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Beatrice Gertrude “Bea” <I>Murray</I> Antley

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Beatrice Gertrude “Bea” Murray Antley

Birth
Berkeley County, South Carolina, USA
Death
6 Jul 2017 (aged 102)
Atlanta, Fulton County, Georgia, USA
Burial
Eutawville, Orangeburg County, South Carolina, USA Add to Map
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Beatrice Murray Antley died on July 5, 2017, at the age of 102. She was a mother, wife and sister, devoted to her family and church throughout her life. She was a good, sweet, hard-working lady who loved many and was loved and respected in return. She will be missed by her family and those who knew her.

Known to her friends as "Bea", she was born Oct. 21, 1914, in Berkeley Co., SC, near the town of Moncks Corner. Her parents were George Murray and Ethel Murray. Her father died when she was 4, after which Bea, her mother, and her brothers lived with her grandparents on a small farm. Like so many in the Deep South at that time, the family had no money for niceties and children were expected to work and do what they could to help with household chores. After several years, her mother remarried Gussie DeHay. Mrs. Antley graduated from Moncks Corner High School during the Depression, one of the first in her family to graduate from high school, and began working as a secretary, which she continued until her retirement.

In the late ‘30s, she met her husband, Marion Antley, while he was working on the Santee-Cooper River Dam Project outside of Moncks Corner. They married shortly before the US entered World War II and spent the war years traveling over the Eastern United States, as Mr. Antley's employer built air bases for the military. Shortly after the war, they settled in Charlotte, NC, where they had one son, Kenneth (“Kent”😉Antley, were active in their church, and lived until the early ‘80s. They then retired to Moncks Corner, SC.

Mrs. Antley's life centered on family and home, work and church - much in that order. If she had any foibles, they were few, sporadic and minor, such as a mild cuss word uttered when she thought no one would hear. After working a full day and preparing dinner, she would spend the evening watching a show or two on television, while snapping or shelling beans from the garden, cutting dried fruit to make fruitcake for Christmas or preparing food for a future meal. There were many weekend trips to visit family in South Carolina, including a beloved brother who was institutionalized after serving in Patton’s Army in World War II. Vacations were usually a long weekend at the beach or in the mountains. There was always a week’s vacation spent with her mother, step-father and sister, Gussie Lee, where more beans would be picked, snapped, shelled and canned. After her son and nephews and nieces were grown, Mrs. Antley took a couple of long trips, one to England and one to Alaska with her sister and a beloved niece, Carole Kjellsen. She and Mr. Antley were careful with their money, saved any dollars remaining after expenses were paid, which enabled their son to go to an excellent, private college.

After Mr. Antley's death in 1996, she continued to live in Moncks Corner until 2004, when her health required her to move to Atlanta into assisted living, and later into a nursing home. Her last years, with failing health, were hard on her, but true to her nature, she did not complain and bore her burdens with grace and dignity. She always was gracious and appreciative to those who visited her, and she received respect and much affection from her caregivers.

Mrs. Antley was pre-deceased by her husband, Marion, two older brothers, Kenneth Murray and Carlyle Murray, and her younger sister, Gussie Lee Ashman. She is survived by her son, Kenneth Antley and daughter-in-law, Barbara Antley; her grandchildren John Evans, Trey Evans and Christopher Antley; and numerous nieces and nephews.

The family is planning a small graveside service in Eutawville, SC, at a time to be announced.
Beatrice Murray Antley died on July 5, 2017, at the age of 102. She was a mother, wife and sister, devoted to her family and church throughout her life. She was a good, sweet, hard-working lady who loved many and was loved and respected in return. She will be missed by her family and those who knew her.

Known to her friends as "Bea", she was born Oct. 21, 1914, in Berkeley Co., SC, near the town of Moncks Corner. Her parents were George Murray and Ethel Murray. Her father died when she was 4, after which Bea, her mother, and her brothers lived with her grandparents on a small farm. Like so many in the Deep South at that time, the family had no money for niceties and children were expected to work and do what they could to help with household chores. After several years, her mother remarried Gussie DeHay. Mrs. Antley graduated from Moncks Corner High School during the Depression, one of the first in her family to graduate from high school, and began working as a secretary, which she continued until her retirement.

In the late ‘30s, she met her husband, Marion Antley, while he was working on the Santee-Cooper River Dam Project outside of Moncks Corner. They married shortly before the US entered World War II and spent the war years traveling over the Eastern United States, as Mr. Antley's employer built air bases for the military. Shortly after the war, they settled in Charlotte, NC, where they had one son, Kenneth (“Kent”😉Antley, were active in their church, and lived until the early ‘80s. They then retired to Moncks Corner, SC.

Mrs. Antley's life centered on family and home, work and church - much in that order. If she had any foibles, they were few, sporadic and minor, such as a mild cuss word uttered when she thought no one would hear. After working a full day and preparing dinner, she would spend the evening watching a show or two on television, while snapping or shelling beans from the garden, cutting dried fruit to make fruitcake for Christmas or preparing food for a future meal. There were many weekend trips to visit family in South Carolina, including a beloved brother who was institutionalized after serving in Patton’s Army in World War II. Vacations were usually a long weekend at the beach or in the mountains. There was always a week’s vacation spent with her mother, step-father and sister, Gussie Lee, where more beans would be picked, snapped, shelled and canned. After her son and nephews and nieces were grown, Mrs. Antley took a couple of long trips, one to England and one to Alaska with her sister and a beloved niece, Carole Kjellsen. She and Mr. Antley were careful with their money, saved any dollars remaining after expenses were paid, which enabled their son to go to an excellent, private college.

After Mr. Antley's death in 1996, she continued to live in Moncks Corner until 2004, when her health required her to move to Atlanta into assisted living, and later into a nursing home. Her last years, with failing health, were hard on her, but true to her nature, she did not complain and bore her burdens with grace and dignity. She always was gracious and appreciative to those who visited her, and she received respect and much affection from her caregivers.

Mrs. Antley was pre-deceased by her husband, Marion, two older brothers, Kenneth Murray and Carlyle Murray, and her younger sister, Gussie Lee Ashman. She is survived by her son, Kenneth Antley and daughter-in-law, Barbara Antley; her grandchildren John Evans, Trey Evans and Christopher Antley; and numerous nieces and nephews.

The family is planning a small graveside service in Eutawville, SC, at a time to be announced.


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  • Created by: Ann
  • Added: Aug 13, 2009
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  • Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/40627687/beatrice_gertrude-antley: accessed ), memorial page for Beatrice Gertrude “Bea” Murray Antley (21 Oct 1914–6 Jul 2017), Find a Grave Memorial ID 40627687, citing Eutawville Cemetery, Eutawville, Orangeburg County, South Carolina, USA; Maintained by Ann (contributor 46833496).