We held a going away party for Rex while he was home after completing his basic training, and I had mentioned wanting a red bud tree. We went out into the country and finally found a little sapling of a tree that he planted for me beside the house.
As he was leaving, my cousin Janie and I stood in the driveway and waved goodbye as he drove away....both of us having the feeling that we would never see him again.
I have planted a red bud where I now live, and that tree is a reminder of those special days with Rex, as he was the brother I never had. His life was cut short, but those years he did have on this earth were full of love for his family and friends who will always remember what a gentle and caring person he was.
On a trip to Washington, D.C., in 1989, Rex's name was found on the Vietnam Memorial Wall. Panel 23E., Line 45. My thoughts at that time upon seeing "The Wall" was full of sorrow for the loss of such a wonderful young man, and for the many whose names were engraved upon row after row. never to be forgotten, that will live on in our hearts forever.
Nancy
.....................
Rex Kaye was LCPL-E3, Marine Corps-Regular, and had served his country for about a year,
and was just getting over an injury when he was called out on a patrol to search for another patrol that had not returned to camp. He was killed by a sniper, and had just turned 20 years old.
In one of the many letters he wrote home, he sent this message:
"If you can't be with the ones you love, love the ones your with".
Rex's father, Uel, had these words inscribed on his stone.
......................................
TRI-COUNTY WEEKLY- Thursday, July 11, 2002, Page 15.
"The greatest love is shown when a person lays down his life for his friends." John 15:13.
A HERO'S HERO
When you ask medal winners how it feels to be a hero, they reply with tears in their eyes and say, "the real heroes are the ones who didn't come back."
DUTY-HONOR-COUNTRY
Compiled and written by: Jim Burrow
Typed and revised by: Jessica Ehly
Rex Kaye Offield was born March 7th, 1947, the third in line of four boys who make up the family of Uel and Lauretta Offield. They were country folks who made their living toiling the soil. They taught their children the values of hard work, respect, obedience, and patriotism that were held so dearly by rural Americans.
In 1962 the Offield family lost their matriarch, forcing Rex to mature faster than most boys his age. He did his job well, balancing farm work, household duties, school, and looking after his younger brother Ronnie. Rex was the boy next door, the All-American-Boy. Since he spent his entire civilian life in the Jamesport community, graduating in the Tri-County High School, class of 1965, it gives us exclusive rights to call him one of ours.
After graduation, Rex chose to become a Marine in April, 1966, Rex left for training at the Marine Corps Recruit Deport in San Diego, California. He was full of pride, patriotism, and a sense of adventure as he boarded the plane that was to take him to San Diego. He completed boot camp and infantry training at Camp Pendleton, and then came home on leave.
On October, 7th, 1966, he boarded the ship that was to take him to Vietnam. He arrived on October 27th and was assigned to M company, 1st platoon, third battalion, fifth regiment, 1st Marine division. In a few short days, Rex became a hardened combat veteran. He frequently found himself in harms way. One December day, after being involved in several skirmishes, his unit returned to camp. That night the encampment was infiltrated by hostile forces throwing grenades into squad tents, including the one that Rex was sleeping in. He received serious wounds to his stomach and back. He was evacuated to the Air Force hospital located at Com Rana Bay. He was hospitalized for about six weeks, being treated for his wounds and shell shock. He was then released and returned to his unit.
On July 1st, Rex and company arrived on a hill about eight miles south of DaNang and started setting up camp for the battalion and regimental staff. Rex felt like they were settling in for the monsoon season. This meant that they would not have to go on many operations, and the ones they would go on would probably be less than 20 days. He was looking forward to some R&R in July, but didn't receive it. He told them they had better let him go next month or he might go AWOL.
His letters home were always about the farm-related things such as planting, equipment, crops, and the weather. In a letter to his grade school teacher he wrote, "I sure wish I was riding on a tractor seat instead of a gun stock- ha."
A small four-man security patrol was sent out on July 10th. Rex was the radioman. As they approached a bridge about 1,000 meters east of the base of camp, the enemy opened up with a heavy barrage of small arms fire. Rex was the first one hit and died instantly. Two other marines were also mortally wounded. The fourth member of the patrol made it into the water, swimming mostly underwater for 100 meters and was able to escape and work his way back to the perimeter.
At one o'clock p.m., a squad-sized patrol was sent out to find overdue Patrols. As they neared the vicinity of the bridge, they also came under heavy small arms fire. The squad called for assistance and A company was dispatched. As soon as the enemy was subdued, the company went in and found the three dead marines.
I believe we will meet again someday, extend a sincere hand-shake, pat on the back and a hug for a job well done I think he will flash that warm and friendly smile and say, "It's okay, I'm a Marine."
