My mom
Lela Mae Talley
June 8, 1944 - April 10, 2015
Lela Mae Talley, born June 8, 1944 to Daniel David Maddox and Mary Ellen Beavers has gone to meet her Lord and Savior on April 10, 2015.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward Maddox, who loved Lela as her own daughter.
She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after 24 years of service. She dedicated her life to working with adults with disabilities. It was her greatest passion and pleasure to serve them.
She is preceded in death by both mothers and her father. Lela is survived by her husband of 51 years Stanley (Bud) Presley Talley, her 3 children Elizabeth (Libby) Lela Talley, Deborah (Debbie) Kay Talley and fiancé Darrell (Dave) David Campbell, Stanley (Stan) Brian Talley and wife Melody Talley all of Conway. Two granddaughters Megan Lela Farnum and Haley Lynn Bryant both of Conway. She is also survived by her brother Daniel David Maddox Jr. and his wife Linda Maddox of Quitman.
Visitation will be Sunday from 6:00-8:00p.m. at Roller McNutt Funeral Home. Funeral Service will be Monday April 13, 2015 at 1:00p.m. in the Funeral Home Chapel.
Following the service the family will gather at the home of Bobby and Sue Scroggins located at 4965 Prestonwood Rd. Conway, AR. 72034
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Arkansas Hospice at 2200 Fort Roots Dr. Little Rock, AR. 72114 and The Arkansas Alzheimer’s Association at 10411 W. Markham St. Suite 130 Little Rock, AR. 72205.
Lela Mae Talley, 70, a lifelong resident of Conway, Arkansas has gone to be with her Lord and Savior.
She was born in Conway on June 8, 1944 and graduated from Conway High School. Her parents were Daniel David Maddox, Sr. and Mary Ellen Beavers.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward, who loved Lela as her own daughter. She is preceded in death by both of her mothers and her father.
On May 21, 1964 Lela married the love of her life, Stanley "Bud" Talley. She also loved her dog - Max, and her cats - Sam, Lyn, and Blacky. She was a member of Harvest Church of the Nazarene, but also attended Bible Baptist Church. When she could no longer be a part of a congregation she enjoyed watching Pulaski Heights Methodist Church on the television. She was an avid Democrat all of her life. She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after working there for over 24 years. Before there she worked for quite some time at Tiffany Stand & Furniture. Her first job was SAS Shoe Factory. She collected owls. She also loved angels, fairies, children, and flowers.
Lela is survived by her husband; her children, Elizabeth "Libby" Lela Talley, Debbie Talley and fiance', Dave Campbell, and Stan Talley (Melody), all of Conway; a granddaughter, Megan Lela Farnum and boyfriend, Jake Campbell of Conway; and a brother, Daniel David Maddox, Jr. (Linda) of Quitman.
Lela's stepmother: Ruby Alma Ward Maddox #3112963
My mom ( Lela Mae Talley) is near the end of her life. I think she's lived a wonderful life. Of course I only know of the stories about her before I was born and when I was little, but the woman I know as mom is a great and wonderful woman. She was always strong, courageous, caring, generous with her time and energy, loving, ect. I can tell you many examples of each of those adjectives.
Now she's in a semi-comatose state. She's in the last stages of Alzheimer's that has taken her quality of life for so many years. We've done the best we could and are doing the best we can with keeping her happy and comfortable. For the most part I really think that she has been. I think after the facade of society faded away, the real person who I grew to love even more came out. She had me laughing almost every day, even the days I did cry in frustration and sadness, somehow she still made me laugh. She would tell everyone, even people she just met, how much she loved them and the people around her the most she'd say it and show it even more. She loved to hug, I still hug her. Somehow I know she's hugging me in a way that is different now, but still a hug. Mostly she's been a joy to take care of.
Yesterday really hit me hard. For over a year a now mom and I would sing Amazing Grace. When mom would get distracted or feel agitated, I would start singing it and most of the time she'd sing along. Erik, the Arkansas Hospice chaplain, visited he sang Amazing Grace to her. For the first time she didn't sing back. That just broke my heart to pieces. It made me realize just how close to her time it is. I truly think it broke his heart, too, he was having a difficult time keeping it together as he left.
