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Becky J. Balmer (#46908759)
 member for 10 years, 5 months, 14 days
Love Always, Renee
Thanksgiving Blessings
Wishing you and your family a special day of thanks.

Added by Love Always, Renee on Nov 24, 2016 2:38 AM

Love Always, Renee
Christmas Blessings
Wishing for you, a very blessed Christmas and Peaceful New Year.

Added by Love Always, Renee on Dec 21, 2015 7:39 AM

Love Always, Renee
RE: Sponsorship
It is a blessing for me to sponsor memorials that touch my heart. I get pleasure from doing this, knowing it gives comfort to others.

Added by Love Always, Renee on Sep 06, 2015 5:46 AM

James Richards
Dennis Lee Forrester

I regret to write this, but the memorial you created for Dennis Lee Forrester in Fort Knox Cemetery is in the wrong cemetery. He is buried in the nearby Kentucky Central Veterans Cemetery and he has a Findagrave memorial (# 65336133). His memorial in Fort Knox should be deleted. You should know that this is a common mistake that many people have made. Thank you for the work you do in Findagrave.

Added by James Richards on Jul 13, 2015 8:40 AM

2 Angel of Mine ValenciaღAsia💕
My condolences on the passing of your beloved sister, I'm so so sorry, Becky. Thinking of you

Hugs, Yo

Added by 2 Angel of Mine Valencia&... on May 28, 2014 10:35 PM

Wishing you and your Family a Merry Christmas and a Happy Healthy New Year.

Added by Suzanne&Johnღ on Dec 22, 2012 8:46 PM

Remembered ~*~ Angels
Thank You
Becky, just wanted to say Thank's for your lovely token you left my Dad. Our prayers are with you and your family during the Holiday's. Blessings Always

Added by Remembered ~*~ Angels on Dec 02, 2012 9:59 AM

Wishing You and your loved ones a Happy Thanksgiving.


Added by Suzanne&Johnღ on Nov 20, 2012 8:04 PM

Florida Boy 64
For a friend
Could you please leave a flower for my friend Cythia gillig stone 75864427 I would appericate it. I left some flowers for your family.

Added by Florida Boy 64 on Jul 13, 2012 9:12 PM

Diane ღ
Dear Becky,
At noon, darkness fell across the whole land until three o'clock. Then, at that time Jesus called out with a loud voice, "My God, my God, why have You forsaken Me?"

Today is Good Friday, one of the saddest yet the most joyful days of the year. For many years on Good Friday the weather has changed to dark sky's and the winds rolled in. It lasts about an hour. I have always thought that God was reminding me of that moment when Jesus left this earth. The suffering was over, the debt was paid for us. The Lamb of God had fulfilled his destiny and salvation was ours to claim through repentance of our sins.

Just now, in Florida, it rained and the sky was ominous and threatening. Lightning danced across the sky with loud claps of thunder. It rolled in from the west and as it came upon the house it was beautiful, exciting, and if orchestrated by Steven Spielberg could not have been more beautifully displayed.

The rain came after and then the glorious rainbow with the sun gleaming colors of purple, green, yellow and blue. God's rainbow with the meaning of "he loves us, he keeps his word and he will be there in the evening of our lives."

As I watched the weather roll by and the sun's return. I could feel it's warmth, I could feel God's promises to us as humanity. In my own words, once a year we have a holy TEXT sent to us. It says "I lived, I died and I did it because I love you" You have my number, don't forget to call.

On this Good Friday I am sending you my faith, my hope and wishing you peace and love in your lives forever. This has been my message to you for 8 years. We can rejoice in a new beginning because that is what he bestows on us each and every Good Friday.

Each and every Easter Morning we start again. With the Faith that he is near, The peace he sends in knowing our future is in his good keeping, the hope that our loved ones can share in this amazing gift, and the love that can transpire between families no matter how much strife and differences we have, we are all one. It is all so easy when we come together to make it happen.