Richard Wright, of Polo, Missouri, reported to boot camp with Rex. They went through boot camp and ITR together. When they arrived in Vietnam they went to different units. Richard went to the third marine division, while Rex was assigned to the first division. Their lives were entwined ever since.
On July 4th, 1991, the Wall had a visitor from Polo, Missouri Richard felt compelled to visit this memorial to find the names of friends who had given their lives for their country. He was inspired to write the following tribute. He left a copy of it at Rex's grave on July 4th. It was later found by Rex's brother Ronnie.
"I took a ride on the fourth of July
To mourn friends who died so old glory could fly
I knew it would hurt, the pain would be great
It's been 25 years, it could no longer wait
Back in 1966 we were just young boys
Barely out of school, they said put away your toys
Uncle Sam needs you, we did what he said
But in the next 13 months, most would be dead
It was all so confusing, but when my friends died
I helped carry them over for their last chopper ride
We survivors were fighting, with no time to mourn
That must be why for years, our hearts have been torn
I went to the Wall, I felt so alone
I made sure your names were chiseled in stone
It's all I can offer, a flag, a rose, and love
As you and the good Lord look down from above
I'll never forget you as I'm sure you know
Because I carry you with me wherever I go"
Dedicated to Rex, Gunny, And the other 58,000
7-4-91 * Dick Wright * USMC 2212892
God bless you Rex, we remember and carry you with us in our hearts. To us you are much more than just "a name on the wall"
Acknowledgments
It was an honor and privilege to talk to the veterans of the class of 1965 and want to acknowledge their contributions to this article.
Mickey Ehly- "There's not a year that goes by that I don't visit his grave."
Jerry Pierce- " I was in Korea when word was received that Rex had been killed. It made me want to go there, and I requested a transfer."
Keith Fender- " Everyone who served in the armed service knew that he might be called on to make the Supreme Sacrifice.
We can only offer them a salute."
Mike Huston- " I was home on leave the day before Rex's funeral. I want to remember the good times I had with Rex. It was the experience of a lifetime."
Denny Knapp- "1947-1994- We haven't forgotten you.
"A special thanks to Richard Wright, who has a couple of purple hearts of his own for sharing his memories and giving us permission to use his tribute for this article. I extend my gratitude for assistance and support of the Offield family; Jimmy, Harold Ray, and Ronnie, without them, this would have never been written."
.................
Obituary:
Military funeral services were held Monday, July 24 for Marine Cpl Rex Kay Offield of Jamesport,
at the Methodist Church in Jamesport at 2 p.m.
Rex was killed in Vietnam Monday, July 10 while on patrol duty near Da Nang. Death was due to head
and body wounds. Rex is the first war casualty from Jamesport in three conflicts, World War 11, Korea,
and Vietnam, and the first Vietnam casualty in Daviess County.
Brother Melvin Stanton officiated assisted by Rev. W. H. Thompson. Organ music was furnished by Mrs. Joe
Slatton and the Church of Christ singers provided the hymns.
A Marine detachment from Kansas City served as Pallbearers and provided military rites at the Brown Cemetery
In Gallatin. Hope Funeral Home of Gallatin was in charge of the services.
Lance Cpl. Rex Kaye Offield, son of Uel C. and Loretta Mae Offield was born March 7, 1947 in Jamesport, Missouri
He was killed in action on July 10, 1967 in the Republic of Vietnam at the age of 20 years, four months and
three days.
He was preceded in death by his mother on February 21, 1962. He was a graduate of the Tri-County High School,
class of 1965. He enlisted in the Marine Corps in April, 1965.
Rex is survived by his father Uel of the home, three brothers, Ronnie, of the home, Jimmie and Harold Ray of
Chillicothe, Missouri His maternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Darwin Shuler of Gallatin, two nieces, Pam and
Jenece Offield of Chillicothe.
He left numerous aunts and uncles, many cousins, and a large host of friends.
.........................
U.S., Vietnam War Military Casualties, 1956-1998
Name: Rex Kaye Offield
Birth Date: 7 Mar 1947
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Age: 20
Home City: Jamesport
Home State: Missouri
SSN/Service #: 2268690
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Casualty Country: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Service Branch: United States Marine Corps
Component: Regular (RA, USN, USAF, USMC, USCG)
Rank: Lance Corporal
Military Grade: Lance Corporal
Pay Grade: Private First Class (U.S. Army) or Airman First Class (U.S. Air Force) or Lance Corporal (U.S. Marine Corps) or Grade/Rate Abbreviations With First Column: A,C,D,F,H,S,Or T; Second Column: A; Third And Fourth Columns: Blank (U.S. Navy, U.S. Coast Guard)
Province: Military Region 1 - Quang Tin
Decoration: Not Available
CN: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Unit: M CO 3RD BN 5TH MARS
Service Occupation: Rifleman (USMC)
Data Source: Coffelt Database
As he was leaving, my cousin Janie and I stood in the driveway and waved goodbye as he drove away....both of us having the feeling that we would never see him again.
