Elithu Madden his real name is ELIHU MADAN 1844-1881 he is my x 3 great grand uncle. His headstone appears to be ordered by info off of a mispelled civil war service card. Check with Wendell cemetery. The plot owner name is W. Madan. This may have been his brother Washington Madan 1835, or his father Washington Madan 1815, or his grandfather William Madan 1780. He is buried with his sister Martha F. (Madan) Bunker and her husband Henry L Bunker.