Alexandra Ann “Allie” Cibulas

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Alexandra Ann “Allie” Cibulas

Birth
Death
24 Sep 2001 (aged 5)
Burial
Ann Arbor, Washtenaw County, Michigan, USA Add to Map
Plot
Block 14 Lot 53
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In the vast tapestry of life, some threads shine so brightly that even if they are brief, their radiance endures through the darkest hours. Alexandra Ann "Allie" Cibulas, with her infectious smile, cherubic giggles, and ever-present bow, was one such luminous thread that graced this world for a brief, yet unforgettable time.

Born on July 31, 1996, Allie Cibulas's vivacity was evident from a young age. Whether it was the twirl of a dance, the thrill of dress-up, or the simple joys of preschool and playdates, Allie embraced life with open arms. As the middle child of three sisters, she brought a special blend of warmth and zest that imprinted on the hearts of all who knew her.

Yet, fate sometimes has a strange way of testing the bravest of souls. At the tender age of 4½, Allie was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor. For many, such a revelation would be an insurmountable mountain. But Allie was different. Through surgeries, treatments, and the myriad challenges that come with battling cancer, she displayed a resilience that belied her years. The absence of complaints, the quiet courage with which she faced every obstacle, and her relentless spirit of hope were nothing short of extraordinary. Even in the face of adversity, Allie continued to be a beacon of joy.

Tragically, in September 2001, Allie's journey on this earthly realm ended. But as the saying goes, "stars that burn twice as bright, burn half as long." In her brief time, Allie left an indelible mark, a legacy that inspired the creation of the Allie's Angels Foundation.

The foundation, a testament to Allie's enduring spirit, seeks not just to further research into pediatric brain cancer, but to also provide 'mini-wishes' to children battling the shadow of cancer. By transforming the pain of loss into a force for good, the foundation serves as a beacon of hope, echoing Allie's spirit and determination.

Stories of community involvement further underscore the reach of Allie's legacy. For instance, Forest Elementary School students, in a heartwarming gesture, rallied to raise funds for Allie's Angels, bringing to life the nationwide event, 'Make a Difference Day'. This event, spearheaded by people like Kim Galea, who proposed the fundraising due to a personal connection with Allie's family, showcases the expansive ripple effect of Allie's influence. Galea's words provide a profound reflection: by engaging in charitable acts, children can begin to "realize how lucky they are if they can see somebody who fights every day to just survive."

Kimberly Austin, Allie's former babysitter and an executive board member of Allie's Angels, serves as a living testament to the impact Allie had on those around her. Through her engagement with students and sharing stories about Allie, she not only educates but also inspires young souls to make a positive difference.

Caroline Cibulas, Allie's sister, who was merely a toddler when tragedy struck, has grown to be an embodiment of the foundation's spirit. Working in the same ward where Allie was treated, Caroline's commitment to Allie's Angels showcases the enduring nature of familial bonds and the ways in which love can transmute pain into purpose.

A striking example of the foundation's heartwarming gestures can be seen in the way a canceled wedding cake was transformed into 180 cupcakes for children at C.S. Mott Children's Hospital. Such gestures, though seemingly small, echo Sandy Cibulas', Allie's mother, sentiment: "Little things make such a big difference." Indeed, they do.

Allie's mother, Sandy, recalls a touching memory of the 'fairy spray' she had made for Allie during her stay at the hospital. This simple gesture had a profound effect, turning moments of fear into instances of wonder. Such anecdotes are reminders that in the grand scheme of life, it is often the smallest acts that carry the most significant impact.

In a world often dominated by vast narratives, it is stories like Allie's that remind us of the transformative power of love, resilience, and hope. Allie's life, though brief, was filled with moments of joy, laughter, and immense strength. Through the Allie's Angels Foundation, her spirit continues to inspire, touch lives, and light up the world.

In memory of Allie, let us remember not just the tragedy of her untimely departure, but more importantly, the brilliance of her life and the legacy she left behind. Let us be inspired to look beyond our struggles, to find strength in adversity, and to always remember that even in the darkest moments, there are stories of hope, resilience, and undying love, just like Allie's.