I have planted a red bud where I now live, and that tree is a reminder of those special days with Rex, as he was the brother I never had. His life was cut short, but those years he did have on this earth were full of love for his family and friends who will always remember what a gentle and caring person he was.
On a trip to Washington, D.C., in 1989, Rex's name was found on the Vietnam Memorial Wall. Panel 23E., Line 45. My thoughts at that time upon seeing "The Wall" was full of sorrow for the loss of such a wonderful young man, and for the many whose names were engraved upon row after row. never to be forgotten, that will live on in our hearts forever.
Nancy
.....................
Rex Kaye was LCPL-E3, Marine Corps-Regular, and had served his country for about a year,
and was just getting over an injury when he was called out on a patrol to search for another patrol that had not returned to camp. He was killed by a sniper, and had just turned 20 years old.
In one of the many letters he wrote home, he sent this message:
"If you can't be with the ones you love, love the ones your with".
Rex's father, Uel, had these words inscribed on his stone.
......................................
TRI-COUNTY WEEKLY- Thursday, July 11, 2002, Page 15.
"The greatest love is shown when a person lays down his life for his friends." John 15:13.
A HERO'S HERO
When you ask medal winners how it feels to be a hero, they reply with tears in their eyes and say, "the real heroes are the ones who didn't come back."
DUTY-HONOR-COUNTRY
Compiled and written by: Jim Burrow
Typed and revised by: Jessica Ehly
Rex Kaye Offield was born March 7th, 1947, the third in line of four boys who make up the family of Uel and Lauretta Offield. They were country folks who made their living toiling the soil. They taught their children the values of hard work, respect, obedience, and patriotism that were held so dearly by rural Americans.
In 1962 the Offield family lost their matriarch, forcing Rex to mature faster than most boys his age. He did his job well, balancing farm work, household duties, school, and looking after his younger brother Ronnie. Rex was the boy next door, the All-American-Boy. Since he spent his entire civilian life in the Jamesport community, graduating in the Tri-County High School, class of 1965, it gives us exclusive rights to call him one of ours.
After graduation, Rex chose to become a Marine in April, 1966, Rex left for training at the Marine Corps Recruit Deport in San Diego, California. He was full of pride, patriotism, and a sense of adventure as he boarded the plane that was to take him to San Diego. He completed boot camp and infantry training at Camp Pendleton, and then came home on leave.
On October, 7th, 1966, he boarded the ship that was to take him to Vietnam. He arrived on October 27th and was assigned to M company, 1st platoon, third battalion, fifth regiment, 1st Marine division. In a few short days, Rex became a hardened combat veteran. He frequently found himself in harms way. One December day, after being involved in several skirmishes, his unit returned to camp. That night the encampment was infiltrated by hostile forces throwing grenades into squad tents, including the one that Rex was sleeping in. He received serious wounds to his stomach and back. He was evacuated to the Air Force hospital located at Com Rana Bay. He was hospitalized for about six weeks, being treated for his wounds and shell shock. He was then released and returned to his unit.
On July 1st, Rex and company arrived on a hill about eight miles south of DaNang and started setting up camp for the battalion and regimental staff. Rex felt like they were settling in for the monsoon season. This meant that they would not have to go on many operations, and the ones they would go on would probably be less than 20 days. He was looking forward to some R&R in July, but didn't receive it. He told them they had better let him go next month or he might go AWOL.
His letters home were always about the farm-related things such as planting, equipment, crops, and the weather. In a letter to his grade school teacher he wrote, "I sure wish I was riding on a tractor seat instead of a gun stock- ha."
A small four-man security patrol was sent out on July 10th. Rex was the radioman. As they approached a bridge about 1,000 meters east of the base of camp, the enemy opened up with a heavy barrage of small arms fire. Rex was the first one hit and died instantly. Two other marines were also mortally wounded. The fourth member of the patrol made it into the water, swimming mostly underwater for 100 meters and was able to escape and work his way back to the perimeter.
At one o'clock p.m., a squad-sized patrol was sent out to find overdue Patrols. As they neared the vicinity of the bridge, they also came under heavy small arms fire. The squad called for assistance and A company was dispatched. As soon as the enemy was subdued, the company went in and found the three dead marines.
I believe we will meet again someday, extend a sincere hand-shake, pat on the back and a hug for a job well done I think he will flash that warm and friendly smile and say, "It's okay, I'm a Marine."
Richard Wright, of Polo, Missouri, reported to boot camp with Rex. They went through boot camp and ITR together. When they arrived in Vietnam they went to different units. Richard went to the third marine division, while Rex was assigned to the first division. Their lives were entwined ever since.
