He was predeceased by his sisters Patricia Randolph, Jacqueline Prout, and infant Joan, and by his brothers, David, Raymond, Michael, Denis Draper.
His greatest joy was his family, and he took pride in watching his children and grandchildren grow into successful adults and sharing his life experiences with them. He loved being a grandfather, spending time with his grandchildren, hearing their latest news and celebrating their milestones. He was the adored Poppa/Papa to 21.
He was predeceased by his granddaughters Hannah George and Rebecca Draper Townsend.
He was also Big Poppa or Poppa Tom to nine great-grandchildren, and was looking forward to the arrival of another great-granddaughter in April.
He is survived by numerous American and Canadian cousins, nieces and nephews and extended family who loved him deeply, and lifelong friends whom he cherished. His compassion, his willingness to help everyone, his enthusiasm for knowing what was going on in their lives, and his ability to keep in touch with everyone were unmatched. His love of family extended to an appreciation of family history and a lifelong passion for researching and sharing the story of his family. A large part of that story was his Canadian heritage. He loved to reminisce about the teenage summers spent working on the family dairy farms in Ontario, and throughout his life he made at least yearly trips back to them. He couldn't wait to get into the barns or ride out into the fields to see how things were doing. His Canadian family was so precious to him, and such an important part of who he was.
Tom grew up in a large and close-knit family. In 1952 he married Patricia Marie Gafney, the love of his life, and in 1958 they moved to Newtown where Tom established his pediatric practice. Their lives were grounded in their Catholic faith and their devotion to each other, which provided them with the strength to meet any loss or challenge. They shared a love of travel, reading, New York City, golf, and Christmas—everything except a love of skiing. Tom bravely taught his seven children to ski on his own. Together they created a home for their growing family filled with music, laughter and love. He made every family gathering special, whether Christmas Eves in Newtown, or reunions in Canada, Ohio or Cape May, always ending with music around the piano. He had a wonderful life, and we will forever be blessed and grateful to have been a part of it.
Burial with Military Honors at Newtown Village Cemetery, Newtown, CT,
Source: Honan Funeral Home, Newtown, CT
Thomas (Tom) Frazer Draper, Jr., MD, died peacefully at his home in Newtown, Connecticut on January 9, 2023 at the age of 96.
He was the devoted husband of Patricia (Gafney), who predeceased him in 2021, for almost 69 years, and the beloved father of a daughter and husband of Westerville, Ohio; a daughter and husband of Danbury; a daughter and husband of Brookfield; a daughter and husband of Darien; a daughter and husband of Newtown; a daughter and husband of London, England; and a son and wife of Fairfield. An infant son, Thomas Frazer Draper III, predeceased him.
Tom was born in Queens Village, New York on October 15, 1926, to Ann Griffin and Thomas Frazer Draper.
He graduated in 1944 from Xavier High School in New York City and soon after enlisted in the US Navy, proudly serving his country during World War II as 1st Class Seaman. He was honorably discharged in August 1946 and subsequently received a Bachelor of Science degree from Fordham University in 1949, his MD degree from Queens University, Kingston, Ontario in 1955 and a Master's in Public Health from Yale University in 1969. He completed his Pediatric Residency at Johns Hopkins University/Baltimore City Hospital and served as Chief Pediatric Resident at Upstate Medical Center in Syracuse, NY. In 1976 he completed an Infectious Diseases Fellowship.
Tom loved and was dedicated to his community. He provided medical care, wisdom and vision, in his many professional roles. He was a compassionate pediatrician, who cared for and was beloved by several generations of families during the 40 years he practiced medicine in Newtown and Danbury.