I haven't put anything on here because each time I've started to I would start crying, which made it difficult to see, for one, but also gives me a headache so I would just go to bed. My dad and I are worn out. I saw my diabetic doctor last week and she immediately noticed in my body language and the lines in my face just how much caring for mom as much as I have has effected me. But, I wouldn't change it for the world. I haven't had much time to be on the computer in a long while. I leave around 5:30AM and get home after 8PM. By then I'm just too tired to turn on the computer and get in front of it. I turn the tv on, but it's not on for long because I'm soon asleep. I'm only up at this time, even as tired as I am (every nerve in my body is aching and screaming in pain), because I haven't had a chance to wash and dry clothes in over a week so I'm doing that. I figure this will keep me somewhat awake while the washing machine and dryer are working. After the last load, I'm just going to bed, though.
Dad, Stanley Bud Talley, is having a difficult time with my mom's transition. Last night he and I had our last class on Alzheimer's. It was on the subject of last rites, last wishes, comfort, and the end of life signs. I found it ironic, actually, that was the subject. Today the hospice nurse talked with dad about the same thing, but she added some thing that were said last night in class. Then she gave dad a book about it. I think he's slowly realizing, though, that he's got to accept what is going on with mom. I think she's holding on because of dad not yet accepting her passing. I told her yesterday that I hope and pray that she has a peacefully passing. And, I really do. This might seem harsh, but to me she's just suffering while she's waiting on whatever it is she's waiting on.
Before I go I just want to say that it seems as if my mom has a spirit or some other worldly being helping her. Dad and I know it's not their dog, Max, and that it's not any of the cats doing it. There have been a few times when the tv has turned on when no one else was in the room and mom's lamp on her table turns on and off on its own. I just find that interesting and pretty cool. BTW, on Saturday my dad and I took Max to the vet, it ends up that Max is depressed and has arthritis.
-Libby Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this past week.
My dear sweet mother has had a stroke. Many of you know of her battle with Alzheimer. She is now bed fast and totally dependent on us for her care. I was totally dependent on her complete care and attention at one time. Now it is time to show her the same dignity and respect. We are keeping her as comfortable as possible. Every now and then she will smile, laugh, or a tear will roll down her cheek. She has always been a loving, caring and giving person. She dedicated much of her life working with disabled adults. My dad Stanley Bud Talley is having a very hard time with this. He has spent more than half of his life loving her. She is a very special person to us and to many of you. Please keep her in your prayers.
-Debbie Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this week.
Lela Mae Talley
June 8, 1944 - April 10, 2015
Lela Mae Talley, born June 8, 1944 to Daniel David Maddox and Mary Ellen Beavers has gone to meet her Lord and Savior on April 10, 2015.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward Maddox, who loved Lela as her own daughter.
She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after 24 years of service. She dedicated her life to working with adults with disabilities. It was her greatest passion and pleasure to serve them.
She is preceded in death by both mothers and her father. Lela is survived by her husband of 51 years Stanley (Bud) Presley Talley, her 3 children Elizabeth (Libby) Lela Talley, Deborah (Debbie) Kay Talley and fiancé Darrell (Dave) David Campbell, Stanley (Stan) Brian Talley and wife Melody Talley all of Conway. Two granddaughters Megan Lela Farnum and Haley Lynn Bryant both of Conway. She is also survived by her brother Daniel David Maddox Jr. and his wife Linda Maddox of Quitman.
Visitation will be Sunday from 6:00-8:00p.m. at Roller McNutt Funeral Home. Funeral Service will be Monday April 13, 2015 at 1:00p.m. in the Funeral Home Chapel.
Following the service the family will gather at the home of Bobby and Sue Scroggins located at 4965 Prestonwood Rd. Conway, AR. 72034
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Arkansas Hospice at 2200 Fort Roots Dr. Little Rock, AR. 72114 and The Arkansas Alzheimer’s Association at 10411 W. Markham St. Suite 130 Little Rock, AR. 72205.
Lela Mae Talley, 70, a lifelong resident of Conway, Arkansas has gone to be with her Lord and Savior.
She was born in Conway on June 8, 1944 and graduated from Conway High School. Her parents were Daniel David Maddox, Sr. and Mary Ellen Beavers.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward, who loved Lela as her own daughter. She is preceded in death by both of her mothers and her father.
On May 21, 1964 Lela married the love of her life, Stanley "Bud" Talley. She also loved her dog - Max, and her cats - Sam, Lyn, and Blacky. She was a member of Harvest Church of the Nazarene, but also attended Bible Baptist Church. When she could no longer be a part of a congregation she enjoyed watching Pulaski Heights Methodist Church on the television. She was an avid Democrat all of her life. She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after working there for over 24 years. Before there she worked for quite some time at Tiffany Stand & Furniture. Her first job was SAS Shoe Factory. She collected owls. She also loved angels, fairies, children, and flowers.