On July 4th, 1991, the Wall had a visitor from Polo, Missouri Richard felt compelled to visit this memorial to find the names of friends who had given their lives for their country. He was inspired to write the following tribute. He left a copy of it at Rex's grave on July 4th. It was later found by Rex's brother Ronnie.
"I took a ride on the fourth of July
To mourn friends who died so old glory could fly
I knew it would hurt, the pain would be great
It's been 25 years, it could no longer wait
Back in 1966 we were just young boys
Barely out of school, they said put away your toys
Uncle Sam needs you, we did what he said
But in the next 13 months, most would be dead
It was all so confusing, but when my friends died
I helped carry them over for their last chopper ride
We survivors were fighting, with no time to mourn
That must be why for years, our hearts have been torn
I went to the Wall, I felt so alone
I made sure your names were chiseled in stone
It's all I can offer, a flag, a rose, and love
As you and the good Lord look down from above
I'll never forget you as I'm sure you know
Because I carry you with me wherever I go"
Dedicated to Rex, Gunny, And the other 58,000
7-4-91 * Dick Wright * USMC 2212892
God bless you Rex, we remember and carry you with us in our hearts. To us you are much more than just "a name on the wall"
Acknowledgments
It was an honor and privilege to talk to the veterans of the class of 1965 and want to acknowledge their contributions to this article.
Mickey Ehly- "There's not a year that goes by that I don't visit his grave."
Jerry Pierce- " I was in Korea when word was received that Rex had been killed. It made me want to go there, and I requested a transfer."
Keith Fender- " Everyone who served in the armed service knew that he might be called on to make the Supreme Sacrifice.
We can only offer them a salute."
Mike Huston- " I was home on leave the day before Rex's funeral. I want to remember the good times I had with Rex. It was the experience of a lifetime."
Denny Knapp- "1947-1994- We haven't forgotten you.
"A special thanks to Richard Wright, who has a couple of purple hearts of his own for sharing his memories and giving us permission to use his tribute for this article. I extend my gratitude for assistance and support of the Offield family; Jimmy, Harold Ray, and Ronnie, without them, this would have never been written."
.................
Obituary:
Military funeral services were held Monday, July 24 for Marine Cpl Rex Kay Offield of Jamesport,
at the Methodist Church in Jamesport at 2 p.m.
Rex was killed in Vietnam Monday, July 10 while on patrol duty near Da Nang. Death was due to head
and body wounds. Rex is the first war casualty from Jamesport in three conflicts, World War 11, Korea,
and Vietnam, and the first Vietnam casualty in Daviess County.
Brother Melvin Stanton officiated assisted by Rev. W. H. Thompson. Organ music was furnished by Mrs. Joe
Slatton and the Church of Christ singers provided the hymns.
A Marine detachment from Kansas City served as Pallbearers and provided military rites at the Brown Cemetery
In Gallatin. Hope Funeral Home of Gallatin was in charge of the services.
Lance Cpl. Rex Kaye Offield, son of Uel C. and Loretta Mae Offield was born March 7, 1947 in Jamesport, Missouri
He was killed in action on July 10, 1967 in the Republic of Vietnam at the age of 20 years, four months and
three days.
He was preceded in death by his mother on February 21, 1962. He was a graduate of the Tri-County High School,
class of 1965. He enlisted in the Marine Corps in April, 1965.
Rex is survived by his father Uel of the home, three brothers, Ronnie, of the home, Jimmie and Harold Ray of
Chillicothe, Missouri His maternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Darwin Shuler of Gallatin, two nieces, Pam and
Jenece Offield of Chillicothe.
He left numerous aunts and uncles, many cousins, and a large host of friends.
.........................
U.S., Vietnam War Military Casualties, 1956-1998
Name: Rex Kaye Offield
Birth Date: 7 Mar 1947
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Age: 20
Home City: Jamesport
Home State: Missouri
SSN/Service #: 2268690
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Casualty Country: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Service Branch: United States Marine Corps
Component: Regular (RA, USN, USAF, USMC, USCG)
Rank: Lance Corporal
Military Grade: Lance Corporal
Pay Grade: Private First Class (U.S. Army) or Airman First Class (U.S. Air Force) or Lance Corporal (U.S. Marine Corps) or Grade/Rate Abbreviations With First Column: A,C,D,F,H,S,Or T; Second Column: A; Third And Fourth Columns: Blank (U.S. Navy, U.S. Coast Guard)
Province: Military Region 1 - Quang Tin
Decoration: Not Available
CN: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Unit: M CO 3RD BN 5TH MARS
Service Occupation: Rifleman (USMC)
Data Source: Coffelt Database
We held a going away party for Rex while he was home after completing his basic training, and I had mentioned wanting a red bud tree. We went out into the country and finally found a little sapling of a tree that he planted for me beside the house.