Dr. Draper was a member of the medical staff at Danbury Hospital for over 60 years, serving as Chief of Pediatric Ambulatory Care (1971–1991), Chairman of the Pediatric Department (1980–1982), and President of the Medical Staff (1991–1994). In addition to his clinical expertise and his dedication to his pediatric patients, Tom was also passionate about public health and serving his community. He was the Director of Community Medicine at Danbury Hospital (1991–2005) and the Director of Health for Newtown (1965–1998), continuing as medical advisor until his death. He also served as the school physician in Newtown for many years. In that role he became a regular presence on the sidelines at Newtown High School football games, ready to care for any injury. He served the City of Danbury Department of Health for over 45 years as Director of Health (1971–1974), Director of Communicable Disease Services (1975–2008) and Medical Advisor (2008–2017). He was a real public health champion and embraced the meaning of public health—to ensure the conditions in which to be healthy. He cared deeply for the environment, knowing its health is integral to community health. His was skilled in convening and listening to bring parties together. A beautiful representation of his passion is his longstanding desire and push for sidewalks that would get people walking and connect residents with each other. Continuing his commitment to community health, in 2008 he became the Medical Advisor to the Connecticut Institute for Communities (CIFC) where he helped establish the community health center now known as CIFC Health and went on to serve as Medical Director for several years.
Tom is survived by his sister of Purcellville, Virginia, and by his brother of Nissequogue, New York.
He was predeceased by his sisters Patricia Randolph, Jacqueline Prout, and infant Joan, and by his brothers, David, Raymond, Michael, Denis Draper.
His greatest joy was his family, and he took pride in watching his children and grandchildren grow into successful adults and sharing his life experiences with them. He loved being a grandfather, spending time with his grandchildren, hearing their latest news and celebrating their milestones. He was the adored Poppa/Papa to 21.
He was predeceased by his granddaughters Hannah George and Rebecca Draper Townsend.
He was also Big Poppa or Poppa Tom to nine great-grandchildren, and was looking forward to the arrival of another great-granddaughter in April.
He is survived by numerous American and Canadian cousins, nieces and nephews and extended family who loved him deeply, and lifelong friends whom he cherished. His compassion, his willingness to help everyone, his enthusiasm for knowing what was going on in their lives, and his ability to keep in touch with everyone were unmatched. His love of family extended to an appreciation of family history and a lifelong passion for researching and sharing the story of his family. A large part of that story was his Canadian heritage. He loved to reminisce about the teenage summers spent working on the family dairy farms in Ontario, and throughout his life he made at least yearly trips back to them. He couldn't wait to get into the barns or ride out into the fields to see how things were doing. His Canadian family was so precious to him, and such an important part of who he was.
Tom grew up in a large and close-knit family. In 1952 he married Patricia Marie Gafney, the love of his life, and in 1958 they moved to Newtown where Tom established his pediatric practice. Their lives were grounded in their Catholic faith and their devotion to each other, which provided them with the strength to meet any loss or challenge. They shared a love of travel, reading, New York City, golf, and Christmas—everything except a love of skiing. Tom bravely taught his seven children to ski on his own. Together they created a home for their growing family filled with music, laughter and love. He made every family gathering special, whether Christmas Eves in Newtown, or reunions in Canada, Ohio or Cape May, always ending with music around the piano. He had a wonderful life, and we will forever be blessed and grateful to have been a part of it.
Burial with Military Honors at Newtown Village Cemetery, Newtown, CT,
Source: Honan Funeral Home, Newtown, CT
He was the devoted husband of Patricia (Gafney), who predeceased him in 2021, for almost 69 years, and the beloved father of a daughter and husband of Westerville, Ohio; a daughter and husband of Danbury; a daughter and husband of Brookfield; a daughter and husband of Darien; a daughter and husband of Newtown; a daughter and husband of London, England; and a son and wife of Fairfield. An infant son, Thomas Frazer Draper III, predeceased him.
Tom was born in Queens Village, New York on October 15, 1926, to Ann Griffin and Thomas Frazer Draper.
He graduated in 1944 from Xavier High School in New York City and soon after enlisted in the US Navy, proudly serving his country during World War II as 1st Class Seaman. He was honorably discharged in August 1946 and subsequently received a Bachelor of Science degree from Fordham University in 1949, his MD degree from Queens University, Kingston, Ontario in 1955 and a Master's in Public Health from Yale University in 1969. He completed his Pediatric Residency at Johns Hopkins University/Baltimore City Hospital and served as Chief Pediatric Resident at Upstate Medical Center in Syracuse, NY. In 1976 he completed an Infectious Diseases Fellowship.
