|Richard Parker (#47021994)|
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Transfers under the following guideline. I've learned a long time ago you can't please everyone and I'm not going to try. For you who like to break the rules, don't waste your or mine time. If your request is outside my guidelines, I will ignore and delate your request.|
Generation 1: your family -- Husband - wife - your children - son-in laws - daughter-in-laws - grandchildren.
Generation 2: your and spouse parents -- Father - Mother - aunts - uncles - 1st cousins - wives and hubands of aunts, uncles and cousins.
Generation 3: Grandparents - their siblings and their children -- huband and wife of siblings and children.
Generation 4: Great Gradparents - their siblings and their children - huband and wife of siblings and children.
NO transfers beyond the great-grandparents and NO transfers of Revolution Soliders or Civil War Soliders or Sailors.
This is a MUST!!! You have to tell me your RELATIONSHIP to the person you want transfered and PROVE if I shoud ask FOR proof. No relatonship...no transfer.
Don't waste my time with: I went school with...I do research for another person would you consider transfering...they were neighbors to my grandparents...I work with this person...they were my neighbors when I was a kid...just this once would consider breaking the rules...ect. ect. ect. If you are not related, forget it. My transfers go to family members who fall within the guide lines.
For you who think there should be no rules and should transfer every request that comes down the pipe, take it up with Find A Grave. They're the ones who set the rules.
CORRECTIONS: For you impatient persons who believe your request should be answered in a 24 hours period of time. Get Real! I may have 30 or 40 other requests before yours comes in. I do answered all corrections but it might take several day or weeks. I don't spent 24-7 at the computer. I know this is hard for you to believe but I do have a life outside the computer. I do have family and friends I spent time with, I have a part time job, yard ward, house keeping, grocery shopping, library research, visiting cemeteries for tombstones to photograph, searching cemeteries for requested tombstones and other chores that has to be do.
MY PERSONAL GOAL: My reason for joining Find A Grave is to presrve graves and their tombstones. That's where the bulk of my time on the computer goes, adding people and their tombstones. Corrections and tranfers are done when I can find extra time in the day. So if it takes me one or two months to answering your requests, so be it. Don't give me any guff, that if I can't keep up with the requests, I should transfer the memorials to someone who can. Get Real!! It won't happen!
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|Judy Fullmer||Mary C Good|
In looking at this I believe your Mary C Good is another woman, she is married to John C , ours is married to John A Good and the dates don't match. Sorry to have bothered you. I have added Mary Chapline Good. Haven't found her husband John A Good yet.
|Judy Fullmer||Good in Lewis Cemetery, Henry County, Missouri|
wow you have done a lot of work, I have only just started on Find a grave, been working on family genealogy for 25+ years. I have a question about a memorial in the Lewis Cemetery that you manage, Mary C Good 30125923. On the http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~mohenry/cemetery/cem1083.
A website for the Lewis cemetery it lists Mary C. Chapline Good, b 1809 Ohio Co VA, d Sep 23 1869 Henry Co MO. 61 Y 6M 20 D, m Oct 25 1827 Ohio Co Va to John A Good.
I wonder if your dates are correct. Mary and John would be great great grandparents of my husband Lamar Fullmer, son of Virginia Good Fullmer, daughter of Ethel Wright and Harry Chaplin Good, granddaughter of Columbia Good Lewis and Lawrence William Good, and great daughter of Mary Chapline and John A Good. My information from family records agrees with the Lewis station website. IF Mary C Chapline Good was born in 1838 as your memorial states, it is impossible for her to be the mother of Lawrence William Good, John Good and Chapline Good who are also buried there. Just trying to determine if this is Mary Chapline Good mother of Lawrence William Good. Thanks for any help.
|LaDon Brennan||RE: Geraldine Woody|
Thanks for catch, I deleted my memorial and sent email to Linda who maintains the Henry Co. cemetery records that she should delete Geraldine from her listing of Mt. Zion.
There is no reason to transfer your memorial to me but appreciate the offer. She is in good hands.
Hope all is well. LaDon
|Mary Achterhof||Find A Grave Memorial# 51616820|
I found an article about the death of this little girl. If you wish you may post to the memorial. It states the date of death and her mother's name. Thank you. Mary
Article appears in the Abilene Daily Reflector, Abilene, Kansas, 18 March 1889 reads...
FRIGHTFUL FALL INTO A QUARRY
Kansas City, Missouri, March 18 - Mrs. Amanda Hunter and her six year old daughter, Clara, were the victims of a frightful accident on Saturday. They live close by a quarry. Clara go into her father's wagon, standing near the barn, and was playing and jumping around in the wagon bet when the bricks placed under the wheels to prevent it from going down hill were displaced and the wagon began moving slowly towards the quarry. The mother seeing the wagon. moving ran and attempted to stop it, but the momentum was too great and both were carried over the precipice into the quarry, a distance of thirty-five feet. The child died a few minutes after being picked up, but there is some hope of saving the mother's life.
|DeeAnna Allum Granston||CONNECTION Request|
Will you kindly connect the following individual to his parents:
(Buried in Appleton City Cemetery, St. Clair County, Missouri ...
August Johannigmeier, Memorial #85197029
Jurgen Heinrich Johanningmeier
Anna Marie Ilsabein Temme Johanningmeier
You will notice a different surname spelling, but that is as it should be. The parents used Johanningmeier, August used Johannigmeier.
|carole taylor puntenney||RE: Charles Lee/Kizzie|
Gosh, Richard thank you... I will take care of them.
|carole taylor puntenney||175594630|
Hi, Richard, looks like??? I may have made a dup. because the headstone is 1928 and the death cert is 1923.. but the wife is the same. If you agree that this is the same, if you could copy my bio over to your memorial, let me know and then I can delete mine. He is only a Cuz' Carole Taylor 47890355 Thank you
|Henry Webber||Williams Rains|
Thanks so much for the information Richard. I have added his parents per your edit and have added the other information to his Bio and gave you credit. Thanks so much, Henry
Just a note to thank you for your service here Richard. I understand the tone in your bio, I've read some of the comments... 20 years in Navy Medicine, in any customer service skill set - I am well aware there's always "those guys"... I think modern retail box stores created them - the entitled, the demanding, the always right, the you will do this for me right now types... Retail telling them they are, come on in an abuse our staff, make yourself at home and let those domestic disturbance pent up emotions out, you're right, you're always right - Probably same folks called "trolls" on Facebook posts... those people that no matter what the post - they gotta comment and poo-poo it.... "those guys"... It's NOT exactly like you're making millions DOING THIS FOR THESE PEOPLE because they're too damn lazy to do it themselves.... so - THIS BUD'S FOR YOU! MR. CEMETERY GRAVE LOGGER! For all you do. Doing so much, for so little, for so long, for so many ungrateful. Thank you for logging my Grandparents. 8329396
|Bret Lamb||RE: Jennie May Murphy Durant|
Hi Richard, sorry about not sending my ID. Rookie mistake. My ID is 48541445. Thank you for the transfers. Have a great weekend!
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