As he was leaving, my cousin Janie and I stood in the driveway and waved goodbye as he drove away....both of us having the feeling that we would never see him again.
I have planted a red bud where I now live, and that tree is a reminder of those special days with Rex, as he was the brother I never had. His life was cut short, but those years he did have on this earth were full of love for his family and friends who will always remember what a gentle and caring person he was.
On a trip to Washington, D.C., in 1989, Rex's name was found on the Vietnam Memorial Wall. Panel 23E., Line 45. My thoughts at that time upon seeing "The Wall" was full of sorrow for the loss of such a wonderful young man, and for the many whose names were engraved upon row after row. never to be forgotten, that will live on in our hearts forever.
Nancy
.....................
Rex Kaye was LCPL-E3, Marine Corps-Regular, and had served his country for about a year,
and was just getting over an injury when he was called out on a patrol to search for another patrol that had not returned to camp. He was killed by a sniper, and had just turned 20 years old.
In one of the many letters he wrote home, he sent this message:
"If you can't be with the ones you love, love the ones your with".
Rex's father, Uel, had these words inscribed on his stone.
......................................
TRI-COUNTY WEEKLY- Thursday, July 11, 2002, Page 15.
"The greatest love is shown when a person lays down his life for his friends." John 15:13.
A HERO'S HERO
When you ask medal winners how it feels to be a hero, they reply with tears in their eyes and say, "the real heroes are the ones who didn't come back."
DUTY-HONOR-COUNTRY
Compiled and written by: Jim Burrow
Typed and revised by: Jessica Ehly
Rex Kaye Offield was born March 7th, 1947, the third in line of four boys who make up the family of Uel and Lauretta Offield. They were country folks who made their living toiling the soil. They taught their children the values of hard work, respect, obedience, and patriotism that were held so dearly by rural Americans.
In 1962 the Offield family lost their matriarch, forcing Rex to mature faster than most boys his age. He did his job well, balancing farm work, household duties, school, and looking after his younger brother Ronnie. Rex was the boy next door, the All-American-Boy. Since he spent his entire civilian life in the Jamesport community, graduating in the Tri-County High School, class of 1965, it gives us exclusive rights to call him one of ours.
After graduation, Rex chose to become a Marine in April, 1966, Rex left for training at the Marine Corps Recruit Deport in San Diego, California. He was full of pride, patriotism, and a sense of adventure as he boarded the plane that was to take him to San Diego. He completed boot camp and infantry training at Camp Pendleton, and then came home on leave.
On October, 7th, 1966, he boarded the ship that was to take him to Vietnam. He arrived on October 27th and was assigned to M company, 1st platoon, third battalion, fifth regiment, 1st Marine division. In a few short days, Rex became a hardened combat veteran. He frequently found himself in harms way. One December day, after being involved in several skirmishes, his unit returned to camp. That night the encampment was infiltrated by hostile forces throwing grenades into squad tents, including the one that Rex was sleeping in. He received serious wounds to his stomach and back. He was evacuated to the Air Force hospital located at Com Rana Bay. He was hospitalized for about six weeks, being treated for his wounds and shell shock. He was then released and returned to his unit.
On July 1st, Rex and company arrived on a hill about eight miles south of DaNang and started setting up camp for the battalion and regimental staff. Rex felt like they were settling in for the monsoon season. This meant that they would not have to go on many operations, and the ones they would go on would probably be less than 20 days. He was looking forward to some R&R in July, but didn't receive it. He told them they had better let him go next month or he might go AWOL.
His letters home were always about the farm-related things such as planting, equipment, crops, and the weather. In a letter to his grade school teacher he wrote, "I sure wish I was riding on a tractor seat instead of a gun stock- ha."
A small four-man security patrol was sent out on July 10th. Rex was the radioman. As they approached a bridge about 1,000 meters east of the base of camp, the enemy opened up with a heavy barrage of small arms fire. Rex was the first one hit and died instantly. Two other marines were also mortally wounded. The fourth member of the patrol made it into the water, swimming mostly underwater for 100 meters and was able to escape and work his way back to the perimeter.
At one o'clock p.m., a squad-sized patrol was sent out to find overdue Patrols. As they neared the vicinity of the bridge, they also came under heavy small arms fire. The squad called for assistance and A company was dispatched. As soon as the enemy was subdued, the company went in and found the three dead marines.
I believe we will meet again someday, extend a sincere hand-shake, pat on the back and a hug for a job well done I think he will flash that warm and friendly smile and say, "It's okay, I'm a Marine."
Richard Wright, of Polo, Missouri, reported to boot camp with Rex. They went through boot camp and ITR together. When they arrived in Vietnam they went to different units. Richard went to the third marine division, while Rex was assigned to the first division. Their lives were entwined ever since.
