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zinger (#47015817)
 member for 9 years, 3 months, 16 days
Diane Welhelm
Hi, I am not sure I spelt the last name correctly but it is the F.A.G memorial from the husband whom obviously loved his wife and had a sense of humor abt her nice A$$ I read that some ppl have had complaints or issues regarding this memorial and I just wanted to say..... you did not write the words you are simply documenting a memorial that to me is sweet and funny and as far as it's appropriate questionability well the Family and the Cemetery allowed it. I think that it's great as much as he obviously loved her he still managed during his grief to be able to have a little humor and I would bet she probably would not only approve she probably would have had a good laugh herself! Thanks for sharing!

Added by TiffanyH on Jul 23, 2017 3:37 AM

Ken Rouston
Merry Christmas
Cathy (Zinger): You are, by far, my favorite Find A Grave volunteer. Your notes and bio's on memorials reflect your caring nature and show how truly respectful you are of those who have gone before us. The stories of these folks need to be told and perpetuated and you do it from your heart so beautifully. Thanks Cathy. The Best to you always.

Added by Ken Rouston on Dec 20, 2016 10:34 AM

Love Always, Renee
Thanksgiving Blessings
Wishing you and your family a special day of thanks.

Added by Love Always, Renee on Nov 22, 2016 6:21 PM

Just a comment
I read your memorial on Diane Marie Wilhelm and I must say you write beautifully.

Added by Kasey on Oct 06, 2016 6:39 AM

David Mayo
Thank you for your flower token and kind words on my family's memorials. It's appreciated.


Added by David Mayo on Aug 02, 2016 12:45 PM

Always & Forever
Robert Kelley
Thank you for visiting my husband's grave. Your post meant so much to me.

Added by Always & Forever on Jun 29, 2016 1:21 PM

Ken Rouston
Notes on Memorial Pages

Thank you so much for the kind and thoughtful notes that you placed on several of my family members memorials. You are obviously a sweetheart. If you ever need help with a search in Northern Michigan, just let me know. Thank you for such kindness.

Added by Ken Rouston on May 01, 2016 8:22 PM

Lisa Craig Arrowood
William Andrew Arrowood
Than You for the note on my son's memorial page. Find A Grave needs more members like you. Blessings to you Lisa Craig Arrowood

Added by Lisa Craig Arrowood on Apr 06, 2016 4:48 PM

Ken Rouston

I just happened upon one of your memorials and read your profile. You have the same values regarding Find A Grave as I do. Just wanted to compliment you on your approach and the respect that you project to those that are no longer among us.

Added by Ken Rouston on Mar 26, 2016 10:16 AM

Love Always, Renee
Christmas Blessings
Wishing for you, a very blessed Christmas and Peaceful New Year.

Added by Love Always, Renee on Dec 22, 2015 5:50 PM

Patricia Love
RE: Frank & Matilda Westrick
Hi Cathy,
I transferred Matilda's memorial but Frank's is by Sam Lindsay.

Added by Patricia Love on Dec 14, 2015 10:42 AM

Durbin & Keaton Families
Love it!
There are always those who will look down their noses at people like us...I think this is a great inscription and I think you're are right, we need to remember the good old days of young love...
PLEASE keep up the hard work for Find A Grave.

Added by Durbin & Keaton Families on Jul 23, 2015 2:09 PM

The Nicest A.. in Town.
I think this epitaph is great! Thank you for showing it to us!

Added by Sport on Jul 17, 2015 1:22 AM

Roy Huffstetter III
Jeremy Moore
Cathy, thank you so much for your kind words on my friend's memorial. Jeremy was like a big brother to me, one of a kind. We are devastated that he is gone. He leaves behind a daughter, brother, sister, and ao many family and friends. He lost his battle with cancer, and the world is a poorer place without him. His memorial is a work progress, and I thank you for being so kind. You are such a wonderful person. My wife and I enjoy your memorials, and think the world of you. -Roy

Added by Roy Huffstetter III on Mar 19, 2015 12:55 AM

Roy Huffstetter III
The nicest A . . in town
Hey,I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed this persons memorial. You are totally on point about us getting a glimpse into the lives of a happy couple, who obviously had a sense of humor. I wish more people were like this. It is inspiring in it's honesty, and so sweet when you look at the entire stone. What a neat couple... that anyone would message you negativly is beyond me. Great photo and awesome bio. Two thumbs way up!!

