Bette Brand went to her heavenly home on Tuesday, October 12th at the age of 92, surrounded by her family. Bette was born on September 24, 1930, in rural Fairmont, North Dakota, the daughter of William and Anna Spellerberg. Bette was raised on the family farm with her two brothers and three sisters.
Known as the lady with nine lives, let us tell you what was so special about our incredible mother and grandmother.
When you heard her big laugh you couldn't help but laugh, too. Banter was one of her love languages. Her wit and timely one-liners made us chuckle. Time at the lakes defined many memorable moments with Mom/Grandma. She made the lake place a second home for all -- games of cards, home-cooked meals, tending her yard, feeding her hummingbirds, playing kickball, and taking the pontoon around the lake. We lovingly gave her the nickname "Sparky" for all the accidental fires she started. Her savvy card-playing made us think; we learned to count our cards and let her cut the deck. Her children and grandchildren will continue playing cards and fondly remember the many games playing with the Queen of Hearts.
Most special of all was her love, which had such a profound impact on us all. With her loving guidance, she supported and nurtured us. Her love for her family was evident in everything she did - the quality time, encouraging words, and hugs made our days brighter.
She loved Jesus, and she showed us in meaningful ways what love looks like. She prayed for each one of us through our peaks and valleys. Her faith gave us hope, and we grew closer to God because of her example.
Though Bette's health wavered through the years, her optimism and spark didn't. She had numerous healthcare supports, including Kinder Care and Sanford Hospice who gave devoted, personal care, and each one became an extension of family. We thank you for your loving support of our mom.
Dear Mom and Grandma, we will miss you every day. Thank you for loving us so deeply and genuinely; so much of who we all are is because of your love for us, and we are forever changed and better.
She is survived by her children, Sandy (Rich), Barb (Dale), Jay, Bruce (Mary), Susie (Steve), and Nancy (Dave); 16 grandchildren; 21 great-grandchildren; sisters, Marianne and Dolly; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Bette was preceded in death by her husbands, Elwood and Jerry; her two eldest sons, Jeff and Doug; daughter-in-law Deb; great granddaughter, Adley Anne; and other family members.
Interment in Holy Cross Cemetery - North Fargo.
Source: West Funeral Home & Life Tribute Center ~ Added by Mary Hammill Rund 3 Nov 2023
Known as the lady with nine lives, let us tell you what was so special about our incredible mother and grandmother.
When you heard her big laugh you couldn't help but laugh, too. Banter was one of her love languages. Her wit and timely one-liners made us chuckle. Time at the lakes defined many memorable moments with Mom/Grandma. She made the lake place a second home for all -- games of cards, home-cooked meals, tending her yard, feeding her hummingbirds, playing kickball, and taking the pontoon around the lake. We lovingly gave her the nickname "Sparky" for all the accidental fires she started. Her savvy card-playing made us think; we learned to count our cards and let her cut the deck. Her children and grandchildren will continue playing cards and fondly remember the many games playing with the Queen of Hearts.
Most special of all was her love, which had such a profound impact on us all. With her loving guidance, she supported and nurtured us. Her love for her family was evident in everything she did - the quality time, encouraging words, and hugs made our days brighter.
She loved Jesus, and she showed us in meaningful ways what love looks like. She prayed for each one of us through our peaks and valleys. Her faith gave us hope, and we grew closer to God because of her example.
Though Bette's health wavered through the years, her optimism and spark didn't. She had numerous healthcare supports, including Kinder Care and Sanford Hospice who gave devoted, personal care, and each one became an extension of family. We thank you for your loving support of our mom.
Dear Mom and Grandma, we will miss you every day. Thank you for loving us so deeply and genuinely; so much of who we all are is because of your love for us, and we are forever changed and better.
She is survived by her children, Sandy (Rich), Barb (Dale), Jay, Bruce (Mary), Susie (Steve), and Nancy (Dave); 16 grandchildren; 21 great-grandchildren; sisters, Marianne and Dolly; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Bette was preceded in death by her husbands, Elwood and Jerry; her two eldest sons, Jeff and Doug; daughter-in-law Deb; great granddaughter, Adley Anne; and other family members.
Interment in Holy Cross Cemetery - North Fargo.