On July 4th, 1991, the Wall had a visitor from Polo, Missouri Richard felt compelled to visit this memorial to find the names of friends who had given their lives for their country. He was inspired to write the following tribute. He left a copy of it at Rex's grave on July 4th. It was later found by Rex's brother Ronnie.
"I took a ride on the fourth of July
To mourn friends who died so old glory could fly
I knew it would hurt, the pain would be great
It's been 25 years, it could no longer wait
Back in 1966 we were just young boys
Barely out of school, they said put away your toys
Uncle Sam needs you, we did what he said
But in the next 13 months, most would be dead
It was all so confusing, but when my friends died
I helped carry them over for their last chopper ride
We survivors were fighting, with no time to mourn
That must be why for years, our hearts have been torn
I went to the Wall, I felt so alone
I made sure your names were chiseled in stone
It's all I can offer, a flag, a rose, and love
As you and the good Lord look down from above
I'll never forget you as I'm sure you know
Because I carry you with me wherever I go"
Dedicated to Rex, Gunny, And the other 58,000
7-4-91 * Dick Wright * USMC 2212892
God bless you Rex, we remember and carry you with us in our hearts. To us you are much more than just "a name on the wall"
Acknowledgments
It was an honor and privilege to talk to the veterans of the class of 1965 and want to acknowledge their contributions to this article.
Mickey Ehly- "There's not a year that goes by that I don't visit his grave."
Jerry Pierce- " I was in Korea when word was received that Rex had been killed. It made me want to go there, and I requested a transfer."
Keith Fender- " Everyone who served in the armed service knew that he might be called on to make the Supreme Sacrifice.
We can only offer them a salute."
Mike Huston- " I was home on leave the day before Rex's funeral. I want to remember the good times I had with Rex. It was the experience of a lifetime."
Denny Knapp- "1947-1994- We haven't forgotten you.
"A special thanks to Richard Wright, who has a couple of purple hearts of his own for sharing his memories and giving us permission to use his tribute for this article. I extend my gratitude for assistance and support of the Offield family; Jimmy, Harold Ray, and Ronnie, without them, this would have never been written."
.................
Obituary:
Military funeral services were held Monday, July 24 for Marine Cpl Rex Kay Offield of Jamesport,
at the Methodist Church in Jamesport at 2 p.m.
Rex was killed in Vietnam Monday, July 10 while on patrol duty near Da Nang. Death was due to head
and body wounds. Rex is the first war casualty from Jamesport in three conflicts, World War 11, Korea,
and Vietnam, and the first Vietnam casualty in Daviess County.
Brother Melvin Stanton officiated assisted by Rev. W. H. Thompson. Organ music was furnished by Mrs. Joe
Slatton and the Church of Christ singers provided the hymns.
A Marine detachment from Kansas City served as Pallbearers and provided military rites at the Brown Cemetery
In Gallatin. Hope Funeral Home of Gallatin was in charge of the services.
Lance Cpl. Rex Kaye Offield, son of Uel C. and Loretta Mae Offield was born March 7, 1947 in Jamesport, Missouri
He was killed in action on July 10, 1967 in the Republic of Vietnam at the age of 20 years, four months and
three days.
He was preceded in death by his mother on February 21, 1962. He was a graduate of the Tri-County High School,
class of 1965. He enlisted in the Marine Corps in April, 1965.
Rex is survived by his father Uel of the home, three brothers, Ronnie, of the home, Jimmie and Harold Ray of
Chillicothe, Missouri His maternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Darwin Shuler of Gallatin, two nieces, Pam and
Jenece Offield of Chillicothe.
He left numerous aunts and uncles, many cousins, and a large host of friends.
.........................
U.S., Vietnam War Military Casualties, 1956-1998
Name: Rex Kaye Offield
Birth Date: 7 Mar 1947
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Age: 20
Home City: Jamesport
Home State: Missouri
SSN/Service #: 2268690
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Casualty Country: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Service Branch: United States Marine Corps
Component: Regular (RA, USN, USAF, USMC, USCG)
Rank: Lance Corporal
Military Grade: Lance Corporal
Pay Grade: Private First Class (U.S. Army) or Airman First Class (U.S. Air Force) or Lance Corporal (U.S. Marine Corps) or Grade/Rate Abbreviations With First Column: A,C,D,F,H,S,Or T; Second Column: A; Third And Fourth Columns: Blank (U.S. Navy, U.S. Coast Guard)
Province: Military Region 1 - Quang Tin
Decoration: Not Available
CN: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Unit: M CO 3RD BN 5TH MARS
Service Occupation: Rifleman (USMC)
Data Source: Coffelt Database
As he was leaving, my cousin Janie and I stood in the driveway and waved goodbye as he drove away....both of us having the feeling that we would never see him again.
