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Viv's My Angel (#46497553)
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Bio Photo September 12, 2013, my best friend and reason for living had passed away, my Mother Vivian McLaughlin- McCarthy passed away so very suddenly and un-expectantly in my arms at home.

It was beyond a shock for me. But if I have anything to be grateful for to God is that I did not see her suffer or cringe in pain. I truly believe Angels came to take her. My mother was there to help bring me in this world and I was there for her to leave.

Like I tell my friends and coworkers, the only thing holding me up, is the fact that she passed so peacefully and we were together. I'm being the selfish spoiled brat of missing my mommy and I find myself walking around the house talking and hoping she could hear me.

Since her passing the weather has been beyond gorgeous and perfect for the first 3 weeks since she passed, perfect fall weather which was her favorite season. I love & miss my Mom and know she is finally reunited with her son, my brother John and with all her loved ones.

It was back in February 2004, I had lost my older brother only 39 years old John McCarthy,Jr (9/25/64 - 2/24/04) which was a major shock to our small family. You are always prepared to loose an elder but never think when someone dies young before their time, how much pain you feel and how hard it hurts.


I have always had a facination with visiting graves and leaving flowers for abandon ones ever since I lost my grandfather when I was 5.

I would like to take this opportunity to Thank everyone who are so kind enough to leave flowers & messages for my Mother & Brother - It helps us tremendously. Thank you & God Bless***
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Messages left for Viv's My Angel (108)[Leave Message]
Kate Duvall
Thank you...
...for the beautiful token you left for my friend Carol Admire last week. God bless you!
Added by Kate Duvall on Apr 02, 2017 4:20 PM
Kate Duvall
Thank you...
...for honoring Dorothy Day yesterday. She doesn't get very many flowers.
Added by Kate Duvall on Mar 27, 2017 11:48 AM
2 Angel of Mine ValenciaღAsia💕
Thank you

Heartfelt thanks for your visits and also visiting Vanessa's memorial, so very sad for the family. It means so much.

Have a wonderful and blessed week

Hugs, Yo

Added by 2 Angel of Mine Valencia&... on Mar 06, 2017 9:03 AM
theresa wilson
RE: Prayers
Your Very Welcome Dear, My Prayers are yours, and I ll be back to visit your mom n loved ones. :) lol Theresa
Added by theresa wilson on Jun 14, 2016 9:09 PM
theresa wilson
I saw on your moms memorial site that you needed help. So I just want you to know that I am Praying for you and for the LORD to protect you n give you the Strength you need to face all things. The Lord Loves you n so do I. :) lol Theresa
Added by theresa wilson on Jun 13, 2016 7:20 PM
2 Angel of Mine ValenciaღAsia💕
Heartfelt thanks
For your visits, they are so appreciated.

Valencia's mom

Added by 2 Angel of Mine Valencia&... on Jan 24, 2016 3:02 PM
RE: Kimberly Antonakos
Thank you!
Added by Apollymi on Oct 22, 2015 6:14 AM
My Mum
Thank you so much for your kind visits to my mother, on her birthday, it's so thoughtful of you. And yet again...thank you for all your visits to my memorials, l'm so grateful to you.

God bless
Added by Legsie11 on Sep 14, 2015 11:31 AM
Carolina Angel
I hope you are feeling better. Miss hearing from you. Think of you often. Hugs
Added by Carolina Angel on Jul 20, 2015 8:02 PM
George Plunkett
Photo Request
Ocean View`Cemetery is very large. If you include the location of the grave you want photographed, it will be fulfill a lot sooner.

Added by George Plunkett on Jun 30, 2015 11:15 AM
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