Lela is survived by her husband; her children, Elizabeth "Libby" Lela Talley, Debbie Talley and fiance', Dave Campbell, and Stan Talley (Melody), all of Conway; a granddaughter, Megan Lela Farnum and boyfriend, Jake Campbell of Conway; and a brother, Daniel David Maddox, Jr. (Linda) of Quitman.
Lela's stepmother: Ruby Alma Ward Maddox #3112963
My mom ( Lela Mae Talley) is near the end of her life. I think she's lived a wonderful life. Of course I only know of the stories about her before I was born and when I was little, but the woman I know as mom is a great and wonderful woman. She was always strong, courageous, caring, generous with her time and energy, loving, ect. I can tell you many examples of each of those adjectives.
Now she's in a semi-comatose state. She's in the last stages of Alzheimer's that has taken her quality of life for so many years. We've done the best we could and are doing the best we can with keeping her happy and comfortable. For the most part I really think that she has been. I think after the facade of society faded away, the real person who I grew to love even more came out. She had me laughing almost every day, even the days I did cry in frustration and sadness, somehow she still made me laugh. She would tell everyone, even people she just met, how much she loved them and the people around her the most she'd say it and show it even more. She loved to hug, I still hug her. Somehow I know she's hugging me in a way that is different now, but still a hug. Mostly she's been a joy to take care of.
Yesterday really hit me hard. For over a year a now mom and I would sing Amazing Grace. When mom would get distracted or feel agitated, I would start singing it and most of the time she'd sing along. Erik, the Arkansas Hospice chaplain, visited he sang Amazing Grace to her. For the first time she didn't sing back. That just broke my heart to pieces. It made me realize just how close to her time it is. I truly think it broke his heart, too, he was having a difficult time keeping it together as he left.
I haven't put anything on here because each time I've started to I would start crying, which made it difficult to see, for one, but also gives me a headache so I would just go to bed. My dad and I are worn out. I saw my diabetic doctor last week and she immediately noticed in my body language and the lines in my face just how much caring for mom as much as I have has effected me. But, I wouldn't change it for the world. I haven't had much time to be on the computer in a long while. I leave around 5:30AM and get home after 8PM. By then I'm just too tired to turn on the computer and get in front of it. I turn the tv on, but it's not on for long because I'm soon asleep. I'm only up at this time, even as tired as I am (every nerve in my body is aching and screaming in pain), because I haven't had a chance to wash and dry clothes in over a week so I'm doing that. I figure this will keep me somewhat awake while the washing machine and dryer are working. After the last load, I'm just going to bed, though.
Dad, Stanley Bud Talley, is having a difficult time with my mom's transition. Last night he and I had our last class on Alzheimer's. It was on the subject of last rites, last wishes, comfort, and the end of life signs. I found it ironic, actually, that was the subject. Today the hospice nurse talked with dad about the same thing, but she added some thing that were said last night in class. Then she gave dad a book about it. I think he's slowly realizing, though, that he's got to accept what is going on with mom. I think she's holding on because of dad not yet accepting her passing. I told her yesterday that I hope and pray that she has a peacefully passing. And, I really do. This might seem harsh, but to me she's just suffering while she's waiting on whatever it is she's waiting on.
Before I go I just want to say that it seems as if my mom has a spirit or some other worldly being helping her. Dad and I know it's not their dog, Max, and that it's not any of the cats doing it. There have been a few times when the tv has turned on when no one else was in the room and mom's lamp on her table turns on and off on its own. I just find that interesting and pretty cool. BTW, on Saturday my dad and I took Max to the vet, it ends up that Max is depressed and has arthritis.
-Libby Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this past week.
My dear sweet mother has had a stroke. Many of you know of her battle with Alzheimer. She is now bed fast and totally dependent on us for her care. I was totally dependent on her complete care and attention at one time. Now it is time to show her the same dignity and respect. We are keeping her as comfortable as possible. Every now and then she will smile, laugh, or a tear will roll down her cheek. She has always been a loving, caring and giving person. She dedicated much of her life working with disabled adults. My dad Stanley Bud Talley is having a very hard time with this. He has spent more than half of his life loving her. She is a very special person to us and to many of you. Please keep her in your prayers.
-Debbie Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this week.
