The object in this life is not to leave a beautiful corpse. Let's face it, most of us were never graced with that standard in the culture/time within which we were born, lived and died/will die. Plus, we need to stop living a life that is packed to the brim with worry, paranoia, and fear. These mental distractions are almost always learned. They are also almost always destructive to a person's heart and soul. Usually well meaning parental-type units; persons in certain professions (teachers, physicians, clergy, etc.); certain "friends" (long time or mere acquaintances); and even, yup, OURSELVES! "You'll poke an eye out (or even better, go BLIND!); But honey, you're a GIRL and girls don't want to learn to fly, work on cars, use tools, learn electricity or skydive!! What BOY will ever ask you out?"; "It seems that YOU just can't handle the assignment, you'll have to be held back a grade (or forever); I don't care if you got the correct answer. It's wrong because it's not the way "WE" do it!; COLOR WITHIN THE LINES!!"; "I'm afraid the bad news is that you'll never walk again. (Later..HOW did you heal yourself? That's impossible! The xray technician who took it, radiologist reading MUST
have been WRONG! There's no WAY you can walk!"; Oooops! Some of the researchers LIED or COOKED their results to fit the hypothesis.; You want to what? FEEL GOOD? Sorry, that's NOT what an antidepressant is for so YOU must be DRUG SEEKING"; "You're riding that handcart straight to HELL; You are a SINNER and disgusting before the eyes of ...""Just look at her, does she understand the spectacle she's making? And her clothes, too much makeup...she had better be careful, that Salem thing can be resurrected at any time!"

The object in this life is not to leave a beautiful corpse. Let's face it, most of us were never graced with that standard in the culture/time within which we were born, lived and died/will die. Plus, we need to stop living a life that is packed to the brim with worry, paranoia, and fear. These mental distractions are almost always learned. They are also almost always destructive to a person's heart and soul. Usually well meaning parental-type units; persons in certain professions (teachers, physicians, clergy, etc.); certain "friends" (long time or mere acquaintances); and even, yup, OURSELVES! "You'll poke an eye out (or even better, go BLIND!); But honey, you're a GIRL and girls don't want to learn to fly, work on cars, use tools, learn electricity or skydive!! What BOY will ever ask you out?"; "It seems that YOU just can't handle the assignment, you'll have to be held back a grade (or forever); I don't care if you got the correct answer. It's wrong because it's not the way "WE" do it!; COLOR WITHIN THE LINES!!"; "I'm afraid the bad news is that you'll never walk again. (Later..HOW did you heal yourself? That's impossible! The xray technician who took it, radiologist reading MUST
have been WRONG! There's no WAY you can walk!"; Oooops! Some of the researchers LIED or COOKED their results to fit the hypothesis.; You want to what? FEEL GOOD? Sorry, that's NOT what an antidepressant is for so YOU must be DRUG SEEKING"; "You're riding that handcart straight to HELL; You are a SINNER and disgusting before the eyes of ...""Just look at her, does she understand the spectacle she's making? And her clothes, too much makeup...she had better be careful, that Salem thing can be resurrected at any time!"