Source: West Funeral Home & Life Tribute Center ~ Added by Mary Hammill Rund 3 Nov 2023
Bette Brand went to her heavenly home on Tuesday, October 12th at the age of 92, surrounded by her family. Bette was born on September 24, 1930, in rural Fairmont, North Dakota, the daughter of William and Anna Spellerberg. Bette was raised on the family farm with her two brothers and three sisters.
Known as the lady with nine lives, let us tell you what was so special about our incredible mother and grandmother.
When you heard her big laugh you couldn't help but laugh, too. Banter was one of her love languages. Her wit and timely one-liners made us chuckle. Time at the lakes defined many memorable moments with Mom/Grandma. She made the lake place a second home for all -- games of cards, home-cooked meals, tending her yard, feeding her hummingbirds, playing kickball, and taking the pontoon around the lake. We lovingly gave her the nickname "Sparky" for all the accidental fires she started. Her savvy card-playing made us think; we learned to count our cards and let her cut the deck. Her children and grandchildren will continue playing cards and fondly remember the many games playing with the Queen of Hearts.
Most special of all was her love, which had such a profound impact on us all. With her loving guidance, she supported and nurtured us. Her love for her family was evident in everything she did - the quality time, encouraging words, and hugs made our days brighter.
She loved Jesus, and she showed us in meaningful ways what love looks like. She prayed for each one of us through our peaks and valleys. Her faith gave us hope, and we grew closer to God because of her example.
Though Bette's health wavered through the years, her optimism and spark didn't. She had numerous healthcare supports, including Kinder Care and Sanford Hospice who gave devoted, personal care, and each one became an extension of family. We thank you for your loving support of our mom.
Dear Mom and Grandma, we will miss you every day. Thank you for loving us so deeply and genuinely; so much of who we all are is because of your love for us, and we are forever changed and better.
She is survived by her children, Sandy (Rich), Barb (Dale), Jay, Bruce (Mary), Susie (Steve), and Nancy (Dave); 16 grandchildren; 21 great-grandchildren; sisters, Marianne and Dolly; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Bette was preceded in death by her husbands, Elwood and Jerry; her two eldest sons, Jeff and Doug; daughter-in-law Deb; great granddaughter, Adley Anne; and other family members.
Interment in Holy Cross Cemetery - North Fargo.
Source: West Funeral Home & Life Tribute Center ~ Added by Mary Hammill Rund 3 Nov 2023
Known as the lady with nine lives, let us tell you what was so special about our incredible mother and grandmother.
When you heard her big laugh you couldn't help but laugh, too. Banter was one of her love languages. Her wit and timely one-liners made us chuckle. Time at the lakes defined many memorable moments with Mom/Grandma. She made the lake place a second home for all -- games of cards, home-cooked meals, tending her yard, feeding her hummingbirds, playing kickball, and taking the pontoon around the lake. We lovingly gave her the nickname "Sparky" for all the accidental fires she started. Her savvy card-playing made us think; we learned to count our cards and let her cut the deck. Her children and grandchildren will continue playing cards and fondly remember the many games playing with the Queen of Hearts.
Most special of all was her love, which had such a profound impact on us all. With her loving guidance, she supported and nurtured us. Her love for her family was evident in everything she did - the quality time, encouraging words, and hugs made our days brighter.
She loved Jesus, and she showed us in meaningful ways what love looks like. She prayed for each one of us through our peaks and valleys. Her faith gave us hope, and we grew closer to God because of her example.
Though Bette's health wavered through the years, her optimism and spark didn't. She had numerous healthcare supports, including Kinder Care and Sanford Hospice who gave devoted, personal care, and each one became an extension of family. We thank you for your loving support of our mom.
Dear Mom and Grandma, we will miss you every day. Thank you for loving us so deeply and genuinely; so much of who we all are is because of your love for us, and we are forever changed and better.
She is survived by her children, Sandy (Rich), Barb (Dale), Jay, Bruce (Mary), Susie (Steve), and Nancy (Dave); 16 grandchildren; 21 great-grandchildren; sisters, Marianne and Dolly; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Bette was preceded in death by her husbands, Elwood and Jerry; her two eldest sons, Jeff and Doug; daughter-in-law Deb; great granddaughter, Adley Anne; and other family members.
Interment in Holy Cross Cemetery - North Fargo.
Source: West Funeral Home & Life Tribute Center ~ Added by Mary Hammill Rund 3 Nov 2023
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