Easter Blessings,


Psalm 35:9
Then my soul shall rejoice in the LORD;
and delight in his salvation.

Added by Diane ღ on Apr 06, 2012 3:52 PM

Diane Miller
I am so sorry about the loss of your precious brother.

Know that I care and I will be praying for you and your family.


Added by Diane Miller on Jan 10, 2012 4:24 PM

Pixie Owens♥Huntley
Sincere Sympathy
Please know how very sorry I am about the loss of your brother.

May you and family find comfort in the many memories you'll carry in your heart forever.

Keeping you in our prayers during this very difficult time. Love ~ Pixie

Added by Pixie Owens♥Huntle... on Jan 09, 2012 2:40 PM

Judy 💕
We are so sorry for the loss of your brother,you and your family are in our prayers.

Added by Judy 💕 on Jan 09, 2012 12:57 PM

Dario Witer
Trinity Loren
Hi Becky, my name is Dario. I was on the Trinity Loren site, when I noticed your name there in Trinity's message post section. Are you a fan of Trinity's? Very few women happen to be fans of adult movies.

Added by Dario Witer on Jan 05, 2012 10:13 PM

Dario Witer
Trinity Loren
Hi Becky, my name is Dario. I was on the Trinity Loren site, when I noticed your name there in Trinity's message post section. Are you a fan of Trinity's? Very few women happen to be fans of adult movies.

Added by Dario Witer on Jan 05, 2012 10:11 PM

I want to wish you and yours a
Very Happy Christmas
and a
Happy Healthy New Year

I also want to say Thank you for all the visits and beautiful tokens you gave my sister Mars this year, your visits are most appreciated, and have been a great comfort,

Best wishes from Ireland

Added by Reilly on Dec 19, 2011 1:33 PM

Wishing You and Your Family a Merry Christmas and a Happy New year.
God bless.
Kayla&John Jr.

Added by Suzanne&Johnღ on Dec 18, 2011 6:32 AM

Diane ღ
Merry Christmas Becky!

I have been working Christmas day for as long as I can remember. It has always been by choice. Although the double pay and a half is an incentive. It is the one day a year I know I can make a difference.

There are always the "ones" who are sitting by the elevator door waiting for their family to come. The "ones" who have no family but still hope for a visitor. The "ones" who's family can't come due to distance but they still hope. And the "ones" who have family but have long been forgotten.

There was a time when you could walk into a hospital or nursing home and visit with people. Now you have to go through "channels" you have to have clearance. In some cases if you want to volunteer to visit, you have to have a back ground check.

What has happened to us? We need each other so badly yet as a society we have been forced to part. As I walk through the stores and malls I can see people on the verge of tears. It is there ,right there under the surface, as time goes on it is getting harder for people to hide their pain.

The pain of what we are becoming in this treasured nation is worn on our peoples faces. Many have lost homes, jobs, and most of all hope. Hopes definition is, the emotional state which promotes the belief in a positive outcome related to events and circumstances in one's life. How simple a definition can be said yet it's meaning is so vital to us all.

We are in the season of "hope'" it is more than time for hope to return to us. It is time to bring it back . We can have hope for a brighter future, to be more kind to each other, to help one another through this, and to ease each others pain if it is only with a glance and a smile of I understand, I am standing here with you.

We are a strong stubborn nation, built on a foundation of caring and taking care of each other. We can't let hope leave us.

On a Christmas morning long ago a baby was born into this world to bring us everlasting life. That was the beginning of hope. That was our salvation and our link to peace. The grouping of the words Faith, Hope, Love, Joy, Peace, are seen everywhere at this time of year.

I am sending you my wish that those words will not be words but an ointment to wash away your pain, your uncertainty of tomorrow and to send you my hope, that Faith, Hope, Love, Joy, and Peace, are part of your life each and everyday of the New Year.

Cyber Christmas Hugs,


Added by Diane ღ on Dec 16, 2011 8:56 PM

Diane ღ
Becky thinking of you today
Thanksgiving Day Blessings...

