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4losthistory (#46983562)
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Bio Photo I have recorded the birth date, death date, and last address of your family members. Now it is your turn to edit and enhance their memorials, for the enjoyment of future generations.

Thank you so much to the people who generously donate their time and money to provide information, photographs, and floral contributions to people who may never be able to thank them. I especially appreciate those who remember this is much bigger than ourselves and consistently maintain their memorials in a professional manner, treating others volunteers in the respectful way in which they like to be treated.
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Steward for these memorials when I pass
on is "RTerry" #46537864 .
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Fifth, The "Suggest a correction" feature may also be used to submit corrections, an original biography, and family links to memorials that do not fall under the above defintion. (Be sure to include the memorial ID#s for the family links and how they are related, father, mother or spouse. The original contributor should make any corrections and add any additional information you have for that memorial, such as links to parents and spouses, provided the information is accurate.

Sixth, Please note that it is not appropriate to request a transfer and then, after receiving the transfer, delete that page and substitute it with a new memorial that you have created. This practice denies credit to the original contributor. Please use the original memorial page to make updates and add information.

I HAVE HAD AN OVERABUNDANT AMOUNT OF BAD EXPERIENCES TRANSFERRING MEMORIALS TO MEMBERS WHO QUICKLY LOSE INTEREST AND ABANDON THE MEMORIALS I CREATED. WHEN I LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE AND I SEE YOU HAVE HAD HUNDREDS, OR THOUSANDS, OF MEMORIALS TRANSFERRED TO YOU, I WONDER ABOUT THE NECESSITY SINCE YOU ARE ONLY DIRECTLY DESCENDED FROM 30 PEOPLE ACCORDING TO FINDAGRAVE GUIDELINES.

ONE TRANSFER REQUEST CAME WITH A NOTE ABOUT ALL OF THE BIOGRAPHICAL INFORMATION SHE HAD TO POST WHICH CONSISTED OF "THIS WAS MY FIFTH GREAT GRANDPAPPY WHO I LOVED VERY MUCH". THAT, SOMEWHAT SUSPECT, BIOGRAPHY COULD HAVE BEEN POSTED ON A FLOWER TRIBUTE.

I RESEARCH ALL CORRECTIONS SUBMITTED TO ME FOR ACCURACY BECAUSE THERE IS A LOT OF MISINFORMATION AND FAMILY TREES WHICH ARE ALL MESSED UP ON RESEARCH SITES. ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS I HAVE BUILT TWO SEPARATE FAMILIES IN FINDAGRAVE SO THAT THEY WILL BACKFEED CORRECTLY INTO ANCESTRY. I AM TICKLED TO RECEIVE NEW EDITS AND LINKS, AND AM EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA EXCITED ABOUT PICTURES AND STORIES TO PERSONALIZE THE MEMORIALS. AND I AM EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA UNHAPPY WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO GET ME TO REMOVE INFORMATION IN ORDER TO REWRITE THEIR HISTORY TO PLEASE THEM.

I AM AN UNBIASED CARETAKER WILLING TO POST ALL THE DOCUMENTED INFORMATION YOU PROVIDE AND HAVE WORKED VERY CLOSELY WITH OTHER FINDAGRAVE MEMBERS FOR YEARS EXCHANGING INFORMATION TO HELP BUILD YOUR FAMILY HISTORY. MOST OF MY DIRECT ANCESTORS WERE BUILT BY AN EARLY PIONEER TO FINDAGRAVE WHO POSTED ALL OF THE INFORMATION I REQUESTED AND TAUGHT ME HOW TO DO IMBEDDED LINKS BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP LINK FEATURE WAS ADDED. OVER TIME I HAVE TALKED HIM OUT OF A FEW OF THEM, BUT NOW HE SEEMS TO HAVE MOVED TO FLORIDA AND FOUND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH HIS TIME. [I'M TALKING ABOUT YOU BERN] PUH-LEEZE DON'T OBSESS ABOUT OWNING THE MEMORIALS OF EXTENDED FAMILY.
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Messages left for 4losthistory (127)[Leave Message]
Deborah Hearn Dugdale
Thank you!
Thanks for the the Flonnie Hearn memorial links. Yes, of course you already did that back in May. What was I thinking? So sorry! Am trying to get back into things after taking a break. My apologies. However please do know how much your work means to me and how much it has helped over the years. I keep bumping into you and all I can say is WOW! and Thanks!
Added by Deborah Hearn Dugdale on Sep 23, 2017 6:52 AM
RTerry
RE: Retirement
Hi,

