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Bonnie Skiles Rost (#47440067)
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Come, look with me inside this drawer,
In this box I've often seen,
At the pictures, black and white,
Faces proud, still, and serene.

I wish I knew the people,
These strangers in the box,
Their names and all their memories,
Are lost among my socks.

I wonder what their lives were like,
How did they spend their days?
What about their special times?
I'll never know their ways.

If only someone had taken time,
To tell, who, what, where, and when,
These faces of my heritage,
Would come to life again.

Could this become the fate,
Of the pictures we take today?
The faces and the memories,
Someday to be passed away?

Take time to save your stories,
Seize the opportunity when it knocks,
Or someday you and yours,
Could be strangers in the box.

Author: Pam Harazim

About three decades ago I was taking a six-week writing class. My first assignment was to write a story that involved all the senses. While sitting at the kitchen table, a thunderstorm was rumbling in the distance, but I gave it no never mind because I thought sure it was following the river. As I sat thinking about the story I would write, without thinking, I was listening to the storm that seemed to be drawing near. Amid the sound of thunder and crackle of lightning, I found myself counting . . . "Okay, five seconds . . . it's time to take cover." I quickly looked out the window . . . it was the dreaded "white rain." The tall pine trees were bending, swaying, and there were waves forming on the lake.

I immediately gathered an old tattered shoebox with old photos that I had kept after the passing of my father and walked downstairs to take cover. I was always uneasy about looking inside the box. As I slowly took the lid off the box, the first photo atop was a portrait of a beautiful young woman, my mother. As I looked at each photo, I was all of a sudden conscious that I had no idea who the strangers were in the snapshots. For no apparent reason, I began separating them into stacks, and I found the largest stack was of the strangers. I was told that the one photo beneath my mother's was my grandmother, and I did not know her name. I began to think back to my childhood and ask questions, such as, "Who are my maternal grandparents"? My mother's family was always a mystery since she was from another state and taken from us at a young age.

By then, the storm had passed and that is when it all began for me . . . the genealogical questions. I had been bitten by the bug. As for my writing assignment, it was about that particular day and my quest of my mother's lineage. I later wrote a memoir about my mother and my maternal ancestors. It is funny about the turn of events . . . it's all about timing . . . His timing.


Transfers: Please read the Find A Grave FAQ regarding transfers. I do take care of all of the memorials I create, and will happily make edits, corrections, an add links.

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Thanks, Bonnie
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Joyce Jarvis
Winary Jane Scantlin
How did you find her birth and death records? Thanks, Joyce
Added by Joyce Jarvis on Apr 24, 2015 10:49 AM
Karen Hendricks
John L. Row
Please link his sister Hester Ann Row Hendricks/McPherson #54867415 to John L. Row
Added by Karen Hendricks on Nov 30, 2014 10:21 PM
Chris Bergstrom
It is the name of her ex husband i have not found out his name yet.
Added by Chris Bergstrom on Aug 20, 2014 3:23 AM
Chris Bergstrom
Rivers Hope SKiles
are you related to Rivers Hope Skiles daughter of Barbara Ruth Gibson-Gilder?
Added by Chris Bergstrom on Aug 18, 2014 11:24 PM
Michael Hernandez
Are you a close relative of Mr. Skiles? Perhaps you may have some info regarding his military service during WW2?
Added by Michael Hernandez on Jul 23, 2014 10:40 AM
MN Researcher
RE: America H Chandler Row 102294030
Find A Grave has graciously combined the 2 cemeteries into one, which is only logical. There is one name for the cemetery with one office to run them. Please read the information page for the cemetery. If you do a name search the duplicates will be obvious. Do not worry about cemetery #1 or #2. Plot information would be the place to indicate that.
Added by MN Researcher on Dec 06, 2013 8:10 AM
Karen Severance
Mary Cooke
Hi Bonnie, I checked with the Roselawn Cemetery office in Denton and they do not have a record of Mary in their location. Would you check and see if she might be listed by a different name and let me know? I will leave the request claim open for me for now.
Added by Karen Severance on Aug 29, 2013 9:11 AM
Sheryl Curlee
RE: Lloyd Skiles
If you are related, I have a lot of information on the Skiles-Huffines lines. I will be happy to send it to you if you will send me a mailing address. My e-mail is
Sheryl Curlee
Dallas, TX
Added by Sheryl Curlee on Aug 24, 2013 1:26 PM
Thomas Johnson photo request
Can you contact Grove Hill cemetery and get the burial locations for your requests: 214-381-7118
There are over 323 photo requests and the volunteers can not ask for that many locations.

Your requests will get filled with the location information. The cemetery does not like to cooperate with findagrave volunteers.
Added by TLH on Jul 30, 2013 12:44 PM
Henry Skiles
Links were made. Wow what a long line of your family.
Added by jbmgs on Jul 15, 2013 3:17 PM
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