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Diane Marie <I>D'Amato</I> Urban
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Diane Marie D'Amato Urban

Birth
Queens, Queens County, New York, USA
Death
11 Sep 2001 (aged 50)
Financial District, New York County, New York, USA
Monument
Manhattan, New York County, New York, USA GPS-Latitude: 40.7110056, Longitude: -74.0128167
Plot
Panel S-47
Memorial ID
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She was from Malverne and worked as a supervisor for the New York State Department of Taxation and Finance in the South Tower.

It was her best trait and her worst. She said what she thought, whether you wanted to hear it or not. The habit was so well known that a relative suggested at her memorial service that they all get T-shirts saying, "Diane Urban Told Me Off."

Sometimes the target of her sharp tongue was an underperforming subordinate at the New York State Department of Taxation, where she rose to No. 2 in the income tax division. Sometimes it was her superiors. Once, she told them she was sick of training accountants only to have them leave for better salaries. She said, "If I wanted to be a teacher, I would have been one."

Diane tested the patience of her sister, Terry Corio, who withdrew from their relationship for a few years, drained by her truth-telling. She never backed down. She was a pistol.

But the sisters always loved each other and reunited in 2000. Diane had recently realized her dream of buying a home on Long Island, not far from her sister and brother-in-law. The sisters had their nails done together, recently splurging an extra $5 to have tiny flowers painted on their wine-colored toes. They were looking forward to pizza and rented movies on Saturday nights this winter.
She was from Malverne and worked as a supervisor for the New York State Department of Taxation and Finance in the South Tower.

It was her best trait and her worst. She said what she thought, whether you wanted to hear it or not. The habit was so well known that a relative suggested at her memorial service that they all get T-shirts saying, "Diane Urban Told Me Off."

Sometimes the target of her sharp tongue was an underperforming subordinate at the New York State Department of Taxation, where she rose to No. 2 in the income tax division. Sometimes it was her superiors. Once, she told them she was sick of training accountants only to have them leave for better salaries. She said, "If I wanted to be a teacher, I would have been one."

Diane tested the patience of her sister, Terry Corio, who withdrew from their relationship for a few years, drained by her truth-telling. She never backed down. She was a pistol.

But the sisters always loved each other and reunited in 2000. Diane had recently realized her dream of buying a home on Long Island, not far from her sister and brother-in-law. The sisters had their nails done together, recently splurging an extra $5 to have tiny flowers painted on their wine-colored toes. They were looking forward to pizza and rented movies on Saturday nights this winter.

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  • Maintained by: Incog
  • Originally Created by: Erik Lander
  • Added: Sep 27, 2001
  • Find a Grave Memorial ID:
  • Find a Grave, database and images (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/5806620/diane_marie-urban: accessed ), memorial page for Diane Marie D'Amato Urban (1 May 1951–11 Sep 2001), Find a Grave Memorial ID 5806620, citing National September 11 Memorial, Manhattan, New York County, New York, USA; Maintained by Incog (contributor 50974938).