I haven't given up on Maplewood. We still have our townhouse there and I still have some family. I will be there periodically and plan to continue work on Maplewood :-). Maybe being retired I can spend more time doing things I enjoy.

Don't give up on me!!
Added by RTerry on Sep 22, 2017 5:49 AM
Karen Mickel Bennett
William Mimms
Thank you for taking time to send valuable information for his memorial. Thanks for all you do!
Added by Karen Mickel Bennett on Sep 21, 2017 1:42 PM
RTerry
Re: Update
Hi,

Just letting you know I am retiring next Friday (9/29) and moving from Maryland to Florida. I plan to still spend time in NC and to continue my work with family cemeteries etc in Durham and surrounding areas. I also hope to find new cemeteries in FL to work on. :-)

Robert
Added by RTerry on Sep 21, 2017 7:06 AM
chcobe
RE: Charles Baynes Porterfield #39192192
Thank you for posting!! No problem on the time issue :)
Added by chcobe on Sep 21, 2017 6:44 AM
Doc Wilson
re: Mary Luzinia (Michael) Gladden
Thank you for the transfer.
Added by Doc Wilson on Sep 20, 2017 8:11 AM
Bernd Doss
Elijah Carter
Elijah Carter

Burial: [Edit]
Hyman Chapel A.M.E. Zion Church Cemetery
Havelock
Craven County
North Carolina, USA [Add Plot]

Created by: Bernd Doss
Record added: Jan 08, 2011
Find A Grave Memorial# 63900395

You asked if I knew anything about the cemetery. Mr. Carter was interred at the Hyman Chapel AME Zion Church Cemetery which is located adjacent to the church, just off Highway 101, east of Havelock, NC. The location of his burial on his death certificate is in error. North Harlow and Cohoque are essentially one and the same. North Harlow is a small community a short distance down the road from the church and Cohoque is the name of a small creek nearby. Hope that this helps.
Added by Bernd Doss on Sep 08, 2017 12:12 PM
Joan Thorne-Baker
Elizabeth Huggins Freeman
Is not buried in the Belcher Cemetery. I believe she was buried elsewhere
Added by Joan Thorne-Baker on Sep 01, 2017 7:24 PM
brumblemom
memorials
I have posted several photos of markers on your work today and I want to thank you for all that you continue to do and the effort you make to keep things informative and correct!
Added by brumblemom on Aug 25, 2017 3:11 PM
Sharon Leon
RE: Punctuation
I think you meant to say that you will not be adding the proper punctuation for my distant Cavinee cousin. That's wonderful that you're willing and able to devote so much volunteer time to helping with memorials, but punctuation can be helpful. When I first looked at his memorial while researching that Cavinee branch, I thought "Is that name meant to be O'Cavinee or O. Cavinee?" It definitely makes sense though to save time by skipping the middle initial punctuation when setting up a memorial, so I can see what you're saying, but if a relative, even a distant one, wants to help improve a memorial by adding that punctuation, why not graciously accept that option? There are also people who think it's disrespectful to the deceased to not add the punctuation. It's entirely up to you though. I'm not aware that Find A Grave has any rule on the subject. Sharon
Added by Sharon Leon on Aug 06, 2017 8:35 AM
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