Tom loved and was dedicated to his community. He provided medical care, wisdom and vision, in his many professional roles. He was a compassionate pediatrician, who cared for and was beloved by several generations of families during the 40 years he practiced medicine in Newtown and Danbury.
Dr. Draper was a member of the medical staff at Danbury Hospital for over 60 years, serving as Chief of Pediatric Ambulatory Care (1971–1991), Chairman of the Pediatric Department (1980–1982), and President of the Medical Staff (1991–1994). In addition to his clinical expertise and his dedication to his pediatric patients, Tom was also passionate about public health and serving his community. He was the Director of Community Medicine at Danbury Hospital (1991–2005) and the Director of Health for Newtown (1965–1998), continuing as medical advisor until his death. He also served as the school physician in Newtown for many years. In that role he became a regular presence on the sidelines at Newtown High School football games, ready to care for any injury. He served the City of Danbury Department of Health for over 45 years as Director of Health (1971–1974), Director of Communicable Disease Services (1975–2008) and Medical Advisor (2008–2017). He was a real public health champion and embraced the meaning of public health—to ensure the conditions in which to be healthy. He cared deeply for the environment, knowing its health is integral to community health. His was skilled in convening and listening to bring parties together. A beautiful representation of his passion is his longstanding desire and push for sidewalks that would get people walking and connect residents with each other. Continuing his commitment to community health, in 2008 he became the Medical Advisor to the Connecticut Institute for Communities (CIFC) where he helped establish the community health center now known as CIFC Health and went on to serve as Medical Director for several years.
Tom is survived by his sister of Purcellville, Virginia, and by his brother of Nissequogue, New York.
He was predeceased by his sisters Patricia Randolph, Jacqueline Prout, and infant Joan, and by his brothers, David, Raymond, Michael, Denis Draper.
His greatest joy was his family, and he took pride in watching his children and grandchildren grow into successful adults and sharing his life experiences with them. He loved being a grandfather, spending time with his grandchildren, hearing their latest news and celebrating their milestones. He was the adored Poppa/Papa to 21.
He was predeceased by his granddaughters Hannah George and Rebecca Draper Townsend.
He was also Big Poppa or Poppa Tom to nine great-grandchildren, and was looking forward to the arrival of another great-granddaughter in April.
He is survived by numerous American and Canadian cousins, nieces and nephews and extended family who loved him deeply, and lifelong friends whom he cherished. His compassion, his willingness to help everyone, his enthusiasm for knowing what was going on in their lives, and his ability to keep in touch with everyone were unmatched. His love of family extended to an appreciation of family history and a lifelong passion for researching and sharing the story of his family. A large part of that story was his Canadian heritage. He loved to reminisce about the teenage summers spent working on the family dairy farms in Ontario, and throughout his life he made at least yearly trips back to them. He couldn't wait to get into the barns or ride out into the fields to see how things were doing. His Canadian family was so precious to him, and such an important part of who he was.
Tom grew up in a large and close-knit family. In 1952 he married Patricia Marie Gafney, the love of his life, and in 1958 they moved to Newtown where Tom established his pediatric practice. Their lives were grounded in their Catholic faith and their devotion to each other, which provided them with the strength to meet any loss or challenge. They shared a love of travel, reading, New York City, golf, and Christmas—everything except a love of skiing. Tom bravely taught his seven children to ski on his own. Together they created a home for their growing family filled with music, laughter and love. He made every family gathering special, whether Christmas Eves in Newtown, or reunions in Canada, Ohio or Cape May, always ending with music around the piano. He had a wonderful life, and we will forever be blessed and grateful to have been a part of it.
Burial with Military Honors at Newtown Village Cemetery, Newtown, CT,
Source: Honan Funeral Home, Newtown, CT
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