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Eileen (#46775958)
 member for 12 years, 8 months, 4 days
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Bio Photo I am a retired newspaper reporter/editor in southern New Jersey. I have written a book and am currently working on my second. In my spare time I am a hospice volunteer.
Even though I had been a contributor to Find A Grave for more than a year, I never truly realized how much this site means to family left behind until my darling stepdaughter and sweet grandchildren were murdered on May 26, 2006. Since posting their sites, the family has received so many wonderful wishes - many from strangers. Even though they didn't know how wonderful Wendy and the kids were, they took time out to leave sweet sentiments. We are forever grateful. If you can, please take time to visit them and leave them a message. Wendy McCarter
Scotty McCarter
Melanie McCarter. I know they would be so pleased. Wendy leaves behind a lovely daughter, Amanda, who misses her mom and brother and sister terribly.
If you would like to add a photo for Wendy, Scotty or Melanie, please feel free. We hope these tribute sites will be ever-evolving. Just click on the photo to read the caption. To see photos not showing, just click on "Click here to view all images."
I live in Cumberland County near the Delaware Bay, and I would be happy to take photo requests for cemetery photos in that area. Just drop me a request.
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Florida Boy 64
Echo valley
We both left flowers for Lisa deleeuw. Could you do me a favor and please visit my friend Cynthia (echo valley) gillig stone 75864427 I would appericate it. I left flowers for your love ones the next time I visit could you please tell me scotts favorite teams since he loved sports I left him a football.But I would like to leave him with something that was his favorite and I am so sorry for your loss but they will never die thats what this site is all about.
Added by Florida Boy 64 on Jun 30, 2012 10:07 PM
Peace, Comfort and Hugs, Brenda & Wendy
Wishing you and your loved ones; a safe and Merry Christmas. May each of you, have many blessings throughout the New Year!
Added by Peace, Comfort and Hugs, ... on Dec 12, 2011 3:19 AM
I have been thinking about your grandson Scotty a lot lately. He was exactly one month older than my son, and their milestones are probably very similar too. I think if they had gone to the same schools, they would have been friends. My son recently graduated high school, just like Scotty would have. Scotty was a bright and beautiful young man-- I am so sorry for your loss.
Added by Susan245 on Jun 30, 2011 11:24 AM
A Marine Daughter
RE: thank you!
You're welcome!
Added by A Marine Daughter on Aug 13, 2010 8:47 PM
Carolina Angel
Thank you for remembering my Mama. You are such a blessing. God be with you always.
Warm Hugs, you are wonderful and understand my grief.
Added by Carolina Angel on Jun 15, 2010 2:54 PM
Rain n Tears
RE: Blessed Christmas
Hello Eileen, Thank You for Your Christmas Blessing.I hope you and your family had a wonderful Christmas.I am honored to do it,I am just so very sorry they lost their lives.I have added the children to a virtual cem. I hope you dont mind,if you do let me know and I will remove them.GOD BLESS YOU!! YOUR FRIEND Rain
Added by Rain n Tears on Dec 25, 2009 11:01 PM
Rhonda Sue 💗
RE: Thank you

You Are So Welcome Eileen.
I Am So Sorry.
God Bless You
And Your Family Earth Angel.

Added by Rhonda Sue 💗 on Dec 02, 2009 5:47 PM
Evening Breeze
RE: thank you!
You're quite welcome, Ma'am. I only wish there was more I could say because mere words can't begin to convey to you how sorry I am for your loss.
Added by Evening Breeze on Sep 25, 2009 5:51 AM
Hello Eileen, It was an honor for me to visit your memorials. Such sad occurrenses and other interesting people ~ that deserve a tribute to their lives here on Earth. Thanks for your message.
Added by purple-lady on Jul 12, 2009 9:51 AM
Blessed Be, PJ Andrews-Prideaux
Holiday Season
Here's Wishing You and Yours A Very Happy, Healthy, and Safe Holiday Season Filled With Love, Laughter, and All of The Lord's Blessings.

Blessed Be,
PJ Andrews-Prideaux
Added by Blessed Be, PJ Andrews-P... on Dec 21, 2008 4:56 PM
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