I have planted a red bud where I now live, and that tree is a reminder of those special days with Rex, as he was the brother I never had. His life was cut short, but those years he did have on this earth were full of love for his family and friends who will always remember what a gentle and caring person he was.
On a trip to Washington, D.C., in 1989, Rex's name was found on the Vietnam Memorial Wall. Panel 23E., Line 45. My thoughts at that time upon seeing "The Wall" was full of sorrow for the loss of such a wonderful young man, and for the many whose names were engraved upon row after row. never to be forgotten, that will live on in our hearts forever.
Nancy
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Rex Kaye was LCPL-E3, Marine Corps-Regular, and had served his country for about a year,
and was just getting over an injury when he was called out on a patrol to search for another patrol that had not returned to camp. He was killed by a sniper, and had just turned 20 years old.
In one of the many letters he wrote home, he sent this message:
"If you can't be with the ones you love, love the ones your with".
Rex's father, Uel, had these words inscribed on his stone.
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TRI-COUNTY WEEKLY- Thursday, July 11, 2002, Page 15.
"The greatest love is shown when a person lays down his life for his friends." John 15:13.
A HERO'S HERO
When you ask medal winners how it feels to be a hero, they reply with tears in their eyes and say, "the real heroes are the ones who didn't come back."
DUTY-HONOR-COUNTRY
Compiled and written by: Jim Burrow
Typed and revised by: Jessica Ehly
Rex Kaye Offield was born March 7th, 1947, the third in line of four boys who make up the family of Uel and Lauretta Offield. They were country folks who made their living toiling the soil. They taught their children the values of hard work, respect, obedience, and patriotism that were held so dearly by rural Americans.
In 1962 the Offield family lost their matriarch, forcing Rex to mature faster than most boys his age. He did his job well, balancing farm work, household duties, school, and looking after his younger brother Ronnie. Rex was the boy next door, the All-American-Boy. Since he spent his entire civilian life in the Jamesport community, graduating in the Tri-County High School, class of 1965, it gives us exclusive rights to call him one of ours.
After graduation, Rex chose to become a Marine in April, 1966, Rex left for training at the Marine Corps Recruit Deport in San Diego, California. He was full of pride, patriotism, and a sense of adventure as he boarded the plane that was to take him to San Diego. He completed boot camp and infantry training at Camp Pendleton, and then came home on leave.
On October, 7th, 1966, he boarded the ship that was to take him to Vietnam. He arrived on October 27th and was assigned to M company, 1st platoon, third battalion, fifth regiment, 1st Marine division. In a few short days, Rex became a hardened combat veteran. He frequently found himself in harms way. One December day, after being involved in several skirmishes, his unit returned to camp. That night the encampment was infiltrated by hostile forces throwing grenades into squad tents, including the one that Rex was sleeping in. He received serious wounds to his stomach and back. He was evacuated to the Air Force hospital located at Com Rana Bay. He was hospitalized for about six weeks, being treated for his wounds and shell shock. He was then released and returned to his unit.
On July 1st, Rex and company arrived on a hill about eight miles south of DaNang and started setting up camp for the battalion and regimental staff. Rex felt like they were settling in for the monsoon season. This meant that they would not have to go on many operations, and the ones they would go on would probably be less than 20 days. He was looking forward to some R&R in July, but didn't receive it. He told them they had better let him go next month or he might go AWOL.
His letters home were always about the farm-related things such as planting, equipment, crops, and the weather. In a letter to his grade school teacher he wrote, "I sure wish I was riding on a tractor seat instead of a gun stock- ha."
A small four-man security patrol was sent out on July 10th. Rex was the radioman. As they approached a bridge about 1,000 meters east of the base of camp, the enemy opened up with a heavy barrage of small arms fire. Rex was the first one hit and died instantly. Two other marines were also mortally wounded. The fourth member of the patrol made it into the water, swimming mostly underwater for 100 meters and was able to escape and work his way back to the perimeter.
At one o'clock p.m., a squad-sized patrol was sent out to find overdue Patrols. As they neared the vicinity of the bridge, they also came under heavy small arms fire. The squad called for assistance and A company was dispatched. As soon as the enemy was subdued, the company went in and found the three dead marines.
I believe we will meet again someday, extend a sincere hand-shake, pat on the back and a hug for a job well done I think he will flash that warm and friendly smile and say, "It's okay, I'm a Marine."
Richard Wright, of Polo, Missouri, reported to boot camp with Rex. They went through boot camp and ITR together. When they arrived in Vietnam they went to different units. Richard went to the third marine division, while Rex was assigned to the first division. Their lives were entwined ever since.