My mom
Lela Mae Talley
June 8, 1944 - April 10, 2015
Lela Mae Talley, born June 8, 1944 to Daniel David Maddox and Mary Ellen Beavers has gone to meet her Lord and Savior on April 10, 2015.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward Maddox, who loved Lela as her own daughter.
She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after 24 years of service. She dedicated her life to working with adults with disabilities. It was her greatest passion and pleasure to serve them.
She is preceded in death by both mothers and her father. Lela is survived by her husband of 51 years Stanley (Bud) Presley Talley, her 3 children Elizabeth (Libby) Lela Talley, Deborah (Debbie) Kay Talley and fiancé Darrell (Dave) David Campbell, Stanley (Stan) Brian Talley and wife Melody Talley all of Conway. Two granddaughters Megan Lela Farnum and Haley Lynn Bryant both of Conway. She is also survived by her brother Daniel David Maddox Jr. and his wife Linda Maddox of Quitman.
Visitation will be Sunday from 6:00-8:00p.m. at Roller McNutt Funeral Home. Funeral Service will be Monday April 13, 2015 at 1:00p.m. in the Funeral Home Chapel.
Following the service the family will gather at the home of Bobby and Sue Scroggins located at 4965 Prestonwood Rd. Conway, AR. 72034
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Arkansas Hospice at 2200 Fort Roots Dr. Little Rock, AR. 72114 and The Arkansas Alzheimer’s Association at 10411 W. Markham St. Suite 130 Little Rock, AR. 72205.
Lela Mae Talley, 70, a lifelong resident of Conway, Arkansas has gone to be with her Lord and Savior.
She was born in Conway on June 8, 1944 and graduated from Conway High School. Her parents were Daniel David Maddox, Sr. and Mary Ellen Beavers.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward, who loved Lela as her own daughter. She is preceded in death by both of her mothers and her father.
On May 21, 1964 Lela married the love of her life, Stanley "Bud" Talley. She also loved her dog - Max, and her cats - Sam, Lyn, and Blacky. She was a member of Harvest Church of the Nazarene, but also attended Bible Baptist Church. When she could no longer be a part of a congregation she enjoyed watching Pulaski Heights Methodist Church on the television. She was an avid Democrat all of her life. She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after working there for over 24 years. Before there she worked for quite some time at Tiffany Stand & Furniture. Her first job was SAS Shoe Factory. She collected owls. She also loved angels, fairies, children, and flowers.
Lela is survived by her husband; her children, Elizabeth "Libby" Lela Talley, Debbie Talley and fiance', Dave Campbell, and Stan Talley (Melody), all of Conway; a granddaughter, Megan Lela Farnum and boyfriend, Jake Campbell of Conway; and a brother, Daniel David Maddox, Jr. (Linda) of Quitman.
Lela's stepmother: Ruby Alma Ward Maddox #3112963
My mom ( Lela Mae Talley) is near the end of her life. I think she's lived a wonderful life. Of course I only know of the stories about her before I was born and when I was little, but the woman I know as mom is a great and wonderful woman. She was always strong, courageous, caring, generous with her time and energy, loving, ect. I can tell you many examples of each of those adjectives.
Now she's in a semi-comatose state. She's in the last stages of Alzheimer's that has taken her quality of life for so many years. We've done the best we could and are doing the best we can with keeping her happy and comfortable. For the most part I really think that she has been. I think after the facade of society faded away, the real person who I grew to love even more came out. She had me laughing almost every day, even the days I did cry in frustration and sadness, somehow she still made me laugh. She would tell everyone, even people she just met, how much she loved them and the people around her the most she'd say it and show it even more. She loved to hug, I still hug her. Somehow I know she's hugging me in a way that is different now, but still a hug. Mostly she's been a joy to take care of.
Yesterday really hit me hard. For over a year a now mom and I would sing Amazing Grace. When mom would get distracted or feel agitated, I would start singing it and most of the time she'd sing along. Erik, the Arkansas Hospice chaplain, visited he sang Amazing Grace to her. For the first time she didn't sing back. That just broke my heart to pieces. It made me realize just how close to her time it is. I truly think it broke his heart, too, he was having a difficult time keeping it together as he left.