Thank you,


Added by Roy Huffstetter III on Feb 27, 2015 10:50 PM

Saundra Dowling
Thank you for stopping at our son's site, James Henry "Tank" Dowling and leaving a token. Please continue to pray for our family as we try to heal. We will see James again in God's time. God bless, Saundra & Alton Dowling
link to a video of James playing his guitar and singing with 2 of his nephews

Added by Saundra Dowling on Feb 20, 2015 7:55 PM

Cathy for visiting my husbands memorial as it means so very much to me...



Added by Beth on Feb 18, 2015 3:18 PM

Traci's Mom
Traci Fields

Because of you and other wonderful findagrave friends, Traci now has 5,260 flowers/tokens, and her birthday is a little over a week away. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! We appreciate you all so much.

I'm in awe! To show you more of what Traci was like, I posted the following on her memorial page,

"Traci, my angel, I can see the big grin on your face for all the flowers you're receiving on your memorial page. You're telling me, "Mom, why are you so surprised there are so many good people in this world? You should have known that....." "You're right, sweetheart, I should have known".

Traci was a person of strong faith, and GOD took excellent care of her, and helped her through all her hardships! Her faith never waivered.

GOD, bless them all, and thank you for your wonderful gift of Traci.

We've received an outpouring of so much love for Traci. I will try to get to everyone's site and leave a flower/token for at least one of their loved ones. However, there are so many of you, it will take me a while.

Sharon (Traci's mom)

Added by Traci's Mom on Nov 10, 2014 3:20 PM

Traci's Mom
Token you left for Traci Fields
thank you very much for the token you left for my angel daughter, Traci. She was a wonderful gift from GOD, and she's in my heart and mind every single day. Her passing has left major holes in the hearts of her family and friends.

I appreciate you helping to reach my goal of 5,000 tokens by her birthday, November 20th.

I'm thankful and blessed for your kindness. GOD bless you for your heavenly heart.

Added by Traci's Mom on Nov 07, 2014 4:16 PM

thank you !
Thank you for remembering my Grandfather.. I had tears in my eyes when I read your message.. I know it's just a few words..But they meant so much to me.. God Bless.

Added by Mary on Aug 09, 2014 5:40 PM

Wayne L. Osborne
RE: Thank-you!
Thank you Zinger. I am happy that you liked "The Story Tellers". I truly appreciate your comments. I thank you for leaving the tokens and notes on some of my memorial pages. I especially thank you for the nice message for my son Sean.
Best wishes to you and yours.
Wayne Osborne

Added by Wayne L. Osborne on Jan 12, 2014 4:48 PM

Gracie's Grammy
RE: Re: Diane Wilhelm
Guess I'm just getting old because I find it very offensive. When he dies he needs a stone that says Biggest A in town. Thanks for answering me.

Added by Gracie's Grammy on Jan 10, 2014 9:11 PM

Gracie's Grammy
Diane Wilhelm
Question ..... the nicest A in town? That's all? No bio about her life? Help me understand.

Added by Gracie's Grammy on Jan 10, 2014 9:54 AM

Becky Rudd
Jeffrey Lee Allender

Thank you for your kind words and sentiment, for visiting my sons page, for warming my heart!

God Bless,

Added by Becky Rudd on Dec 06, 2013 4:20 PM

Viv's My Angel
Thank you for your beautiful words
I just wanted to take this moment to thank you so very much for the lovely message you left on my Mother's memorial. In the depths of my broken heart I am truly grateful for the way she had passed in my arms and the fact she was with me, but I am still the baby who misses her mommy so very much and am so lost without her.

Added by Viv's My Angel on Oct 20, 2013 6:27 AM


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