On July 4th, 1991, the Wall had a visitor from Polo, Missouri Richard felt compelled to visit this memorial to find the names of friends who had given their lives for their country. He was inspired to write the following tribute. He left a copy of it at Rex's grave on July 4th. It was later found by Rex's brother Ronnie.
"I took a ride on the fourth of July
To mourn friends who died so old glory could fly
I knew it would hurt, the pain would be great
It's been 25 years, it could no longer wait
Back in 1966 we were just young boys
Barely out of school, they said put away your toys
Uncle Sam needs you, we did what he said
But in the next 13 months, most would be dead
It was all so confusing, but when my friends died
I helped carry them over for their last chopper ride
We survivors were fighting, with no time to mourn
That must be why for years, our hearts have been torn
I went to the Wall, I felt so alone
I made sure your names were chiseled in stone
It's all I can offer, a flag, a rose, and love
As you and the good Lord look down from above
I'll never forget you as I'm sure you know
Because I carry you with me wherever I go"
Dedicated to Rex, Gunny, And the other 58,000
7-4-91 * Dick Wright * USMC 2212892
God bless you Rex, we remember and carry you with us in our hearts. To us you are much more than just "a name on the wall"
Acknowledgments
It was an honor and privilege to talk to the veterans of the class of 1965 and want to acknowledge their contributions to this article.
Mickey Ehly- "There's not a year that goes by that I don't visit his grave."
Jerry Pierce- " I was in Korea when word was received that Rex had been killed. It made me want to go there, and I requested a transfer."
Keith Fender- " Everyone who served in the armed service knew that he might be called on to make the Supreme Sacrifice.
We can only offer them a salute."
Mike Huston- " I was home on leave the day before Rex's funeral. I want to remember the good times I had with Rex. It was the experience of a lifetime."
Denny Knapp- "1947-1994- We haven't forgotten you.
"A special thanks to Richard Wright, who has a couple of purple hearts of his own for sharing his memories and giving us permission to use his tribute for this article. I extend my gratitude for assistance and support of the Offield family; Jimmy, Harold Ray, and Ronnie, without them, this would have never been written."
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Obituary:
Military funeral services were held Monday, July 24 for Marine Cpl Rex Kay Offield of Jamesport,
at the Methodist Church in Jamesport at 2 p.m.
Rex was killed in Vietnam Monday, July 10 while on patrol duty near Da Nang. Death was due to head
and body wounds. Rex is the first war casualty from Jamesport in three conflicts, World War 11, Korea,
and Vietnam, and the first Vietnam casualty in Daviess County.
Brother Melvin Stanton officiated assisted by Rev. W. H. Thompson. Organ music was furnished by Mrs. Joe
Slatton and the Church of Christ singers provided the hymns.
A Marine detachment from Kansas City served as Pallbearers and provided military rites at the Brown Cemetery
In Gallatin. Hope Funeral Home of Gallatin was in charge of the services.
Lance Cpl. Rex Kaye Offield, son of Uel C. and Loretta Mae Offield was born March 7, 1947 in Jamesport, Missouri
He was killed in action on July 10, 1967 in the Republic of Vietnam at the age of 20 years, four months and
three days.
He was preceded in death by his mother on February 21, 1962. He was a graduate of the Tri-County High School,
class of 1965. He enlisted in the Marine Corps in April, 1965.
Rex is survived by his father Uel of the home, three brothers, Ronnie, of the home, Jimmie and Harold Ray of
Chillicothe, Missouri His maternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Darwin Shuler of Gallatin, two nieces, Pam and
Jenece Offield of Chillicothe.
He left numerous aunts and uncles, many cousins, and a large host of friends.
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U.S., Vietnam War Military Casualties, 1956-1998
Name: Rex Kaye Offield
Birth Date: 7 Mar 1947
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Age: 20
Home City: Jamesport
Home State: Missouri
SSN/Service #: 2268690
Death Date: 10 Jul 1967
Casualty Country: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Service Branch: United States Marine Corps
Component: Regular (RA, USN, USAF, USMC, USCG)
Rank: Lance Corporal
Military Grade: Lance Corporal
Pay Grade: Private First Class (U.S. Army) or Airman First Class (U.S. Air Force) or Lance Corporal (U.S. Marine Corps) or Grade/Rate Abbreviations With First Column: A,C,D,F,H,S,Or T; Second Column: A; Third And Fourth Columns: Blank (U.S. Navy, U.S. Coast Guard)
Province: Military Region 1 - Quang Tin
Decoration: Not Available
CN: Republic of Vietnam (South Vietnam)
Unit: M CO 3RD BN 5TH MARS
Service Occupation: Rifleman (USMC)
Data Source: Coffelt Database
Inscription
Son - L/Cpl. 1st Marine Div. Vietnam - Purple Heart - Killed in Action
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