I haven't put anything on here because each time I've started to I would start crying, which made it difficult to see, for one, but also gives me a headache so I would just go to bed. My dad and I are worn out. I saw my diabetic doctor last week and she immediately noticed in my body language and the lines in my face just how much caring for mom as much as I have has effected me. But, I wouldn't change it for the world. I haven't had much time to be on the computer in a long while. I leave around 5:30AM and get home after 8PM. By then I'm just too tired to turn on the computer and get in front of it. I turn the tv on, but it's not on for long because I'm soon asleep. I'm only up at this time, even as tired as I am (every nerve in my body is aching and screaming in pain), because I haven't had a chance to wash and dry clothes in over a week so I'm doing that. I figure this will keep me somewhat awake while the washing machine and dryer are working. After the last load, I'm just going to bed, though.
Dad, Stanley Bud Talley, is having a difficult time with my mom's transition. Last night he and I had our last class on Alzheimer's. It was on the subject of last rites, last wishes, comfort, and the end of life signs. I found it ironic, actually, that was the subject. Today the hospice nurse talked with dad about the same thing, but she added some thing that were said last night in class. Then she gave dad a book about it. I think he's slowly realizing, though, that he's got to accept what is going on with mom. I think she's holding on because of dad not yet accepting her passing. I told her yesterday that I hope and pray that she has a peacefully passing. And, I really do. This might seem harsh, but to me she's just suffering while she's waiting on whatever it is she's waiting on.
Before I go I just want to say that it seems as if my mom has a spirit or some other worldly being helping her. Dad and I know it's not their dog, Max, and that it's not any of the cats doing it. There have been a few times when the tv has turned on when no one else was in the room and mom's lamp on her table turns on and off on its own. I just find that interesting and pretty cool. BTW, on Saturday my dad and I took Max to the vet, it ends up that Max is depressed and has arthritis.
-Libby Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this past week.
My dear sweet mother has had a stroke. Many of you know of her battle with Alzheimer. She is now bed fast and totally dependent on us for her care. I was totally dependent on her complete care and attention at one time. Now it is time to show her the same dignity and respect. We are keeping her as comfortable as possible. Every now and then she will smile, laugh, or a tear will roll down her cheek. She has always been a loving, caring and giving person. She dedicated much of her life working with disabled adults. My dad Stanley Bud Talley is having a very hard time with this. He has spent more than half of his life loving her. She is a very special person to us and to many of you. Please keep her in your prayers.
-Debbie Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this week.
Lela Mae Talley
June 8, 1944 - April 10, 2015
Lela Mae Talley, born June 8, 1944 to Daniel David Maddox and Mary Ellen Beavers has gone to meet her Lord and Savior on April 10, 2015.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward Maddox, who loved Lela as her own daughter.
She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after 24 years of service. She dedicated her life to working with adults with disabilities. It was her greatest passion and pleasure to serve them.
She is preceded in death by both mothers and her father. Lela is survived by her husband of 51 years Stanley (Bud) Presley Talley, her 3 children Elizabeth (Libby) Lela Talley, Deborah (Debbie) Kay Talley and fiancé Darrell (Dave) David Campbell, Stanley (Stan) Brian Talley and wife Melody Talley all of Conway. Two granddaughters Megan Lela Farnum and Haley Lynn Bryant both of Conway. She is also survived by her brother Daniel David Maddox Jr. and his wife Linda Maddox of Quitman.
Visitation will be Sunday from 6:00-8:00p.m. at Roller McNutt Funeral Home. Funeral Service will be Monday April 13, 2015 at 1:00p.m. in the Funeral Home Chapel.
Following the service the family will gather at the home of Bobby and Sue Scroggins located at 4965 Prestonwood Rd. Conway, AR. 72034
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to The Arkansas Hospice at 2200 Fort Roots Dr. Little Rock, AR. 72114 and The Arkansas Alzheimer’s Association at 10411 W. Markham St. Suite 130 Little Rock, AR. 72205.
Lela Mae Talley, 70, a lifelong resident of Conway, Arkansas has gone to be with her Lord and Savior.
She was born in Conway on June 8, 1944 and graduated from Conway High School. Her parents were Daniel David Maddox, Sr. and Mary Ellen Beavers.She was blessed to have a stepmother, Ruby Alma Ward, who loved Lela as her own daughter. She is preceded in death by both of her mothers and her father.
On May 21, 1964 Lela married the love of her life, Stanley "Bud" Talley. She also loved her dog - Max, and her cats - Sam, Lyn, and Blacky. She was a member of Harvest Church of the Nazarene, but also attended Bible Baptist Church. When she could no longer be a part of a congregation she enjoyed watching Pulaski Heights Methodist Church on the television. She was an avid Democrat all of her life. She retired from Faulkner County Day School Workforce after working there for over 24 years. Before there she worked for quite some time at Tiffany Stand & Furniture. Her first job was SAS Shoe Factory. She collected owls. She also loved angels, fairies, children, and flowers.