Thanksgiving as a kid we had Halloween, then Thanksgiving, and then Christmas it was like leading up to the Super Bowl. In Minnesota it was almost worth the Halloween snow storm that does not stop until May. You got three wonderful holidays and it ended with presents. How much better could it get?

I remember one year my Mom had slaved over 4 pumpkin pies. She wanted them to cool quickly so she put them out on a ledge that actually was a cooling ledge right out side the kitchen window. It took about a minute and a half for the squirrels to find it. They had a party. There was about 7 of them swimming in her pies. I remember her standing at the window just looking out. All of us came running to see what she was looking at.

Squirrels were throwing pumpkin pie at each other one was running back and forth to feed another squirrel who was too frightened to approach the window. You could hear the holiday bliss and squirrels almost singing through the window. Their little furry faces were orange and they were chewing as fast as they could. Two of them thought it would be a good idea to take one home and were trying to drag a pie off.

I remember it was just mayhem out that window. Here she was, with 5 little children standing with her watching us, watch her face. None of us giggled or moved or even were breathing for a few minutes as we all stood there.

What would she do? She had been making pies for 2 days. I kept thinking she is going to explode any second. She left the window, went over to the freezer and pulled out 2 store bought frozen pies. Put them on the counter and looked at us kids.

In a low deep voice she said, "who did you think I was baking those pies for? The squirrels have to have Thanksgiving too".

It was so funny, I remember her reaction was almost as funny as what was going on outside that window. We laughed and watched. She was just going to be alright with this even if it killed her.

For days there were squirrels with stained orange faces jumping around the yard and all she would say is....Well, I know which ones did it, and I will be watching for them come Christmas.

Now I look back on those precious days so differently. It is about being together and seeing your family. Some that only are able to come for holidays due to distance. It is about seeing that one or two family members that always leave you shaking your head. It is about the new life, the babies and kids that are living the Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas Super Bowl.

We all have our memories of those who have gone before, don't let those memories make you sad, keep them close to your heart because those memories are what keep them near to us, they live on, when we can smile and see the squirrels faces covered in pumpkin on a cold winters day.

May the Joy and Hope of Thanksgiving bring you into the Christmas season refreshed and ready to party on.

Cyber Hugs,


Added by Diane ღ on Nov 22, 2011 10:42 AM

Wishing You and Your Family a Happy Thanksgiving.
God Bless.

Added by Suzanne&Johnღ on Nov 22, 2011 6:10 AM

First I want to apologise for the delay in sending this message, life has been very busy.

I want to THANK you for the visits and the lovely tokens you so thoughtfully gave to my dear sister Mars,
Your kindness in remembering her is very greatly appreciated,

Best wishes from Ireland

Noreen (reilly)

Added by Reilly on Sep 23, 2011 12:59 PM

I want to Thank you for the beautiful token you left my sister Mars,
Your kindness is greatly appreciated,

(I apologise for not sending thanks earlier but life has been extreamly busy)

Best wishes from Ireland
♣ ♣ ♣ ♣ ♣ ♣ ♣ ♣ ♣

Added by Reilly on Aug 23, 2011 1:31 PM

With All My Love ☮ & ❤️
Hi, Becky!
Thank you for your visits!

Added by With All My Love ☮... on Aug 23, 2011 7:00 AM

2 Angel of Mine ValenciaღAsia💕
Dearest Becky.....

❤ڿڰۣಌ Although I haven't had the chance to say "THANK YOU" until now, I've thanked you a thousand times in my heart, on remembrance of Valencia's Angel Day. As you know, is one of the most difficult day for us all, our loved ones' Angel Day. A very heartfelt THANK YOU, my friend ❤ڿڰۣಌ

Much love, Yo

Added by 2 Angel of Mine Valencia&... on Aug 15, 2011 11:44 AM

Thank you.
you are so very kind and pray all is well with you.Allie

Added by Broken~★~Heart on Aug 11, 2011 5:37 PM


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