Written by: Alan Owen
In the vast tapestry of life, some threads shine so brightly that even if they are brief, their radiance endures through the darkest hours. Alexandra Ann "Allie" Cibulas, with her infectious smile, cherubic giggles, and ever-present bow, was one such luminous thread that graced this world for a brief, yet unforgettable time.

Born on July 31, 1996, Allie Cibulas's vivacity was evident from a young age. Whether it was the twirl of a dance, the thrill of dress-up, or the simple joys of preschool and playdates, Allie embraced life with open arms. As the middle child of three sisters, she brought a special blend of warmth and zest that imprinted on the hearts of all who knew her.

Yet, fate sometimes has a strange way of testing the bravest of souls. At the tender age of 4½, Allie was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor. For many, such a revelation would be an insurmountable mountain. But Allie was different. Through surgeries, treatments, and the myriad challenges that come with battling cancer, she displayed a resilience that belied her years. The absence of complaints, the quiet courage with which she faced every obstacle, and her relentless spirit of hope were nothing short of extraordinary. Even in the face of adversity, Allie continued to be a beacon of joy.

Tragically, in September 2001, Allie's journey on this earthly realm ended. But as the saying goes, "stars that burn twice as bright, burn half as long." In her brief time, Allie left an indelible mark, a legacy that inspired the creation of the Allie's Angels Foundation.

The foundation, a testament to Allie's enduring spirit, seeks not just to further research into pediatric brain cancer, but to also provide 'mini-wishes' to children battling the shadow of cancer. By transforming the pain of loss into a force for good, the foundation serves as a beacon of hope, echoing Allie's spirit and determination.

Stories of community involvement further underscore the reach of Allie's legacy. For instance, Forest Elementary School students, in a heartwarming gesture, rallied to raise funds for Allie's Angels, bringing to life the nationwide event, 'Make a Difference Day'. This event, spearheaded by people like Kim Galea, who proposed the fundraising due to a personal connection with Allie's family, showcases the expansive ripple effect of Allie's influence. Galea's words provide a profound reflection: by engaging in charitable acts, children can begin to "realize how lucky they are if they can see somebody who fights every day to just survive."

Kimberly Austin, Allie's former babysitter and an executive board member of Allie's Angels, serves as a living testament to the impact Allie had on those around her. Through her engagement with students and sharing stories about Allie, she not only educates but also inspires young souls to make a positive difference.

Caroline Cibulas, Allie's sister, who was merely a toddler when tragedy struck, has grown to be an embodiment of the foundation's spirit. Working in the same ward where Allie was treated, Caroline's commitment to Allie's Angels showcases the enduring nature of familial bonds and the ways in which love can transmute pain into purpose.

A striking example of the foundation's heartwarming gestures can be seen in the way a canceled wedding cake was transformed into 180 cupcakes for children at C.S. Mott Children's Hospital. Such gestures, though seemingly small, echo Sandy Cibulas', Allie's mother, sentiment: "Little things make such a big difference." Indeed, they do.

Allie's mother, Sandy, recalls a touching memory of the 'fairy spray' she had made for Allie during her stay at the hospital. This simple gesture had a profound effect, turning moments of fear into instances of wonder. Such anecdotes are reminders that in the grand scheme of life, it is often the smallest acts that carry the most significant impact.

In a world often dominated by vast narratives, it is stories like Allie's that remind us of the transformative power of love, resilience, and hope. Allie's life, though brief, was filled with moments of joy, laughter, and immense strength. Through the Allie's Angels Foundation, her spirit continues to inspire, touch lives, and light up the world.

In memory of Allie, let us remember not just the tragedy of her untimely departure, but more importantly, the brilliance of her life and the legacy she left behind. Let us be inspired to look beyond our struggles, to find strength in adversity, and to always remember that even in the darkest moments, there are stories of hope, resilience, and undying love, just like Allie's.

Written by: Alan Owen