Lela is survived by her husband; her children, Elizabeth "Libby" Lela Talley, Debbie Talley and fiance', Dave Campbell, and Stan Talley (Melody), all of Conway; a granddaughter, Megan Lela Farnum and boyfriend, Jake Campbell of Conway; and a brother, Daniel David Maddox, Jr. (Linda) of Quitman.
Lela's stepmother: Ruby Alma Ward Maddox #3112963
My mom ( Lela Mae Talley) is near the end of her life. I think she's lived a wonderful life. Of course I only know of the stories about her before I was born and when I was little, but the woman I know as mom is a great and wonderful woman. She was always strong, courageous, caring, generous with her time and energy, loving, ect. I can tell you many examples of each of those adjectives.
Now she's in a semi-comatose state. She's in the last stages of Alzheimer's that has taken her quality of life for so many years. We've done the best we could and are doing the best we can with keeping her happy and comfortable. For the most part I really think that she has been. I think after the facade of society faded away, the real person who I grew to love even more came out. She had me laughing almost every day, even the days I did cry in frustration and sadness, somehow she still made me laugh. She would tell everyone, even people she just met, how much she loved them and the people around her the most she'd say it and show it even more. She loved to hug, I still hug her. Somehow I know she's hugging me in a way that is different now, but still a hug. Mostly she's been a joy to take care of.
Yesterday really hit me hard. For over a year a now mom and I would sing Amazing Grace. When mom would get distracted or feel agitated, I would start singing it and most of the time she'd sing along. Erik, the Arkansas Hospice chaplain, visited he sang Amazing Grace to her. For the first time she didn't sing back. That just broke my heart to pieces. It made me realize just how close to her time it is. I truly think it broke his heart, too, he was having a difficult time keeping it together as he left.
I haven't put anything on here because each time I've started to I would start crying, which made it difficult to see, for one, but also gives me a headache so I would just go to bed. My dad and I are worn out. I saw my diabetic doctor last week and she immediately noticed in my body language and the lines in my face just how much caring for mom as much as I have has effected me. But, I wouldn't change it for the world. I haven't had much time to be on the computer in a long while. I leave around 5:30AM and get home after 8PM. By then I'm just too tired to turn on the computer and get in front of it. I turn the tv on, but it's not on for long because I'm soon asleep. I'm only up at this time, even as tired as I am (every nerve in my body is aching and screaming in pain), because I haven't had a chance to wash and dry clothes in over a week so I'm doing that. I figure this will keep me somewhat awake while the washing machine and dryer are working. After the last load, I'm just going to bed, though.
Dad, Stanley Bud Talley, is having a difficult time with my mom's transition. Last night he and I had our last class on Alzheimer's. It was on the subject of last rites, last wishes, comfort, and the end of life signs. I found it ironic, actually, that was the subject. Today the hospice nurse talked with dad about the same thing, but she added some thing that were said last night in class. Then she gave dad a book about it. I think he's slowly realizing, though, that he's got to accept what is going on with mom. I think she's holding on because of dad not yet accepting her passing. I told her yesterday that I hope and pray that she has a peacefully passing. And, I really do. This might seem harsh, but to me she's just suffering while she's waiting on whatever it is she's waiting on.
Before I go I just want to say that it seems as if my mom has a spirit or some other worldly being helping her. Dad and I know it's not their dog, Max, and that it's not any of the cats doing it. There have been a few times when the tv has turned on when no one else was in the room and mom's lamp on her table turns on and off on its own. I just find that interesting and pretty cool. BTW, on Saturday my dad and I took Max to the vet, it ends up that Max is depressed and has arthritis.
-Libby Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this past week.
My dear sweet mother has had a stroke. Many of you know of her battle with Alzheimer. She is now bed fast and totally dependent on us for her care. I was totally dependent on her complete care and attention at one time. Now it is time to show her the same dignity and respect. We are keeping her as comfortable as possible. Every now and then she will smile, laugh, or a tear will roll down her cheek. She has always been a loving, caring and giving person. She dedicated much of her life working with disabled adults. My dad Stanley Bud Talley is having a very hard time with this. He has spent more than half of his life loving her. She is a very special person to us and to many of you. Please keep her in your prayers.
-Debbie Talley posted this on her Facebook earlier this week.
